✨Rҽαԃιɳɠʂ ɯιƚԋ Sҽʅҽɳҽ ✨

🕯️𝔗𝔞𝔯𝔬𝔱 ℜ𝔢𝔞𝔡𝔢𝔯, 𝔚𝔯𝔦𝔱𝔢𝔯, 23🕯️

[readingswithselene]

There should be more goals and hopes for life than wanting to improve and be the best version of yourself.

Do that thing, try that hobby, learn cooking that dinner just because you can and want too. Not because you want to be fitter, hotter, better and smarter.

You are already enough as you are. Just have some fun 💗✨

[perfectfeelings]

“Don’t wait for things to get easier, simpler, better. Life will always be complicated. Learn to be happy right now. Otherwise, you’ll run out of time.”

— Unknown

[remanence-of-love]

[dafancyuhinspiration]

[bitchy-craft]

PICK A CARD: oracle messages from your spirit animals

Hello and welcome to this new reading! I have a bunch of oracle decks at home, self-made and made by other people and I wanted to put them to use more. I hope you all enjoy!

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Pile 1:

Bear: Go within for your answers and find great strength.

Wolf: Trust your instincts and the spiritual path you walk.

Lion: Step into your natural leadership role now.

Eagle: Gain a higher perspective to see the entire situation.

Buffalo: Give thanks for all you have been provided.

Beaver: you posess the skills to build your dreams.

Hawk: focus your attention clearly on your priorities.

Cougar: Be bold, decisive, and take charge of your life

Badger: Be determined; your persistence will pay off.

Black Panther: embrace the mystery and your hidden power.

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Pile 2:

Butterfly: A major joyful transformation is unfolding.

Snake: Shed the old skin; healing and renewal are here.

Dolphin: communicate clearly and invite joy and playfulness.

Owl: See through the illusions; trust your deep intuition.

Dove: take a moment to slow down, pause, and breathe deeply.

Dragonfly: Everything is an illusion; see the light and magic.

Fox: Use your cunning and quick wit to navigate challenges.

Lizard: Pay attention to your dreams and inner visions (dreamtimeee).

Mouse: Look closely at the details; examine the small things.

Raccoon: Prepare to gather resources for future needs.

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Pile 3:

Antelope: Be ready for action; move with agility and grace.

Coyote: A trickster is at play; don't take things too seriously.

Deer: Approach others and yourself with gentleness and kindness.

Squirrel: Find the balance between work, planning and play.

Dog: The greatest gift is unconditional love and loyalty.

Hummingbird: Savor the sweet nectar of life and enjoy the moment.

Giraffe: Use your foresight to plan for the distant future.

Otter: Release your burdens and flow with the current of life.

Cat (domestic one): Be independent and assert your sensual self.

Chimpanzee: Focus on social interaction and group cooperation.

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[readingswithselene]

Can we talk about the fact that the lyrics that were leaked in Blank Space a couple days ago are not on the life of a Show Girl ?

[cadyflowers]

pac : how your future husband views u🌷

hiiii i'm cady🌷 this reading is filled with sugar, stardust, and soft admiration. take a deep breath, connect to your heart, and choose the pile that calls to you most to discover how your future hubby will view u💍🌷

pile I: your future hubby will look at you like you’re his miracle!!!! you walked into his life when he was about to give up hope and suddenly, there you were, smiling. he will be in awe of your heart: soft, creative, and sincere and sweet, he loves ur smile u remind him that love can be pure, he'll admire your patience and how you never rush anything. he will love ur cooking. ur the person he'll want to build a life with sweetly nd securely. he will want to wife u up immediately, ur his dream wife

pile II: ur future hubby loves your body and heart, he'll admire your strength, your sparkle and the way you light up a room without even trying. he'llalso deeply respect your sense of fairness you never pretend to be someone you're not. u stand tall nd speak your truth and somehow still manage to be kind. to him you’re not just beautiful you’re brilliant. he'll see u as his wifey in every way: a teammate, a muse, a force. he'll be proud of u and ur relationship, he loves to spoil u. roses every week typa vibe.

pile III: oh my goodness, ur future hubby will be so soft for you. he'll view you as someone who brings warmth, peace, and healing into his life. like a cup of tea on a rainy day or a hug that feels like home. u might remind him of a younger, more innocent version of himself when he was a kiddo and he'll feel safe being vulnerable with you. he'll see u as someone he was meant to meet. soulmates, twin flames. loving u will feel like remembering something his soul always knew. pure, gentle and full of magic. probably will get u a big ass ring.

🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

[doingjustdivine]

✨ Pick a Pile: The Sweetness of Your Love Story ✨

Every love story has its own flavor. Some are wild and messy, some soft and steady, some full of laughter and rebellion. These are the little signs and details that will make your future relationship or union feel uniquely yours.

Take a breath, look at the images, and choose the one that pulls you in most. That’s where your message is waiting.

💐 Pile 1

The sign will be in how supported you feel. This love shows up for you when you’re too tired to carry it all yourself, sometimes literally sweeping you off your feet. You’ll notice that their instinct is to protect, to comfort, to shoulder the weight with you. What makes this love special is the ease of leaning in, of not needing to always be strong. With them, surrender feels safe, not scary.

💍 Pile 2

The signs will be in the quiet gestures. Their hand finding yours in a crowd, their voice steady when everything else feels chaotic, the way they remember tiny details without needing to be reminded. This is commitment that doesn’t shout, it’s whispered into daily rituals and lived out in small acts of devotion. When you realize you don’t have to question if they’ll stay, you’ll know. Love here looks like constancy.

🥂 Pile 3

The sign will be in the freedom you feel. With them, you can drop every mask, every “should,” every script someone else handed you. This love doesn’t want perfection, it wants your fire, your flaws, your realness. You’ll know it’s the one when you can laugh too loud, curse in your vows, or dance in your living room at 2am without feeling judged. They love you because you’re alive and unapologetic, and that’s what makes this love a rebellion worth choosing.

🍒 Pile 4

The signs will be in sweetness, in how even the smallest things feel like a celebration. It’s not about grand gestures but about playing with desserts after midnight, little luxuries, the indulgence of being loved without restraint. This love sprinkles cherries on top just because. You’ll know it’s the one when joy sneaks into ordinary routines and your laughter feels like music filling the room.

💌 As always, take what resonates and leave the rest.

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[harmoonix]

Astrology Observations

- Sunsetstone -

Air Mercuries or in air houses 3rd/7th/11th house have their own way of talking and can create their own words to communicate with others (even nicknames)

Lilith aspecting the Moon can indicate being criticized/judged/envied by other women in hateful ways

Lilith aspecting Mars or Neptune can indicate others might see you as a competitor and might try to compete with you (men and women)

Lilith in the 1st, 8th and 10th house can be harshly se*ualized by other people. They might see you as an object

Lilith in the 4th and 6th houses has a natural submissive energy about them which other ppl love

Pluto or Lilith in the 7th house can create jealousy when it comes to other people's relationships. It's like you wanna be theirs but they don't wanna be yours because theyre taken

Venus aspecting Saturn can indicate attracting people who can be emotionally unavailable (not feeling the same as you/rejection)

Sun in the 2nd house can become very greedy if is unhealed. They can think that they 'own' everything

South Node in the 9th house or Sagittarius can feel 'attracted' or 'send' to places they never been as a sign that maybe their past life has a connection with that specific place

South Node in the 8th house could've had a lot of se*ual experiences in their past life. They could've been a pro

Saturn or South Node in the 6th house can indicate a position where you need to be aware of your responsibilities and work ethic/work smarter not harder

11th house Sun can give one 'the popular effect' as in having lots of people around them but in the same time they can also feel very lonely in cases of (Aquarius/Scorpio/Pisces suns)

If you have Moon in the 6th house is very important to prioritize your mental health as it can be draining to maintain your peace

Fire Signs/Mars/Pluto in the 3rd signs can indicate lots of arguments with the siblings and in some cases being treated differently from them

Mars in fire signs is very active and needs a lot of movement in the body. You can do walks,sports even dancing helps

Venus in the air signs pays a lot of attention to the other person's ways of thinking and mentality. They're attracted to the brain

Venus in the 2° 14° 26° degrees can indicate a love or passion for money or being rich/wealthy

Mercury at 10° or 22° degrees can indicate the native knows more than what they try to show to the world

Mars/Mercury at 8° 20° degrees can indicate a passion for knowing others secrets and hidden things

Pluto or Mars in 1° 13° 25° degrees can become independent while young/earlier than others. Don't have to depend on other people

[hwnglx]

pick a pile - your favourite things about your fs vs. your fs’ favourite things about you (detailed)

welcome back, dear reader. let's look into your favorite things about your future lover, and your future lover’s favorite things about you. note that this is a general reading, so not everything will resonate with everyone! it also highlights the positive sides of the connection. breathe slowly, take your time and use your intuition to go with the pile that speaks to you the most. remember to take what resonates, and let the rest flow. *ੈ✩‧₊˚

𓂃⭑ pile 1 ⭑𓂃

your favourite things about your fs

your fs has this ability, to give you a push in confidence. to help you believe in yourself more, and see yourself as the queen or king that you are. they will quite literally shower you in sweet words, are amazing at flattering.

there's this major theme of “you are such a badass and you need to know about it” they will have the ability to change the way you look at yourself, due to them cherishing you so much.

like calling you beautiful no matter which state you're in; after you just woke up barefaced in the morning, while you're getting ready, while you're focusing on your studies or work.

one of your favorite things about your fs, is how supportive they are of you, particularly when it comes to your own individual pursuits and goals.

i can especially see this in regards to decision-making; you might be someone who can struggle making a strong choice and standing behind it at times. your fs has the potential to help you be more sure of yourself, and strongly push yourself forward in a way that gives you a lot of personal success.

in a “don't overthink it so much, just go for it.” type of way. you'll love how they can get you out of your head, and open your eyes to the power you hold.

i can see this translating into numerous areas of your life; career-wise, personality-wise, appearance-wise, socially. you're likely the type of person who just glows in a different way, when they're in love. your friends could probably see something about your aura shifting, in a ✨ beautiful ✨ way.

you love that your fs is quite literally your no 1 fan, the person who makes you feel special, encourages you, empowers you.

i can see them being quite open and unapologetic about their support too. your fs is immensely proud of being with someone like you, so it's likely most people will know about it.

they'll quite literally gaze at you with so much sparkle and admiration in their eyes.

you will love how your fs isn't a person who ever puts themselves above you. they're very fair-minded, and balanced in their approach to your connection.

let's say you gifted something to your fs, it's not unlikely you'll see a surprise present as a thank you on your desk after you come home from work. there's this feeling of always wanting to give back what you give them.

they seem quite generous in terms of their finances, like the type to willingly splurge on expensive things for you.

i don't see the connection being one of extremely clingy or obsessive nature, and moreso one where the two of you are each other's main sources of support, the person you can comfortably fall back on if anything ever goes wrong.

your fs will provide you with this feeling that.. “even if i fail everything in life, this person will love me regardless. life can still be beautiful.” this can give you a renewed and stronger sense of courage, to step out of your comfort zone and take the leap of faith you might've put off for a while.

