Positivity only for the realest of systems

Which, if you're a system and reading this, is you!!

[realsystems]

You're fantastic for being inclusive. Thank you for being a decent person.

It’s no problem, thank you for the ask! 

[realsystems]

Your system is gone?

That can sometimes be really uneasy and scary, and definitely very lonely. But something very important for you to remember is that this is temporary! 

Yes, your system is still there! I know it seems like they left or that you’ll never see them again, but it’s always temporary. I promise everything will get back to normal! 

[realsystems]

Hey I’m not comfortable with interaction from gatekeepers or people who are against endogenic systems, tulpa, soulbonds, or other systems. I’d much prefer if you post a lot of hate towards those groups on your blog if you don’t interact. This blog is and always has been welcoming towards all systems.  

I don’t want to start using DNI banners, I feel like it distracts from the messages of this blog and makes people feel bad, but I still would like to say that I’m not comfortable with that interaction and I’m trying to be very clear here. 

[realsystems]

You found someone is completely wrong about systems and won’t change their mind?

Grrr I really hate that. I’ve run into my fair share of people who thought that, even some who stubbornly clung to a wrong idea. Even if it’s harmful... 

But don’t worry! I might not look it but there’s a lot of growing awareness about systems, DID, tulpamancy, and more. It might not look like it now, but this idea is going to end soon! 

I know it can feel discouraging seeing people with the wrong idea, especially if you can’t correct them yourself, but they will learn! Some things just take time, and you loving and supporting other systems means everything. 

[realsystems]

Are you feeling uncertain, nervous, scared, or bad?

This is your platypus sign that everything will be okay! 

May the good things you deserve come to you soon! 

[realsystems]

You're thinking of coming out to someone as a system?

That’s great! I think it’s amazing that you have someone you feel you can trust enough! I know it can be scary, and you have to be really certain, but coming out can be an amazing experience with the right person! 

It’s also okay if it doesn’t go well at first, take your time if you need to and stay true to yourself and your system and know that in the end everything will be okay. 

And if you decide not to, that’s great too! It might not feel right or it might not be the right time, and it’s good of you to recognize that! Take as much time as you need~ 

[realsystems]

Erm... you’re an endogenic system?

Then you’re more than welcome on this blog! We don’t discriminate here, every kind of system is welcome no matter how you formed or what you are ❤ 

[realsystems]

You’re struggling with using the body?

You’ll get it eventually! I know it can be weird and it’s difficult using a different body, but with practice you can be amazing at using it! 

[realsystems]

You’re dating someone in your system?

That’s so sweet! I bet you’re great together, and I hope with all my heart that your relationship will flourish!! 

[realsystems]

What’s that? You saw something calling you fake?

No, no, don’t keep looking at it. Stop looking at it. You know what? You do not deserve that! 

Don’t look back now, what that person said is gone, but you’re still here. 

You know enough about yourself to tell! And that especially goes for you who keeps worrying you don’t know, this goes fifteen times more to you!