on a deeper note; i can see your future lover also making you realize you're lovable in every way, regardless of the emotional baggage and wounds you can potentially come with.

there might be some reluctance in you when it comes to laying your soul bare to people and making yourself vulnerable; you might worry it could turn them off, or make them see you in a different light.

i heard the chorus of jb's unstable here “i tried to scare you away, showed you the door, you adored me anyway. when i was broken in pieces, you were my peace of mind.”

you'll love, how your fs will embrace your flaws lovingly, accept your mistakes and still cherish you throughout everything. also, they won't force vulnerability. they'll allow it to unfold.

a lot of deep and heartfelt conversation. i see your fs being good at provoding you with emotional safety, and facilitating an environment, where you don't feel ashamed to talk about your deepest, darkest secrets to them.

and sometimes, you don't even have to say anything for your future lover to understand what you're feeling - they just get it. they'll be at a point where they just know you that well.

your bond will continue to grow deeper and more intimate through the two of you, especially you, learning how it's okay to open yourself up emotionally to a person. they still won't love you any less, or see you as any less than you are.

even if there's problems in your relationship, the depth of your connection always remains. the two of you help understand each other in a deeper manner. there is a lot of significant and meaningful life lessons you can learn from each other.

your fs' favourite things about you

for some of you, you might've been the one who pursued your fs. and they loved that about you.

the beginning of the spread suggests that your fs deeply admires the way you go after what, and who, you want. boldly, unapologetically, and with purpose.

what they love even more is how you continue to show up consistently. you're not just passionate in the beginning; you put in the work to keep the connection stable and growing.

it's something that gives them a sense of security in the relationship. knowing that you're always striving, not just for yourself, but for your shared future.

your fs loves how you communicate and talk to them. a lot of them might find the way you text them very endearing, some of you could text in this very animated and playful way.

they love that you're so witty, and the way things rarely get dull when they're with you. you might poke and tease them a lot, unafraid of talking back in a sassy manner. you just keep them on their toes, and bring a lighthearted spark to the relationship that they adore.

they love how you balance your sense of humor and playful energy, with a strong sense of focus and work ethic. you're fun, yes, but also grounded, driven, and committed to bettering yourself. that blend of personality traits is something they find incredibly attractive.

interestingly, i mentioned earlier how they find your focused expression really cute, and that theme seems to be repeating. there's something about the way you concentrate, that they find completely adorable.

i could see you guys being younger in age than your fs, there could be a cute height difference too, which your fs could tease you about (like you having to go on your tippy toes to give them a kiss and them playing with you by pulling away)

the energy between you two is sweet and doting. your fs sees you as the most adorable person they know, someone who capable of making them smile constantly.

the two of you could potentially be a couple of two fire signs. i'm feeling leo and aries strongly. particularly sun or venus. this connection is vibrant, passionate, and full of strong personalities.

you two could also have 5h synastry.

your fs loves how you match, or even challenge, their fiery energy. you might even be the one humbling them with your sass and confidence. they love that you can meet their intensity without ever losing your own shine.

they also love how you allow them to be their own person. how you don't brake your fs from having their individual pursuits in life. you encourage their passions, support their goals, and celebrate their individuality.

also worthy to note, that your fs doesn't only appreciate that animated side in you, but also cherishes the sense of harmony you bring into you dynamic.

there's something about your energy they find to be very comforting, healing and soothing. like you're their comfort person and safe space, basically.

there's a little bit of this.. “you're the most precious gift of my life” type of love they have for you.

the connection never really feels like it settles or goes stale. even once things should've become familiar, once the spark and excitement should've started to quiet down the way it does for some couples.. somehow, it still feels new.

something about the way you love, or the way you show up in the relationship, constantly breathes fresh life into it.

your future lover doesn't just feel lucky to have met you. they feel lucky to keep meeting new sides of you all the time. they're continuously unfolding new reasons to fall in love with you, over and over again.

being around you reminds them that love isn’t only about fire and butterflies. it’s also about feeling safe, seen and treasured.

in addition, your fs admires your resilience. they love how you aren't one to allow life to break you down, but on the contrary, you find ways to rise above. whether it's through personal challenges, heartbreak, or difficult moments.. you don’t just let yourself be defeated. you keep moving forward.

they love that you're eager to use every lesson learned, as fuel to push yourself toward the next chapter.

your fs sees and acknowledges, how you've weathered your storms with grace, and it's not only something they deeply respect, but something that makes them love you, very dearly.

thank you for reading! i'd love to hear your feedback on what resonated for you <3

𓂃⭑ pile 2 ⭑𓂃

your favourite things about your fs

so to start off this pile, you give me the energy of an introvert, who's usually more comfortable in their own company. being with people might get tiring for you quickly, which is why you like to retreat into your own space at times.

what you will love about your future lover, is how adaptable they are. they're incredibly accepting, open-minded, and tolerant.

they aren't a person who's pushy, intrusive or stubborn; but a person, who's willing to match themselves to you. they'll be ready to adjust to your pace, your comfort levels, your boundaries, and approach you with a comfortingly understanding presence.

you'll appreciate how they rarely take offense when you need space or time alone. they aren't the type to guilt you for withdrawing, they'll simply leave you room to breathe.

your future lover displays an existence that supports you through your journey of finding your best self. someone who helps you understand yourself better.

there is a huge focus on comfort here. your energy is a little heavy. like someone carrying the weight of past pain.. many of you might've been through a lot.. emotionally, mentally, spiritually. perhaps some wounds from your childhood too.

i heard jungkook's seven “weight of the world on your shoulders, i kiss your waist and ease your mind”

this song is a little heavy.. but i somehow kept being drawn to ghostin' by ariana grande. “i'm a girl with a whole lot of baggage, but i love you”

your fs is someone who can help you let go of the past, that might've been weighing on you for a good while. it's almost like, you've been walking through life with all this emotional baggage on your back, and you just carried it by yourself, because you had to, and you didn't know any else. your future spouse will finally lighten it up for you. you will feel more free.

you'll love how your fs provides you with this beautiful feeling of “i finally found my person.”

they have a deeply empathetic energy, with high emotional intelligence. they're emotionally mature. someone who meets you with patience, not pressure.

even if you enter the connection still holding onto certain wounds or patterns, your future spouse won't run from that. they'll stay. they'll help you face what you've buried, and little by little, they'll walk beside you as you heal and uncover new sides of yourself.

they'll open your eyes to the beauty in the world.. in people, in connection, in joy. they'll show you that genuine souls do exist. that you're not too much. that there are people who simply love being around you for who you are.

they might introduce you to their circle, bringing new, healthy friendships into your life.

spirit gave me this metaphor of.. “you've been on the moon this whole time. i will introduce the sun to you now.” and you will be fascinated by the warmth. maybe because you haven't truly felt it in that way before.

it's likely for both of you to have significant water placements. i'm feeling scorpio and pisces strongly. perhaps you're the pisces, and they're the scorpio. doesn't have to be the sun. ofc you could also have conjunctions, and share placements.

there's also a libran way in which they love and approach the world, so i could see them having a libra rising, or libra venus.

i'm also sensing potential eighth house synastry, due to the transformative nature of your relationship. there's a strong theme of you constantly evolving within this bond, shedding layers and becoming more of who you're meant to be. (if you're a pisces rising, libra could fall into your eighth house.)

this person is likely to be more mature than you, maybe older in age. but with that maturity, there's also this sense of them being more in tune with their emotions, as in, they're more comfortable with their feelings.

while reading, i kept feeling the need to speak in a quieter voice, it was almost like there was a lump in my throat.

some of you might struggle speaking up at times, especially when it comes to how you feel. you may have been made to feel like your emotions were too much, or unworthy of space in the past. you may have gone through situations where your voice was purposely quieted. so over time, it became habitual..

this person's existence is like a warm hug, that'll find you right when you need it the most. your future lover will provide you with a sense of gentle compassion.

this love isn't superficial or based on shallow things; it's a love that goes deep, and loves in its entirety. your fs' love is one, that will embrace you with everything that you come with. even the things you yourself have always seen as unlovable.

this can help you to open up your eyes. it's almost like a butterfly, finally being able to see its own beautiful wings.

this union will feel like two people who were meant to be with each other, finally finding to each other, and beautifully completing each other's worlds.

your fs' favorite things about you

the way the two spreads aligned was so beautiful.. i may have shed a tear or two. (yes i actually did i got emotional lol)

so in the first part of the reading, there was some bittersweetness in terms of your feelings of loneliness, that you've carried within you throughout your life.

what's so sweet is, that your fs sees your independence as one of their favourite things about you. it's this feeling of, them seeing what you might condemn about yourself at times, as something genuinely beautiful from their perspective.

in your fs' eyes, there's just something so admirable, about how you've showed up for yourself till now.

you exude a calm and serene presence, one that makes it hard for others to truly get close. as if you're comfortably wrapped in your own quiet world.

this might've been one of their first impressions of you, and what drew them to you from the start.

the energy is strikingly similar to pile 2 from this reading. maybe you could look into it, in case you're more curious about their potential first impression of you.

i keep getting the theme of nature, so there could be a lot settings in nature for your relationship. maybe they first saw you in nature.

interestingly, i keep seeing flower fields and gardens in my minds eye. maybe your first date? or do you use flowery scents? also, something about animals. you might have a lot of love for animals and feel a special connection to them, which your fs finds wonderful.

your future lover might also be incredibly poetic. i could see them comparing you to a flower a lot, and saying slightly cheesy, but lovely things like that. they just see as so beautiful. like a piece of art you can't help but be in awe of.

they see you as immensely intelligent. your future spouse admires how much complexity you hold. how you're not someone who lives on the surface. there's this admiration of the depth your soul has, and how many layers there are to you.

your future spouse loves that you aren't easy to figure out. not because you're hiding, but because you've learned to protect your softness. every step closer to your heart feels like a gift to them, one they don't take for granted.

i can see you opening up to them slowly, and their love growing deeper with each layer they get to uncover. the more they understand you, the more they cherish you.

honestly, they love how much effort it takes to truly know you. might sound weird, but your fs actually enjoys having to put in the work to get past the walls around your heart.

they love it, because it's you. it feels worth it. being rewarded with someone they see as so precious, someone who brings such depth and richness to their life.. nothing else compares. it doesn't feel tiring to them.

random note, but i could see some of you having an earth venus, or maybe saturn in the 7h. in fact, the pisces risings watching this, would have a virgo (earth) descendant/7h 🫵🏻

your fs could have some strong earth placements too, in addition to the water placements.

your future lover's favorite thing to witness is those moments when you break free from your shell. when you let go of hesitation and fully immerse yourself in what brings you joy. they love seeing you light up, completely lost in the moment, expressing your passion without holding back.

if there's one thing they deeply wish to give you, it's the safety and encouragement to feel free. to let your light shine without fear of judgment. they never want you to dim yourself to make others comfortable.

in their eyes, you're a radiant, warm, and uniquely vibrant soul. they're drawn to the moments when your confidence sparks, when you choose your joy over your fears.

i was reminded of the bollywood film “kal ho naa hoo”, where the male lead quietly helps the female lead discover the beauties of life again. and watches her, as she begins to bloom in her own light. he doesn't rescue her.. he simply reminds her of the light she carries, and watches her shine.

note; i also kept feeling drawn to a few songs while being in this pile's energy, you might resonate with some of them:

glimpse of us by joji

just one day by bts

god is a woman by ariana grande

thank you for reading! i'd love to hear your feedback on what resonated for you <3

𓂃⭑ pile 3 ⭑𓂃

your favourite things about your fs

the main energy i'm getting here is that, you will recognize parts of yourself in your fs, which will give you this sense of familiarity with them. even if you don't really know them yet.

you know the feeling when you're looking at someone, and something about them just.. feels like you've known them for years. i could for sure see this being a past life connection too.

one aspect which i could see the two of you bonding over, is both of you being wrapped up in similar circumstances.

this is specific so, take it if it resonates. but when you meet your future lover, some of you might feel dissatisfied with where you're at in life, especially when it comes to the general direction it's going in. maybe your current job isn't truly emotionally fulfilling you.

there's a sense of apathy and emotional numbness. you might feel like you're at a point in life, where your life is just passing by you. nothing really feels all that exciting, it feels stale and stagnant.

this could also be rooted in past heartbreak. it could've caused you to grow more pessimistic, cynical and guarded.

meeting your fs, will feel like a breath of fresh air. they will come to you with a reassuring presence, like you're not the only one who feels this way.

the song the only by sasha alex sloan started playing in my head while reading.

you will love your fs' realistic approach towards the world. this isn't someone who escapes into their fantasy dream world, and has their head in the clouds. they're quite pragmatic, rational, and unafraid to speak the truth when it's necessary.

their lack of filter and honesty might come off as overly blunt to some people. but to you, it's refreshing. it's likely something that will draw you to them.

they're the person who's likely to point out the elephant in the room, while everyone else is walking on eggshells.

worthy to note though, is that i don't see this person being tactless, despite their outspoken attitude. they weigh their words out, but don't water them down.

you love how committed your future spouse is to the things that are important to them. they're the type of person who dedicates all their efforts to what they value, willing to show up, and put in consistent work to achieve their objectives.

your future lover is immensely protective. there is a strong sense of security they can provide you with. someone who just makes you feel like no one in the world can hurt you.

they're quite literally your human shield; the one who will place themselves in front of you, if anyone ever dares badmouthing or attacking you. they do lean towards the territorial side.

there's this feeling of.. after all i've been through, there's no storm i can't face at this point. now even more, with someone steady and loyal by my side, who resembles me in that regard.

in addition, you love the sense of wisdom your fs brings to the table. they might be an older soul, or simply person who's had significant life experiences for their age, which have shaped them into a person who's mature, and full of knowledge about life. they're introspective, and reflective.

this is something you could take note of, as the relationship progresses, and you engage in more deep and layered conversations with them. ones that go beyond the mundane and shallow topics.

i'm strongly getting earth energy, especially virgo or taurus. something mercurial about them, but also grounded and stable. additionally, there might be air energy such as aquarius or gemini, giving them a sharp intellect, wit and eloquence.

both of you read as being on the mature side, but your dynamic also seems very fun.

your future lover has the potential to bring out an inner softness in you, which might've been buried before. there's this sense of feeling younger, more playful, more free, and more hopeful when you're with them. like your future lover reawakening the inner child in you, that genuinely enjoys to live again.

in addition, you'll just feel like you can let loose when you're with your fs, you don't need to put on any act, or worry about what they'll think. you can be yourself in your entirety, and know your lover will adore you just the way you are.

this is random lmao, but you could literally burp around them, hang around with unwashed hair, no make up, pimples, whatever it is.. it'll just be comfortable, and come with a sense of ease, and lightheartedness.

i feel like your current environment might make you feel misunderstood. you might struggle finding someone who shares similar thoughts and outlooks as you.

what your fs can give you, is the feeling of being understood. they have similar principles and values in life as you do, and both of your life-paths align beautifully.

that mutual understanding has the potential to shift your perspective in a more positive light, and help you see things in a more optimistic manner again.

the emotional intimacy between the two of you will be special. there'll be things about each other, that only the the two of you know about. private moments, quiet nights, deep talks. your alone time will be meaningful, and the connection will be one that recharges you, instead of draining you.

i keep thinking of the sentence “being alone, together.”

your fs' favourite things about you

your fs will feel very attracted to you early on. they'll have this impression of you being a beautifully feminine and sensual individual. you'll awaken a lot of desire in them.

it's likely you'll shake up their world from the moment you enter their life. you'll just have a strong impact on them, from the beginning, they'll look at you as someone who makes an impression everywhere they go. like you enter the room, your fs' eyes are fixed on you. constantly. something about you they can't deny.

your future lover, will admire the strength you hold. they'll love that you're a person who can be logical and cut-throat when you really need to. they'll see you as intelligent, witty and strategic. someone who has a quick mind, a lot of intellect. you're just the type of person no one can really fool.

something about the way you communicate in particular, will intrigue them. you give them the impression of someone you can hold immensely interesting conversations with.

there's something about the way you bring a blend of several qualities to the table, which they adore. you can be very mature and rational at times, but they also recognize a down to earth, humble, and incredibly ambitious side to you.

your fs is likely to see you as a person who's always looking to learn more from life, and expand to higher places.

this is very specific, so it might not resonate with everyone, but some of your fs' might be your seniors at work, uni or school. so they look at you in this more “student” type of role.

for others, this could just apply to the grounded attitude you carry. how you're someone who's continuously looking to improve themselves. quite self-critical and hard on themselves, but also not easy to please in general.

your fs will love the sense of peace you bring into the relationship. they'll genuinely appreciate how you're someone who can provide them with the rest that they're in need of at times. solely being with you, makes them calm down.

your existence in itself is a source of comfort to them. their favourite thing to do with you, could quite literally be the most ordinary activities; like laying down at the end of the day, with candles lit, watching some random movie and cuddling. it's then, that they can finally exhale in a restful manner, and completely release their pent up stress.

i could see the both of you being career-oriented, and offering a type of outlet for each other. like you put your nose into your work all day, and look forward to spending the end of the day with each other, in order to just let go of the accumulated, inner tension. there's this beautiful sense of quiet, but strong support you can provide for each other in that way.

(this pile is sooo taurus coded..)

this is something i can see slowly developing as your connection deepens, but your fs is likely to genuinely appreciate you being a good listener. someone who just knows how to make them feel seen, and cared about.

as i said before, i can see the two of you bonding over shared experiences. this unique type of understanding you'll have for one another, is likely to bring your future lover a lot of healing.

the addition of you in their lives, can light their otherwise stressful life up in the most wonderful way. having someone by their side, who they share a genuine emotional connection with, will bring them this feeling of peace.

i just keep seeing this scene in my minds eye, of them looking you in the eyes, and feeling like.. okay, everything's fine again. you give them a sense of renewed hope, and inner strength.

what's worth to note for this pile, is that i probably had the hardest time tapping into the energy of your dynamic. there's just something remarkably private and intimate about your connection.

i really don't see you enjoying to share about it too much with others. when you're together, it feels as if it's just the two of you on planet earth.

the song my love mine all mine started playing on shuffle while i was writing this, might resonate with you guys..

thank you for reading! i'd love to hear your feedback on what resonated for you <3

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Otherworldly Storytelling you need a whole Dictionary for like Taylor

Heart crushing real feeling Ballads like Olivia

funny unhinged yet deeply feeling with double meaning lyrics like Sabrina

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⊹ ! ೀ Pile 1 ꒱

In terms of character, they have an incredibly romantic character and greatly value passion. For them, romance is not possible without attraction and passion. I honestly don’t know what to say here because I wanted to look at their character outside of love and relationships but due to how romantic they are, messages about it are coming through the strongest. They value passion itself and feel the most alive when they’re doing something they’re passionate about, and in fact, they really enjoy the chase. They really enjoy the phase during which they’re pursuing someone. Another thing that I’m picking up on is that at the time that you’ll meet them, they’ll be thinking about how much potential they had/have but were unable to make good use of it and bring it to life or aren’t being able to do so. I keep on getting messages about romance and their love life even though I’m trying not to go there, and I believe that’s because romance has been a huge part of their life. I personally wouldn’t want to hear this so I didn’t want to say it either but their past experiences with past partners or love interests will have greatly affected who they will be when you meet them and again, I wouldn’t want to hear this so I didn’t want to talk about this but I have no choice but to talk about how their love life will have affected them and carved their character, and personality. They’ll be thinking about the potential of their past connections but I’m not getting them thinking about it in a “what could have been” but instead in a more scorned and disappointed yet slightly detached manner. They’ll have felt powerless due to whatever happened and will be thinking about how they were deceived, manipulated, and where the people that they were involved with were just lazy. They’ll be thinking about how half-heartedly the person or people they were involved with were putting in effort and they’ll be disappointed about it. I’m not getting any positive emotion or longing attached to the past. They’ll have pretty much gotten over it, it is just that they’ll be disappointed. Things will be foggy for them at that time, they’ll be thinking a lot and will be spending a lot of time by themself due to the desire to think, and figure things out. I’m not getting them being confused because they’re attached to the past or anything of that sort. In fact, it seems to be quite the opposite. They’ll be extremely determined to move forward by themself because they’ll be feeling tricked by their past and disappointed at it, and will want to gain more knowledge about themself and life through it, and grow as a person so that they can move forward with more clarity. They’ll be fine with not knowing everything. In fact, they’ll be seeking answers and clarity from within, internally rather than externally. Externally, they’ll be kind of extreme with isolating themself but it will be because that’s what they’ll be needing at that time, they’ll be growing and gaining clarity, and wisdom through it.

Also, in terms of romance, they’ll have gotten extremely intense. They’re a passionate person so it makes sense that they would be intense but they’ll have gotten even more intense than they naturally were due to their past experiences. They’ll have felt unseen and unworthy in the past, and some of your spouses will have grown acceptance of their romantic and passionate character so they’ll be craving a more intense experience in romance, and a partner who can handle such intensity but honestly, they’ll be fine being alone, that’s what they’ll be needing, seeking and craving the most. They’ll be a naturally intense and indulgent partner. It is actually very sweet, they’re going to indulge into the romantic experience and their partner completely. When they’re in love, they tend to be so in love that they do not want to look at anyone else or think of anyone else. They want to indulge in this and only this but they expect the same from their partner, and due to how intensely romantic and passionate they are, they lose their mind when their partner is not able to live up to their ideals and ability of romance. I don’t think that they’re the problem but more so that the world is not this romantic 💀. They genuinely are able to love this way and feel love very deeply. They actually do experience romance like this and it’s not as insecurity based as mediocre lovers would accuse their actions as being. Romance and their significant other means everything to them so they feel the pain very deeply too :(. It makes sense why romance and their love life was coming through so strongly that I could not get any other messages about them, their entire existence is in fact about romance 😭. This reminds me of the male lead, Gwansik, of the k-drama ‘when life gives you tangerines.’ His coach is like “are you telling me your only purpose in life is this Ae-sun?” And he agrees. They love love and they know how to do it well. They’re also incredibly good at romancing. They dive too deeply in love though and they want to, all their emotions, they put it all into it - their heart and their soul. They’re willing to do just about anything for their partner. They’ll have felt or well be feeling very unseen, unwanted and unconfident, wondering if they’re just unworthy, even if it’s just once in a while so they’ll want a partner as deeply romantic as them so that they’d never have to doubt that :(. On the surface, they’ll seem to be collaborative and humble, and it will be because they’ll be someone who’s learning from others and teaching to others, and of course helping and working with people whenever, and wherever needed but they’ll be going through a lot by themself, processing a lot and slowly but surely clearing out the fog, and getting closer to themself. I think they’ll be more of a learner than teacher at the time, they’re naturally someone who wants to preach and teach but they’ll not have enough clarity at the time to do so.

They’ll have to get closer to themself in order to get there but they will, maybe slowly but definitely surely. The same thing about their love nature keeps coming through. I feel like with the capacity they love, no one is able to grasp, understand or explain it. Even I seem to be falling short but because I’m a medium, they want to be heard by you through me :(. This is breaking my heart honestly. When they love, it’s a lot about passion and desire, and they make sure that the other person feels it, feels the vigour with which they desire them but they’ll be questioning if they’re just not worthy of it, if they’ll just never receive it. I’m going to end up crying at this point. I’m sorry but with the way they love and the things that they’re willing to do for it, even though I want to, I wouldn’t be able to list out everything for you. I just heard that they’re someone who when they fall in love and get involved with someone might sort of disappear because they genuinely crave their partner’s energy, and enjoy their company and the feeling of love, and experience of romance. I think that one problem of theirs is that they’re too much of a team player. They might think about the other person’s perspective and emotions, likely before their own especially in terms of romance causing them to negotiate and work with them as a team, when they should just get rid of them, and not talk to them ever again. It’s not like they’re willingly a victim, though some of them could have been at some point but more so that they believe that as a team, they can overcome anything with their partner so having faith in them, they try to work as a team, solve things as a team and just move forward. It is a very good trait but it has caused them problems and pain, and pretty much bit them in the ass so it is important for them to understand that just because they care about the other person in the partnership, consider them to be a team and want to move forward as such, and think about them and are considerate of them doesn’t mean that the other person is too. I feel so bad for them but they’re the sweetest sweetheart ever. They know how to flirt and all of that but it needs to be intense in order to be real for them. They either love all the way or not at all. They do not do mediocre love and devote themself to their beloved so you better do the same for them too. You better not break their heart because they’re honestly such a softie :(. They’re very strong but very soft. Definitely very charming, flirty, passionate and sexual too. They’re likely to make you blush a lot. Some of your spouses might smirk or lick their lips a lot. I hope that you enjoyed the reading and are willing to take care of them because otherwise, I’ll hunt you down. Thank you for reading. Much love and take care.

⊹ ! ೀ Pile 2 ꒱

In terms of character, your future spouse is going to be incredibly charming and a really good leader. It’s in their character to lead. They’re someone who is aware of how intense and indulgent they are. Also, someone who ends up indulging in thinking a certain way. If they start thinking a thought, they start really indulging in that thought, intensely thinking about it. It’s very difficult for them to just pull out of it. They’re the type to think deeply and heal themself internally, in privacy. It’s not necessarily a bad trait, it’s just that they need to get to the root of things. Another thing that I’m getting is that they are naturally very sexual. They might be a bit impatient when it comes to satisfying this part of them and they’re very intense in it. They want to indulge in this beyond the capacity in which average humans do i.e. they want multiple orgasms or might want to set a few hours or even an entire day apart just to indulge in it. Some of them seem to be into BDSM and likely want to take on a dominating role during the act. When they indulge in it in a more vanilla manner, they take on the role of the one taking the lead. It is really important for them to be completely blissed out due to orgasms because it helps them feel truly at peace. I just heard that there are days when they want to release so bad that they end up releasing really fast. This way, they can deeply indulge in it from the second orgasm onwards and start taking their time to get there but for the first one, they have a tendency to be too impatient and just want to get there. The first pile was all about romance and this one, so far, is all about sex 😭. They’re quite a flirt too. I just heard the phrase ‘charm someone’s pants off’. They like to stay present which is why they really enjoy indulging in such explicit activities because they have a tendency to think a lot and very deeply, and intensely and during the time that they are doing it, experiencing pleasure, and during the afterglow, they feel really calm and present but it needs to be full body and intense for them to get there. The sexual side of them is a very important part of their character so that was what was coming through the strongest but now that that’s out of the way, let’s move into their actual character and personality now. They’re very flirty and know how to romance someone. It’s a part of their character. Your person goes about it in a very confident manner and has a more heated charm. At the time you’ll meet them, they’ll be someone who has learnt from their past experiences and is content, and grateful for all that they are and have. I’m getting that for many of you they’ll have had relationships or sexual history that will have left them feeling apathetic and dissatisfied but by the time they’ll meet you, they’ll be present, content, and grateful and will have learned a lot from these experiences.

They’ll know what fulfils them and what doesn’t. They’ll have lived a disharmonious life in which they didn’t have their priorities in order and were indulging intensely in things that didn’t fulfil them, and in fact, left them feeling empty so that will be on their mind but they’ll have emotionally grown through that. They’ll be very self aware and will be accepting things as they are. They’ll be accepting the past and leaving it behind them. They’ll have had regrets about their lifestyle but will have let go of it and will still be regretful but will be moving forward with emotional growth, contentment and a will to do better instead. Keep in mind that not all of your future spouses will have had physical relations with others. Some of them might have just had romantic relationships or casual flirty experiences that left them feeling not so good about themselves. They’re going to be a very good person though. They’ll be feeling a bit insecure about the events that will have occurred but will be learning to trust themself and life itself. They’ll be trying to hope but will be a bit apathetic, sad or pessimistic at times but mostly, because their focus will be more on the positive side, they’ll be doing fine. In fact, I’d say that they’ll be doing really well. They are very romantic and charming, and they’ll be wanting something real and long term at that time. They might love dogs, cats or some sort of an animal? They’ll be trying to grow and prosper at that time, and will be saving, investing, growing, and building themself. Where they’ll be in regard to this will be different. Some of your spouses will still be setting the foundation, some of them will be enjoying the first fruits of their labour and some of them will be doing both. For example, they might have started earning well but might start saving and investing or they might have fair earnings, and savings but might want to grow more as a person. They’ll also be someone who learns a lot through being present and I understand why they’re such a good leader, they know how to work with a team. They’re someone who learns from others and teaches them as well. There’s a certain humility that they display in group settings that I’m picking up on. It’s going to be incredibly important for them to learn and teach in life, to feel like they’re actively growing, and present. I’m hearing the song ‘BMF’ by SZA in my head. They’ll be hella attractive but since we are looking at their character and personality, it could be more of their charisma and personal charm than appearance. Though for some of you, they might be hella fine appearance wise too. They’re going to have undergone an extremely rich transformation and either multiple endings or one significant one that will have them changed as a person.

They’ll have put a stop to their old ways so that’s a good thing. They’re going to have a lot of integrity and a big aura, and energy due to who they are on the inside. They’ll be headstrong, action oriented, confident, assertive and a good leader who likes to get things done well, and quickly and is courageous, and strong. They’ll be assertive and will demand respect internally if not externally. If disrespected, on the outside, they might continue cooperating with the person when necessary but might end the connection completely in other ways. If not necessary, it’s ended in every way possible from their side. They hold themself to really high standards as well. They are warm, courageous, generous and wholehearted but they have a lot of integrity, and pride so if these qualities are not dealt with properly, they don’t mind changing their demeanour towards that person by completely ending things in any way possible. They’re going to be a visionary and also very original. If you like men, they’re going to be a true man. Men often don’t understand and are unable to embody their true masculine energy, and are in fact so out of touch with it that they either end up adopting hyper and toxic masculinity or fall into man child behaviour but your spouse will be embodying healthy masculinity. I think this is why they’re so desirable to women as well because they’re warm, romantic, have a soft side but are a good leader, seem to have a purpose and are extremely charismatic. They’ll be trying to be a good man by being a good human and not trying to embody masculinity forcefully without purpose or awareness of what they’re truly doing. They’re naturally very flirty and charming though. They don’t even have to intend to come off this way, they just do. They would make a really good partner because they’re able to learn from, teach and consider other people. They’re also generous and aren’t “me, me, me” all the time. I won’t lie, their focus is on themself but they still care a lot about their partner, and want to grow with them. They know how to look at things from their own perspective obviously but also their partner’s and try to deal with things efficiently. Like, if their partner reacted out of temper and ended up saying things they didn’t mean, and disrespected them, they’d try to teach them and work through things. “That’s not how you act.” “That’s not how you talk to someone.” “You can’t let your temper get to you like that, you need to learn how to control it at some point.” They’d be very firm with their partner but also mature and patient. They’re humble enough to learn from their partner as well. Also, they’d make their partner blush a lot because your spouse knows how to flirt and romance but they also possess a certain sincerity, they know how to be soft and touch one’s heart. I’m really happy for you. Thank you for reading. I hope that you liked the reading. Much love and take care.

⊹ ! ೀ Pile 3 ꒱

At their core, your future spouse is going to be a bit unfriendly. I’m not sure how it will manifest externally but on the inside, they’re going to be a very demanding person who has really high standards. I’m getting a very self focused character here. They believe that you reap what you sow so if someone does something that disappoints or hurts them, they just stop putting in effort. People are disappointing and everyone has at some point has had to face it. Your person seems to be almost stoic. Like, genuinely detached and apathetic 😭. By the time that you’ll meet them, they’ll have faced enough disappointments and negativity, and will be very apathetic and stoic. They’ll have worked hard and will be enjoying the fruits of their labour, and will still be putting work in to enjoy more of it in the future. They’ll have a really perseverant character but will also have amazing attention to detail. They’re continuously working on growing and do not ever give up. Like I said before, they’ll have experienced disappointments and negativity so they’ll have a more stoic, and apathetic mindset and they’ll have learned, and grown from these experiences. They’re someone who assesses things and tries to figure out what worked for them, and what didn’t in order to plan their next steps forward. They’ll be consistent and will be working on realistic goals focusing on what they can control, and what is in their reach. They’ll also be grounded and self assured because whatever they’ll be doing, and however they’ll be acting will be working for them. They will know how and when to take breaks, and will not overdo it but also, will not under-do it. They’re going to be very ‘consistency for a long time over hard work for a short amount of time’ kind of person. They’re honestly such a winner. They will a very accepting approach to things. For example, they did something that hurt someone and that person starts distancing themself from them, they’ll understand why, and will move forward with acceptance. It is very realistic. “I did what I did and it hurt them so they have every right to do what they did” is how they think in such moments. They’ll need someone who they can intellectually connect with and who mentally stimulates them in order to be in a relationship with them. They’ll be really fair and just, and will have an incredibly strong character with a strong ability to reason. They value the truth above all else. They aren’t the type to get lost in illusions and fantasies. They’ll be extremely controlled, and will think and assess in terms of romance, and any other personal connection too. For them, having an equal in terms of character is very important. They possess really strong ethics, values and principles, and they’re going to need someone like that to form a connection with as well.

They’re weighing everything in their head, perceiving people’s actions and forming judgements based on them. They likely prefer having someone with really similar values and someone who genuinely tries because they have a tendency to be really critical of people. They need to hold a lot of respect for you and feel mentally stimulated, and in fact, even a bit challenged in order to develop a connection with you. They’re a winner because they’re aware that they are. They have a lot of integrity and possess pure intentions, and when they want something, they believe that they can get it. They are always thinking about how to take action and balance their actions, reality, emotions, mindset, and will with one another in order to get better in life, and I just heard ‘a better experience out of life’. At the time you’ll meet them, they’re going to be passionate and powerful yet stoic, and grounded. They’ll be aware of their power because they’ll have developed skills and already built something that they previously used to dream, and wish for. They’re honestly very interesting, when they want something, they get it and if they don’t, they still get it by getting something even better. Also, they’ll be very intentional with life and their actions but they’ll have had to learn how to figure out what it is that they truly want, and should set their intention towards after much experience in life. For example, if I’m attracted to and want to be with someone who’s very attractive and receives a lot of attention despite not feeling connected to them on a more personal level, it may be because I want to be attractive, and receive such attention. I could choose to pursue this person if I’m unaware or ignorant of what I’m really after but if I’m aware and accepting, I can move forward with the intention of becoming such a person someday and they will know how to figure out what they want, and what intention to set for it. They’re going to be confident and self assured, and grounded yet detached and intentional yet stoic, and that’s what’s going to make them such a winner. There’s a lot of focus on becoming resourceful by mastering themself and maintaining a strong character. The way people will see them really varies, to some they may seem under qualified, to some they may seem too hardworking, to some they may seem too lazy but the thing is, they’re constantly working on self improvement. They can be a bit perfectionistic and can lean towards workaholism at times. I know that I said that they will know how to pace themself and rest but I’m getting that they will still have days when they work extremely hard, and days when they’re feeling extremely lazy and are unable to work properly. In fact, there will be days when they’ll not work at all but what I find to be incredibly admirable about them is that even if they don’t feel like working, most of the time, they push themself to do so.

Their discipline and work ethic is something that we can all learn from. There are two groups of you here, one group of your future spouses will be stoic but will express an extreme amount of joy and positivity while the other group of your future spouses will be stoic and will not express much if any emotion at all. There is a lack of expression on both of these group’s part though. Like, even if they’re sad, they don’t show or express it externally. Your future spouse is not a winner for no reason, they’re aware that no matter how negative of a situation they may be or no matter how shitty they may be feeling, it’s temporary and it will pass which is why some of them could find it a bit useless to share as well. They’re going to be incredibly awakened spiritually. In fact, they’ll be really connected to spirit because divinity exists within all of us if we are willing to work with it. I just heard “if we are willing to do the work.” This doesn’t mean that they need to be spiritual, many of them won’t be but they’ll just naturally be in flow with life. They’ll be a reasonable person who holds themself to high standards and possesses certain values, ethics, morals, and standards that they want to live up to. They’ll also have great attention to detail and will be critical of others, and themself. Especially the latter because they’ll be more self focused which is why, they’ll want to grow and so, they’ll question their beliefs, values, habits, etc. In case, they need to break them in order to grow. This person is honestly the most grounded and flexible person that I’ve ever read. They’re going to transform a lot internally but somehow, they’ll also be the same i.e. every time that they change, they’ll be more themself. They’ll also be the type to rebuild after extreme falls and devastation but will mostly not even reach such a point because maybe they had in the past, and so they’ve developed the strength of breaking but never really breaking. They will possess a really strong character in which they will be highly capable of avoiding devastating situations and extreme falls by controlling their emotions, and will avoid changing because the external world wants them to if it does not resonate with them but will be flexible enough, open to and will in fact, look forward to changing if it resonates with them on a deeper level. If they end up falling and breaking because they’re just human. They know how to build themself back up and with a much stronger foundation this time. I hope that you liked the reading and that it resonates because you deserve a winner. Please make sure that you focus on being one yourself because romantic connections are the best between equals. Also, this makes so much sense, I am writing this reading at 1:20 a.m. and I randomly felt motivated to do so at 12 something a.m., I believe that it has something to do with your future spouse’s energy. Their hardworking spirit showed its effects on me before I even started. Thank you so much for reading. Much love and take care.

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𝜗𝜚˚⋆ PILE I

Cards Pulled: High Priestess, the Chariot, Judgment, Justice, Knight of Wands and oracle cards

Okay, honey, welcome to this pile 1!! Let’s see into what you’ll be lowkey obsessed with when it comes to your future spouse hehe. Before I start this reading, I just wanna mention something really crucial here, UHM......... y'all are LUCKY AF. 😭😭like TF. Also for people who chose this pile, the person described here is sooo similar to the character of Sang Yan from the C-drama The First Frost. I haven't even watched that drama yet, just saw it all over tiktok and insta reels and it's soo crazy how I was constantly thinking about him throughout writing this. The way he carries himself in that drama and SPECIFICALLY HIS EYES. THIS PILE IS LITERALLY HIM. PERIODT.

First off, this person? Mysterious AF.

Like you know when someone doesn’t post on social media but when they do, it’s in black-and-white with a cryptic caption and you’re like “HELLO? What does it mean??” Yeah, that’s their entire vibe. The High Priestess is the main character here, and this person is dripping in silent depth. It’s not that they’re quiet, NO NO, they’re intentional. Everything they do feels like a sacred ritual, even if it’s just tying their shoes. You’re gonna love how they somehow make you slow down and listen more, not just to them but to your own damn intuition. I’m getting this image of you two sitting on the floor, legs touching, and you’re rambling about your day while they just watch you like you’re a rare eclipse. And they’ll say something like “You feel like the ocean right before a storm,” and boom. You’re ruined. Forever.

And OMG don’t even get me started on the emotional depth… because wow.

Yeah, I got CHILLS. Literal chills. ? Bestie, your future spouse doesn’t just love you, they DROWN in you. There’s a softness to them that feels ancient. Like they’ve lived a thousand lives and chose you in every single one. Their love language? Definitely some spicy combination of telepathy, forehead kisses, and knowing your exact comfort food without you saying a word. And yet, they’re not soft in the doormat way. HELL NO. Baby, this person moves. When they decide they want something? Game over. They’re a force. You’ll love how they’ll be gentle with your soul but a literal wildfire for your protection. Someone stares at you weird? They’ve clocked it. You’re nervous to speak up in a group? They smoothly redirect the convo so you shine. It’s that ride-or-die loyalty with a spicy side of “Don’t mess with what’s mine.”

Your future spouse has transformed by the time they meet you. Like… phoenix out of the ashes levels of rebirth. I’m seeing someone who may have had to break out of their own cycles, maybe even some shadow work that slapped, but they did the work. That’s something you’ll absolutely adore about them: their self-awareness. You’ll be so drawn to how they hold themselves accountable. They’ve probably been the villain in someone else’s story, and instead of playing the victim, they faced it. Shadow work? Check. Therapy? Likely. Apologies? Given when needed. They’ve done a full spiritual exfoliation, and now? They’re GLOWING. AND they treat you with such intentional fairness. They don’t play games, they don’t breadcrumb, and they sure as hell don’t ghost (WHEW. thank god cuz i hate that shit) What you’ll cherish most is how they show up for you, consistently. Every little action feels like, “I see you. I honor you. I’m choosing you, even on the messy days.”

And um, can we please talk about how HOT they are when they’re PASSIONATE??? Because the Knight of Wands is coming in LOUD with main-character energy and It’s giving “I’m dragging you into the hallway to make out because I missed you for two hours.” FJNIDNSBTRVIH There’s a bit of chaos in their passion, but like… the fun, flirty, seductive kind. You’ll catch yourself staring when they’re focused on something they care about, eyes lit, words flying, and it’ll hit you: “Damn. That’s my person.” Like they could be talking about some weird niche topic, idk, the ethics of time travel or why a band’s debut album was superior, and you’re just sitting there like, “Okay, philosopher.” It’s hot. It’s brainy. It’s unhinged. And it’s so them. (did i just describe my type here?) 

But here’s the real one, your potential most favorite thing? It’s how they love you through your shadows.

It tells me that they don’t just love your highlights, babe. They’re the one who knows about the parts you try to hide, and loves them deeper. You’ll feel so safe being raw with them. Like crying-on-the-floor-at-2am kind of safe. They’ll be the person who doesn’t try to fix it, they’ll just sit with you in it. You’ll finally feel like, “Oh. I don’t have to perform here.” Also, minor side message that just smacked me: they might help you release a generational wound. Yep. It’s giving “breaking ancestral chains with one good relationship.” I’m not saying they’re your healer (you’re healing yourself, boo), but they are a safe space that lets the healing happen. And the ocean symbolism? BABY. Their love is like the tide, constant, natural, overwhelming in the best way. You might not even realize how deeply they’ve rooted into you until one day they’re not there for a few hours and you’re like, “Why does the air taste different???”

Okay, a few more spicy psychic messages which I got throughout the reading I'll drop here before we close because the tea is still hot:

You’ll love their hands. Like, obsessively. Spirit keeps showing me images of their hands wrapping around yours, brushing your hair back, gripping your waist, yeah, you’re gonna be down bad. They have a “hidden” creative side. Music? Poetry? Painting war miniatures? IDK 😭but it’s something they keep private until they trust you, and once you see it? Prepare to melt. 🫠 They’re a consent king/queen. In the bedroom, in arguments, in making plans, they’re always checking in. Always making sure your voice is heard. It’s HOT. You’ll laugh together in the weirdest moments. Like cracking up during a serious movie or turning a grocery run into a full-on comedy sketch. The emotional intimacy? Unreal.

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𝜗𝜚˚⋆ PILE II

Cards Pulled: Death, Ace of Cups, Four of Cups, Five of Pentacles, Knight of Cups and oracle cards

OKAY BESTIE… buckle the HELL up. This pile??? This pile is literally a love letter from the universe, and it’s about your future spouse in a way that’s got me gasping and screaming into the void. Like, if you’ve ever wondered what it would feel like to be truly chosen, truly adored, and truly transformed by love??? this is THAT reading. I’m already sweating more because the cards are kinds big ones as you can see😭 . This ain’t a crush. This is main character's energy meets divine rebirth through love . And your favourite thing about this person? Oh honey... it's EVERYTHING they awaken in you. But let me explain because DAMN it gets DEEP. 💀

this pile is all about how utterly devoted and obsessed he is with you, but in that controlled, sexy, lowkey psycho but make it romantic way. He doesn’t say much, but when he does?? It cuts straight to your soul. He makes you feel like the only person that’s ever existed. And when he touches you? The world fades.

Okay so first of all, this love is not soft-launch energy. Actually there’s no soft energy here. It’s not the kind of love where you post a blurry arm on IG stories and call it a day. No no. This is Death + Ace of Cups type of sh*t. This person literally drags you out of a fog you didn’t even know you were in. Like, imagine going through life feeling fine, maybe kinda meh, autopilot vibes, and then BOOM. You meet this person and suddenly, colors are brighter. Food tastes better. Music hits differently. You’re like, “Wait, am I ALIVE again??” Yeah. That.

You don’t just fall in love with them. You fall in love with yourself through their eyes. Because they see you in this way no one ever has before. They don’t pedestal you in some weird, unreachable way, but they mirror back your rawest essense. And you start to remember who TF you are. ✨ Like, you start off this journey feeling a lil rejected, a lil disillusioned (Four of Cups + Five of Pentacles energy… hello loneliness my old friend 😩), but through this love?? You rise. You blossom. You reclaim your power. The crown was always yours, you just forgot. They don’t give you your power back, babe. They just remind you where you left it. And that?! That is your favorite thing about them: they activate the version of you that had been buried under years of rejection, doubt, and disconnection.

Bestie, I’m not gonna sugarcoat, this is NOT some sunshiney, fluffy past you’ve been through. You’ve known the ache of being left out in the cold. Maybe you’ve been the one always giving, always chasing, always hoping for scraps of love from people who didn’t even deserve to speak your name. You’ve had your heart cold-stoned and ghosted and breadcrumbed, and you were probably starting to believe that maybe love just wasn’t in the cards for you. Enter: this person.

They don’t just walk in with roses and pretty words (though they absolutely do that too, Knight of Cups energy is full-on poetic simp vibes 😭). But more importantly?? They SHOW UP. When you expect abandonment, they stay. When you push them away, they lean in. When you flinch at love, they don’t take it personally, they just hold you through it. You’re not their project. You’re their equal, their mirror, their muse. And you’ll find yourself sobbing randomly, “Wait… this is what it’s supposed to feel like??” Because for the first time, love isn’t a battlefield. It’s a sanctuary. It’s not conditional. It’s safe. I’m not kidding when I say this person is the Knight of Cups in every form. So with this person prepare to also see the perfect blend of this combination. prepare for random voice notes at midnight because they saw a cloud that looked like your side profile. Prepare for forehead kisses, poetic ramblings, playlists that sound like your soul. But also?? It’s not performative. It’s not just vibes and aesthetics. It’s intentional.

They speak your love language fluently, even the ones you didn’t know you had. You like thoughtful gifts? Boom, they kept the receipt from your first coffee date and made it into a bookmark for your favorite book. You like acts of service? Baby, they’re doing your laundry and ordering your comfort food on a day you can’t get out of bed. You like words of affirmation? They’re sending full monologues about how divine you are. Honestly, at some point you’re gonna be like, “Can you STOP being obsessed with me for five seconds?” But also you’ll be like, don’t stop. Ever. 😭

Let’s circle back to that Death card because whew… this is the CORE. Your favorite thing about this person isn’t just what they do, it’s who they are and who they inspire you to become. You literally go through a soul transformation in their presence. They don’t fall in love with your mask. They fall in love with your shadow. With the parts you thought made you unlovable. With your mess, your moods, your madness, and suddenly, those parts stop feeling like flaws and start feeling like facets of your magic. And in turn?? You’ll start holding them that way too. You won’t be idolizing each other. You’ll be liberating each other. This love isn’t about being perfect, it’s about being real. It’s about death and rebirth. It’s about watching each other burn and saying, “I still choose you.” They are going to be your favorite revolution.

"Wear your power proudly and unapologetically" is not just advice, it’s what your future spouse pulls out of you. You’ve spent so long shrinking. So long waiting for permission. And this person? They’re gonna hand you the crown and go, “You were born royalty. Act like it.” And the best part? They don’t do it for clout. They don’t flaunt you like a trophy. They cherish you like you’re made of stardust and war paint. Your softest parts are sacred to them. Your weirdness? Worshipped. Your power? Encouraged. Like babe... you will feel both feral and safe in their arms. Do you know how rare that is????

Okay this is so random but it came through SO clearly, I’m getting this image of you hating Mondays your whole life, until this person shows up and suddenly?? You’re excited for the week. You’re looking forward to slow morning texts, coffee runs together, messy buns and “just 5 more minutes” cuddles before they leave for work. They re-sensitize you to the beauty of everyday things. And that is so underrated. They make your life feel like poetry again.

 Final random Favorite Things You’ll Obsess Over:

The way they say your name like it’s a prayer. Youll love listening to your name from them. Their ability to sense your moods before you speak. That would be their superpower, honestly. And also the contrast of their softness in private vs their strength in public.

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𝜗𝜚˚⋆ PILE III

Cards pulled: Six of Swords, The Empress, The Fool, Five of Wands, Ace of Swords amd oracle cards

OMG This pile? This is the rom-com-meets-healing-arc-meets-delulu-dream-guy-you-manifested-during-a-Lana-Del-Rey-retrograde kinda situation (don’t ask me how i came up with this😭). This is raw. This is “you didn't know you were starving ‘til he fed you” energy. Wow that was deep LOL.He LOVES the full spectrum of you. Your sensitivity, your rage, your need to cry during commercials, he eats it up. Encourages you to take up space. He celebrates your chaos. And the banter?? UNMATCHED.

So first off, let me just say this: I legit felt like I was watching one of those dramatic K-drama slow burns when I tapped into this spread. Like ep 1 is you emotionally limping out of some messy chapter of your life, and ep 16 is you soft-smiling while they brush hair from your face and say, “You’re safe now.” I’m crying just thinking about it 😭 but I digress—

Now let’s start peeling back the layers of this absolutely BONKERS beautiful energy: your fave things about this person? Oh honey. It’s not just their looks (although, side note, the way they carry themselves? That quiet “I know who tf I am” swag? Oof. HOT). But no, what melts you? What gets you twisted in the sheets and emotionally raw in the car at 2AM? It’s their consistency, their emotional maturity, and the fact that they’re lowkey your safe space after a lifetime of chaos. Yeah, I said it. The trauma you didn’t even realize you were still carrying? They help you walk that ish to the river and let it go. Six of Swords style. 🛶💧

And listen. This person doesn’t swoop in and fix you, don’t get it wrong. They don’t love you despite your wounds, they love you with them. Like “hand-in-hand with your demons” type love. They don’t run when things get messy. They lean in. You’ll sit there anxious and they’ll hand you a blanket and be like, “Keep talking, I’m not going anywhere.” THAT kind of presence? Yeah, bestie. That’s what you’re gonna worship. But don’t think this is some therapist in a man’s body situation either lmao. There’s a whole wild side to this person too, like, this person challenges you. HARD. Five of Wands energy was screaming at me like “YUP WE FIGHT BUT MAKE IT FOREPLAY.” 😂 They’re gonna debate you for fun, tease you just to make you roll your eyes, push your buttons not to be toxic, but because it turns them on to see you all passionate and fired up. The intellectual banter is chef’s kiss. Your fave thing about them? You never get bored. They don’t just nod along, they’re present. They got opinions, they got a backbone, and they’re not afraid to go toe to toe with you when you are acting up (and honestly? You love it).

This pile is all about liberation. Your fave thing about him is how he reminds you of who you are before the world made you smaller. He gives you permission to laugh too loud, cry too much, and dream too big. And he’s gonna do it all right beside you.

Now The way they see you… like, you're not just a person to them. You're a literal universe. The way they look at you when you’re ranting about something random? Or doing your skincare? Or just existing in oversized pajamas and a bonnet? They’re gone. Fully GONE. And because of that? You start to see yourself differently too which is honestly the best part. Like, your favorite thing about this person is how they love you into softness, into full self-worth. They speak to the parts of you that felt unworthy and whisper, “More. You deserve more.” You start walking different because of how deeply they hold space for you.

 Baby😩 This person is your reset button. The Fool here isn’t naive, it’s liberated. You’ve been carrying so much emotional weight from past relationships, maybe even from family crap, old fears, toxic exes, and here comes this person like… “Why are you still dimming your light?” this is literally them encouraging you to live a little, say yes more. Take the leap. Splurge. Cry. Yell. Make a mess. Be too much. They LOVE that you're extra. They don't flinch when you're chaotic. They jump off the cliff with you, giggling. (that one was a little exaggerated but nvm😭)

Like, your favorite thing about them is how much they let you take up space. Not just tolerate it. They encourage it. “You are worth every desire, every dream. Demand what is yours.” And this person? They believe in that. They fight for that. Ace of Swords slicing through the bs like “You’re not going back to that old version of you.” And I’m telling you right now, they’ll probably be the one who drags you to that dream vacation you were too shy to plan, or who makes you apply for the job you think you're not good enough for. They see your power. They know your value. And it becomes your favorite mirror. 💅

And YESSSS, there’s a sexuality to this pile too. Bestie. Don’t lie. I know you saw The Empress + The Fool and went 😏. SAME. This person? They worship your body like it’s art. Like a damn temple. And it’s not just hot passionate nights, it's playful, explorative, curious, FUN. That “I can’t keep my hands off you but I also wanna laugh in your neck while doing it” kinda vibe. 😭💦That alone could’ve been the whole reading LMAO. But here's the secret sauce: the emotional intimacy hits harder than the physical. It's the way they look at you when you’re vulnerable. When you’re quiet. When you’re in your dark. The Ace of Swords says this person cuts through the noise, you don’t need to over-explain yourself. They just get you. Like intuitively. You’ll be like “I didn’t even say anything” and they’re already making you soup or running you a bath or telling you to block that toxic friend. HOW DO THEY KNOW??? Idk, babes. Soul contract things. 💀

OH and one more image i saw, there's this moment I saw like clear as day: you're going through a rough patch emotionally. You're bawling, maybe imposter syndrome, maybe an old wound opened up, idk, but this person? They stop everything and hold your face and say something brutally honest but loving like: “You forget who you are. Let me remind you.” And it floors you. Floors. You. 🥹

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𐙚 • 𝑃𝑖𝑙𝑒 1

Your future partner is someone who brings a sense of hope, renewal, and inspiration into your life. They're likely to come into your world when you're healing or stepping into a more authentic version of yourself. This person carries a calming presence and seems to ignite a quiet optimism in you, as if things are finally aligning after a period of uncertainty or difficulty. They're drawn to your inner light and may even reflect that light back at you, encouraging personal growth and emotional clarity.

They likely avoid unnecessary conflict and prefer peace over chaos. Their presence suggests a breath of fresh air in your romantic experiences—someone who isn't here to play games or stir up drama. Past relationship patterns or internal struggles that once caused you stress begin to settle in their presence. This is someone who chooses communication over avoidance and is mature enough to let go of power struggles, making them emotionally supportive and level-headed.

Initially, there might be a hesitancy or emotional block on your end, perhaps due to past heartbreak or a fear of making the wrong choice again. But this person’s clear intentions and decisive nature will help you see things more clearly. Their actions will speak loudly, and they’ll show you that love doesn't have to come with confusion. You'll begin to trust yourself more around them, and that clarity will make it easier for you to open up.

They are intelligent, assertive, and driven—likely someone who charges forward when they know what they want. They might have a bold personality or a quick wit, and they’re not afraid to speak the truth. This person values honesty and progress, and once they decide to pursue you, they’ll do so with purpose. The connection may progress quickly once it starts, carried by strong communication and mutual respect. This person enters your life like a gust of wind—clearing the fog and pushing both of you toward something meaningful and transformative.

𐙚 • 𝑃𝑖𝑙𝑒 2

Your future partner is likely someone who has recently come out of a period of isolation or deep introspection. They may have gone through a transformative experience that forced them to confront their inner world and now they’re ready to step back into life, more self-aware and open. This person may have previously struggled with indecision or being stuck in their ways but is now making an intentional effort to take control of their life and act with purpose.

They are charismatic, skilled, and driven—someone who knows how to use the tools at their disposal to create opportunities and make things happen. There’s a sense of passionate energy around them, like they’re on the verge of starting something exciting, whether it’s a creative pursuit, a new project, or even a fresh chapter in life. This person will bring a spark into your world, not just emotionally but also through shared experiences and dynamic energy.

There’s also a feeling of wholeness and completion surrounding this future connection. This person may have traveled a long personal journey to get where they are, and now they’re ready to share their life with someone who can match their energy and growth. Your relationship with them will likely feel like the closing of an old chapter and the beginning of a new, meaningful one—with potential for long-term harmony, success, and mutual expansion.

𐙚 • 𝑃𝑖𝑙𝑒 3

Your future partner may initially come across as someone who has struggled with trust, communication, or immaturity in the past. They might have gone through a period of confusion, overthinking, or being unsure about their direction in life. This could stem from lessons they had to learn the hard way—perhaps from saying too much, too little, or not knowing how to navigate emotional conversations. When you meet them, they might still be healing from past experiences that shaped their perspective on love and connection.

They carry a deep emotional scar—perhaps from heartbreak or betrayal—that has forced them to confront their own vulnerabilities. This pain, while still present, has molded them into someone more self-aware and introspective. They're not looking for surface-level affection. Instead, they’re seeking something that brings balance, truth, and fairness into their life. They're serious about love and are ready to approach it with a sense of responsibility and integrity.

When they come into your life, the connection will feel undeniably strong. It’s not just romantic but deeply soulful, something that aligns with your values and your heart. There’s a feeling of choice and commitment between you both, one where mutual respect and emotional honesty play a big role. This person won’t shy away from showing you how much they care or from stepping into something meaningful with you.

They’re also generous—not just with time or resources, but with emotional effort and energy. This person values equality in relationships and wants to give just as much as they receive. They’re someone who believes love is a two-way street, and they’ll make sure you feel valued and supported. Their journey hasn't been easy, but it’s made them someone capable of deep, sincere love—ready to build something real with you.

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  Pile One

Your future spouse may appear to be difficult to read in their approach and attitude toward sex. Their approach is nonverbal. They are not the type of person who comes up to you abruptly, kisses you out of the blue and tells you he wants you right then and there and before you can react they are already undoing your buttons. No, no. He does it more with his eyes. An intense look. But calculating. They watch you carefully, and it takes them a while to show their desire for you on their face. Like when a lion watches its prey. They go slowly towards you. They study you and know your weak points and use them to their advantage to explore you. They don’t grab you roughly, or lean you against the wall. After breaking you down with their gaze, their actions are more restrained, slower. They do not lose control. They watch what makes you gasp and do it again and again until you can’t take anymore. Maybe it seems so controlled and as if you have no effect on them.  Until you look straight into their eyes.  

When things get intense and the atmosphere leaves a warmth in the air, and you look at them - they will find it hard to look you in the eye. Their pupils will turn away and they will hide their face in your neck. Their sexual desires for you will revolve around the emotional connection you have. It won't be rough or wild. It will be rather deep, and even intense when they  finds it hard to hold back as much. They will have a hard time expressing their desires to feel loved, wanted, or for either of you - safe in sex. They are so observant that they need to feel safe before they let themself go completely. They are the type who will hug you for a long time after intimacy or look at you closely waiting for a reaction from you. 

There will be times when he takes the dominant role: holding your chin for you to look at them while they caress you. But also in those moments where they feel emotionally more comfortable, they will let you take control. Like when you climb on top of them. They will respond passively and let you lead the way. 

Signs: Venus in virgo (specially if it is in the 12th or 8th house), venus in taurus in the 4th house because it adds quiet intensity over the wild and combusting one, mercury in pisces (since it is in a fall sign, it makes communication weak), saturn conjunct venus.  For characters, Kaz Brekker (TV Show) the intensity of his scenes with the girl when they were not even kissing resonates so much with this, Giyuu (Demon Slayer) for how deeply caring he is despite appearing cool and detached. 

Pile Two

Your future spouse is quite open, warm in their approach and attitude towards intimacy with you. It will not be superficial at all. They will approach you and start caressing you leisurely, wrap you warmly and even look at you while doing so. They will enjoy foreplay quite a bit. They are the type who likes to explore every nook and cranny they can of your body before diving into you. Their hands will go around every curve while you feel their soft breath on your neck - letting you know you are safe. 

They may, after intimacy, lace their fingers with yours and embrace you. If they go quiet or pensive it won't be out of discomfort — It's because they feel at peace staying close to you. They may leave kisses on your forehead or on your temple as they stare at the ceiling and have a leg over yours. They will highly value the emotional closeness they have with you after intimacy. They will like to feel comfortable without anything rushing or disturbing them when they are with you. 

They are someone who adapts to your pace. They will relinquish control to you but not completely. Princess/prince/royalty treatment. They will spoil you. But It's not that they'll be someone passive, they just won't impose things on you and will adapt to what you want in the moment. A gentle dom. If they let you have control they'll still have constant gestures of firmness that are so subtle. They may rest their hand on your hip as you pick up the pace, press a kiss on your forehead when you feel over stimulated and whisper a  soft "you can take it, baby, come on". Their sexual style will make you feel respected and pampered.

Signs: Venus or moon in taurus, or libra. Pisces comes to mind too. Venus in the 5th or 7th house. Good aspects with the moon and venus. Ascendant or rising ruler in 5th or 7th house.  For characters, Gilbert Blythe (Anne with An E) mature though! The way he stared at Annie lovingly and how warmth he was with her gave me the same vibes. Jamie Fraser (Outlander), Taki Tachibana (Your Name).

Pile Three 

Your future spouse is very patient and confident in sexual intimacy with you. They love to flood themself in every pleasure they can get from sex with you. Especially if it involves all five senses. Candles, aromas, sensations, flavors, etc. The complete experience. For your spouse, sex with you is something to savor and enjoy without rushing. They will like to take their time with you. Multiple rounds even. This is the type of person who delights in and enjoys foreplay. I usually leave the power dynamic at the end, but your spouse-to-be is naturally inclined to be more dominant. 

They will give more than they get sometimes. You two will share that feeling of insatiability. But one thing they'll like is if you also do your part in the sexual and intimate realm. They may like to give more than they get, they are a giver — but they also like to know that you're both on the same page. If you are quieter than usual, they will notice it — they will be attuned to your reactions. They like it when there is reciprocity not only sexually, but emotionally with you. They will have a hard time expressing this openly, so it is important that you are more attentive to reciprocity with your future spouse. 

They want to create something committed and lasting with you. They will provide loyalty, commitment and security. This is something lasting. They are able to see that sexual intimacy is not just about sex — it involves commitment and sharing. They will be reliable, generous and a committed partner in sex. They will remember what you like, what you love, what makes your skin shiver. Oh, and this is someone who is protective of you. Hickeys, strong grips. They will convey their dominance not loudly, but subtly. They will do things like manhandle you or hold you down in ways that make you remember who is really in charge. 

Signs: Venus in Capricorn or Scorpio. Capricorn definitely in their chart somewhere. Venus doing a trine or sextile with Mercury because they are quite attune to your reactions. Mercury conjunct Venus in earth or water signs. Scorpio, where? I don’t know, but somewhere in their chart lmao. A good aspect between Saturn and Venus. Venus in domicile too.  For characters, Anthony Bridgerton (Bridgerton) and how ardently that man was for Kate is so this description, Loid Forger (Spy x Family) the commitment and spouse material gave me the same vibes.  

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(how to pick a card? observe the given images and choose the one which you feel the most drawn to. scroll down to read your message!! remember, this is a general reading, so take what resonates! ps.- if you feel drawn to more than one card/image/pile, feel free to read the others too!! if the chosen pile doesn't relate to you, feel free to choose another. the choice is yours<3)

✮pile I✮

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is very loyal and family oriented. you're not someone who only thinks about your own needs, rather you're someone who cares about other people and always considers other people's feelings. i would say you're more of an empath. people find you as someone who is easy to talk to and someone who can understand their feelings. you're a non-judgemental person and people feel like they can be their true-self around you. you make people feel valued and seen. with the 10 of pentacles and the 7 of pentacles next to each other, i'm seeing here that people's first impression of you is that you are someone who puts in all your effort just so your family can lead an easy life. you care about others feelings more than your own. you give more than you recieve. and to be honest, because of your hardworking nature and your constant dedication to make others happy, many people see you as an inspiration. you give them this sense of being their authentic self and many people understand that love has no limits. some people, as they grow older, tend to detach or not maintain the same bond with the people from their past; but you're not that type of person. no matter the distance, no matter the circumstances, you always try your best to be there for the people you love and your compassion is something that people notice about you when they meet you for the first time. the way you care for others is what makes you stand out. your love is genuine, your love is kind, your love is rejuvenating, and your love is one of a kind. oh my god i didn't mean to sound so poetic here, but this is the message that is coming through for you, love😭✋. 

people also feel like you are someone who is a workaholic. you always strive to be the best version of yourself, and you never rest if you aren't satisfied. sometimes your overworking tendencies can be concerning, is what i'm seeing here. i understand you love, because i too tend to overwork sometimes and it's so emotionally exhausting. so please, take breaks in between and go easy on yourself. i’m rooting for you, love<3 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is not satisfied with your growth or progress and sometimes you might come off as “frustrated” to them. but here's the thing love, you're doing so much better than you think. i feel like you impose unrealistic standards upon yourself, and you're too hard on yourself. let yourself free, babe. take a step back and appreciate your hard work. you need to validate your emotions, and give yourself the love and appreciation you deserve. i see here that you are someone who appreciates and encourages people's smallest achievements; but when it comes to you, you're the complete opposite. it's fine to treat yourself with ease for once, babe. you deserve the love. people feel like you sometimes lose control while working. you might exceed your limits and this could lead to tiredness and exhaustion. i know i said this before, but please be easy on yourself, love. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who tends to overthink a lot and you might not feel too good about yourself. either you're someone who feels like you aren't giving much/being there for others or you're someone who is suffering from insecurities. whatever the reason may be, the effect on you is negative. but here's the thing, you're literally perfect, pile 1. the way you love, your kind and hard working nature is appreciated by so many - so don't burden yourself over the thought of “not being good enough”. in fact, you're more than we could ask for. your presence creates a sense of security and people feel so safe with you. you heal people, my love. 

one more thing i’d like to mention here, love - many people feel like you are someone who is easy to take advantage of because of your kind nature and many times, they do. and you know that people sometimes use you, but you're not the type to speak up and argue. their actions hurt you because you did not expect them to turn out like this. sometimes you might even blame yourself for letting them get too close to you. but that's your nature, love. you're not the type to hate and be distant. people are naturally drawn towards you. but you do need to set boundaries, my love. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is very passionate and someone who is not afraid to show your love for others. many people even look up to you and even try to be you. some people might try to copy your ways and might try to steal your identity. you're loved by many pile 1, and some people might be jealous of that. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who has been through a lot, and your experiences have shaped you to be who you are today. people close to you know that life has not been that easy for you and you have gotten things the hard way. but here's the most beautiful thing about you, love - regardless of life being so harsh towards you, your lessons and your experiences have only made you softer and more loving; rather than making you tough and hard to talk to. 

many people look at you as someone who will do ANYTHING for anyone. you give me “ask and you shall receive” vibes. you will go out of your way to make people happy. but now here's the thing babe, you are someone who is dominant and i'm seeing here that many people automatically want to listen to you. you don't come off as “commanding” - no. rather, you come off as someone who just naturally gets all the things you want. it's like the universe has blessed you with abundance - almost like a reward for your kind nature. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is a social butterfly and you naturally pull many people towards you. people are just attracted to your energy, you know? but please be aware babe, some people might be energy-suckers and will only try to be and copy you. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is courageous and independent and someone who stays true to their beliefs and opinions. they see you as someone who can stand on their own and doesn't necessarily need anyone's help to get on your feet. i'm also seeing here that you're a natural born leader. things flow according to you and for some reason, i'm getting very dominant feminine vibes. many people might even be intimidated by you, but they also find it so damn sexy. 

additional information - yellow, cream/brown, roses, light green, orange, 2, libra, jupiter, 11, taurus, mercury, 5, pisces, uranus, blue/brown eyes, dirty blonde/brown hair. 

✮pile II✮

oh my lovely pile 2, okay so before i get to your reading, i’m seeing here that there has been a major shift in your energy. you were someone who felt lost and overwhelmed. i'm seeing here that you might have even isolated yourself because you felt nervous and anxious. things have not been easy for you, pile 2. i'm seeing here that you have been having a hard time emotionally, physically and even financially. you've given your best and you still feel like you have not reached your expectations. before, you had unrealistic expectations, but now, you've realised the unhealthy and concerning effects of the unrealistic expectations you had on yourself and now you've started to impose reasonable expectations on yourself. pile 2, i'm so so proud of you. you've been such a strong person throughout and honestly, you deserve all the good things coming towards you. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is very mindful about your finances and you do not like to spend too much money. you might be someone who is focused on building a secure future for yourself because you have struggled a lot in your past and you know that in order to lead a fulfilling life, you will need to put in the effort. people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is very hardworking and you are someone who will not rest until you get your desired results. i'm also seen here that your efforts are paying off and that the universe is blessing you with good opportunities and health. people's first impression of you is that you are someone who has literally CLIMBED mountains and you ain't someone who will give up that easily (AS YOU SHOULDN'T, MY LOVELY PILE 2). 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is hard to get through and hard to understand. you tend to isolate yourself if someone gets too close to you because you're afraid they'll see your “true-self”. and babe let me tell you something, your true self is BEAUTIFUL. so embrace that bad bih energy of yours instead of suppressing it. WE NEED MORE BADDIES LIKE YOU SO DON'T HIDE THAT BABE AWAY. people might even feel like you are too “gloomy” or someone who does not express their happiness too often. they also feel like you are someone who tends to focus on short-term gratifications rather than thinking about your long term. although you are someone who is careful about your finances, you're sometimes tempted to buy cute stuff and honestly? i get you babe😭✋ i’m the same🤸‍♀️🏃‍♀️. but it's okay to spoil yourself once in a while hehe😚🤭. but spoil yourself without regrets. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is very calm and wise. i'm seeing here that there is something about your touch or the way you handle things. it seems very captivating and flawless. i feel like you guys have beautiful hands (i'm so sorry this information was out of nowhere😭) but what i'm trying to imply here is that people love your hands. i think it's one of the first things they notice about you. there's something so gentle and loving about your hands. many people would like to feel them. OH MY GOD THE WAY I SAID IT SOUNDS SO ODD BUT LIKE I'M SAYING IT IN A NOT-ODD-BUT-GOOD-WAY. i hope you get what i mean. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is constantly seeking for a secure future and i'm seeing that you are also working towards it. i don't know why but i have a feeling that you might take on a lot of responsibilities or maybe work more than 1 job just so that you can earn a bit more money. i'm getting “over-time” worker energy here. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is a little stubborn and someone who takes a lot of risk. you may tend to be a little rebellious and will hate it when someone tells you what to do. but here's the thing love, you're not someone who gives up that easily. but this trait of yours can be misunderstood as “rebellious” or “strong-headed” by many. but you know what, love? you be you and you do what makes you happy. don't let anyone control your life like that, especially if they don't know what type of person you are or what type of goal you are working towards. be unapologetically you!! people sometimes feel like you lack direction and they genuinely want to guide you, but sometimes the guidance and their advice may come out as very commanding and controlling and i see that you are not someone who appreciates that. i do agree that they can take a better approach towards helping you or guiding you, instead of straight up try to control you. i’m seeing here that you might purposely do the opposite of what they say just to piss them off lmaoo😭. you give me very youthful energy and i'm seeing here that people don't know how to handle you, so they just resort to trying to control you. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is still discovering what you want to do and you have a very curious nature. people naturally feel like they need to give you guidance or advice because if they don't, they think that you will be going down the wrong path. people's first impression of you is that you are someone who likes to explore a lot and sometimes people feel like you cannot stick to one interest. they feel like you are at this time in your life where you want to try out new things. people sometimes feel like you are bad at making decisions and they feel the need to control you. sometimes people feel like you will go out of hand and will make risky choices due to your youthful nature and i'm seeing here that they will hit you with the “i'm doing this because i care about you” move. i lowk feel like people need to give you the chance to explore your interests, because this just seems so off to me😭. like yes i understand you care for pile 2, but please be easy on them.  

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who takes on a lot of burden or you are someone who makes commitments and does not fulfill them, or has difficulty fulfilling them. people also feel like you tend to overwork yourself a lot and see you as someone who is currently dissatisfied with where you are right now. however, i see that you are in the process of building the better version of yourself and honestly babe, i am rooting for you. many people feel like you are unnecessarily stressed about things, but rather than understanding your point of view, they might sometimes lecture you.

pile 2, i see that you are someone who is still experimenting with what you want and your energy is all over the place - which is a good thing to me because i am seeing that you can try out new things and see what you like better and what does not suit you. but what i am seeing here is that you are misunderstood by a lot of people and that is something they need to work on.

additional information - blue, orange, blonde/light hair, strings, purple, lavender, off-white/pale colours, hard working/strong hands, closed eyes/not meeting other people's eyes, 11, sagittarius, ascending lunar node, pisces, 2, jupiter, cancer, 12, venus. 

✮pile III✮

pile 3, can i just mention how captivating and beautiful you are? like gosh leave the spark for the rest of us too!! hehehe🤭👀✨. like i'm so drawn to your energy, now i understand why people can't take their eyes off of you!! people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is so intelligent, it's so ugh….sexy. like you got beauty AND brains, how can someone be this chef's kiss. like i have no words to describe your energy and your aura. i don't think i can even describe it babe because i ain't going to do you justice😭. like let me tell you this, you have people wrapped around your fingers in the first meeting itself. like for example, if you're meeting someone for the first time, they will be so drawn towards your energy, they just want to do whatever you tell them to do. and can you even blame them?

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is intuitively blessed and you are someone who is very protected by your guardian angels. no one can mess with your energy just like that. you've got the power, babe. you are the power. you are someone who possesses a lot of knowledge and people feel intimidated by you because of this. they feel like you are too good for them and they might even feel inferior or insecure around you. i'm seeing here that people would be surprised if you ever talk to them for the first time. they'll feel like, “omg, no way THEY just spoke to me”. however, some people might feel like you are “self-centred”, but honestly babe, it's their insecurity talking. they know that they can never be you. you be you, love. also, i wouldn't be surprised if many people come to you seeking guidance because you're very intuitively blessed. the universe works in your favor, babe. 

BYE i just randomly got a feeling that people just naturally want to obey you because you look so pretty when you look down at them and order them around😭🏃‍♀️. i'm seeing here that you might be someone who is pretty tall or you might wear heels. or you just give out this very dominant energy. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is still stuck in the past and you might be someone who has a lot of regrets. you might have this tendency to overthink about what could have or should have happened rather than just accepting the reality. you might be a perfectionist because you might tend to feel disappointed if things don't go your way. some people might feel like you are missing out on great opportunities because you are not willing to move on from the past. they might just straight up think that you are “over-sensitive” rather than understanding your emotions.

there is something about your shoulders and your hair, pile 3. you might be someone who has broad shoulders and strong arms or you just have very attractive shoulders. your hair is also very captivating. i'm so sorry if these messages feel random, but i'm just getting it out of nowhere😭🤭. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is very emotional and you love with your whole heart. i am seeing here that many people have even tried to grab your attention by doing silly silly things. they might try to constantly seek your validation. pile 3, you for real make people so worked up over you, huh?👀😏. 

many people view you as a potential partner or may try to pursue you romantically during your first meeting with them. they might try to impress you and will try to win you over. your energy and your presence seems very pure and many people feel like they can just be free around you. you heal a lot of people, pile 3. and you are the type of person who will love someone even though they did you wrong. sometimes this trait of yours can be positive and negative - depending upon the situation. if someone constantly hurts you and you know that they are bad for you but you still keep on taking them back, then that's a negative thing. if someone hurts you by mistake and they did not realise that but they own up to their mistake, then that is a good thing. what i'm trying to imply here is that you are someone who is very accepting and sometimes this could work in your favor, while other times it could come to your disadvantage. so please be careful when you open your heart to someone, love. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is very emotionally strong and that you depend on your intuition for answers rather than seeking guidance from the external world. you're someone who has gone through a lot of experiences, so you know yourself better than anyone else, and you've seen a lot of things. i'm also seeing here that sometimes people feel like you don't open up so easily to them and they wish that you could be yourself around them. i have a feeling that you give people just enough information about yourself and they feel like they know you - but they don't. i feel like sometimes you don't understand yourself either. but that's completely okay, and you don't have to be harsh on yourself because of that. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who is still learning and seeking knowledge. you are not satisfied with where you are right now and you want to build yourself more. many people adore your drive and dedication and many people look up to you. you are an inspiration to many and people can't help BUT feel drawn towards you. what kind of magic do you possess, pile 3? how can you be so perfect???

people might also look at you as a competition and they will always try to be better than you. you kinda hurt their ego, pile 3 ksksjakakaka. they know they can't be better than you and that hurts them😭😭. 

people's first impression of you is that you are someone who hates playing games and being passive. you prefer straightforward and honest communication, and people know they can't b*llsh*t around you. they know that you'll call them out. pile 3, i don't know how you do it, but people feel so intimidated by you, it's literally insane. like please give me some tips🤭👀☝️. 

additional information - dark/light brown hair, dark/black hair, very light blonde hair, broad shoulders, strong arms, yellow, golden, navy/dark blue, black, broad face, light blue, pink, cancer, 5, pluto, aquarius, libra, 11, uranus, 7, cancer, sun. 

hi loves!! i hope this reading finds you in good health, and i hope you are doing well. life has been so busy lately, but im so glad i finally got some time to do a reading😭. take care of yourself, and i will see you in my next reading. thank you for being here<3

(note: tarot & oracle cards provide guidance and possible insights into what could happen based on current energies, thoughts, feelings and actions. the cards can highlight potential paths or outcomes, but they do not predict the future in a fixed way. this is a general reading so take what resonates!)

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