[releasedusername]

traumacoric

a trauma-related aesthetic gender based on the traumacore aesthetic & community. this gender may feel painful, dissociated, or lost.

THIS GENDER IS ONLY APPROPRIATE FOR TRAUMA VICTIMS TO USE, MUCH LIKE TRAUMACORE.

original traumacoric flag made on this post, but as traumacoric is one of my headmates primary identities, i wanted to add on a descriptor to the post.

https://variant-archive.tumblr.com/post/629807094973022208/traumacoric-a-coric-gender-related-to

Lilac Library

Traumacoric: a -coric gender related to traumacore Color meanings: Black: dissociation Red: trauma, venting/releasing pain Orange: warmth, h

@variant-archive @lgbtqiarchive @beyond-mogai-pride-flags @beyondmogaiprideflags boost if u can!

[halflifefunny-deactivated202212]

hey idc what anyone else says its cool to name yourself after your favorite fictional character, no matter how "cringy" or "weird" the name is. if you like ponies and wanna name yourself after a pony, fucking do it!!! name yourself pinkie pie!!!!! if you like undertale and you wanna go by sans, go for it!!!!

dont pick a name to "pass" or appease other people. thats the fun part about picking your name!!! it can be whatever you want.

[halflifefunny-deactivated202212]

i know i tagged this as trans, but this goes for cis people too. if youre cis and you really like final fantasy, fucking name yourself sephiroth. sephiroth is cool as fuck and so are you.

[huckleberrycomics]

(A better formatted version lol!)

Hi all!

Super excited to debut my zine with @notaclevernamer on October 24! It comes with super cute lil stickers and talks about some of the following, all geared towards trans men!

- Safe sex and STIs

- healthy relationships

- prosthetics for trans men

- your body and boundaries!

And whatever else we could cram into 36 pages!

It’ll be debuting at Canzine this year for $15 CAD per copy (including stickers) and afterwards we will be making it available as a PDF if there is demand!

Thank you lovelies and have a great day!

[huckleberrycomics]

📣📣📣 ANNOUNCEMENT! 📣📣📣

The PDF is now available for pay by donation!

Click the above link to read it! Thank you for all the support! <3

Note: we made it “pay by donation” so that trans youth are able to access this information more easily, but if you are a person of means we would love it if you would kick us a couple of bucks. We both worked super hard on it and anything is helpful!

If you want to check out the rest of my Gumroad shop click here!

[long-gone-silvers]

I don’t know who needs to hear this but it’s not polyamorous people’s fault that your monogamous partner cheated on you once

[c86]

Luke Gilford spent four years immersing himself in LGBTQ+ rodeo culture – and discovered a world where steer-roping meets lip-sync battles and camp glamour

[lesbin]

won’t tag you all but woulez-wous this reblog is for you

[mueritos]

hiya! I figured id make an informational post about the little things ive noticed about being on testosterone that I found weren’t talked about a lot when I was starting my transition and even before when I was doing my research. I think that trans sexual health is an extremely important part of trans peoples lives (and that doesnt necessarily mean sex) seeing as the physical changes that happen during transition are often foreign to us. Sexual health keeps us healthy and comfortable in our bodies, so do your best to stay attentive to your body’s changes! As always, consult your doctor if you feel the need to. These are only tips ive learned from transitioning myself and from my doctor when I asked about certain things.

PATREON

[frompawntoqueen]

Fucking tumblr our here really trying to teach the world things

[maggot-withanf]

Hey this isn’t necessarily something for HRT. But rather for top surgery for those considering it, most every surgeon and endocrinologist I’ve met (save for the ones I’m working with currently) doesn’t mention this and trans dudes who have gone through top surgery sometimes don’t even know about it, but your ti🅱️🅱️ies? They make hormones. Lots of them. When you get top surgery you’re removing a primary maker of hormones from your body and it’ll throw you through a loop, and for anywhere from a few days to a couple months after the surgery your hormones are gonna be WACK. This will usually cause a post-surgery depression that a lot of trans men sometimes confuse with regret for taking this step in their transition and it’ll throw them into an identity crisis, so for those planning on taking that step, just remember that weird ass sadness you’re gonna feel is just your hormones being like “hey wHAT the FUCK” and you made the right decision for you!!

[aevios]

Can confirm that bottom growth is a real and painful thing. If you’re the kind of person who wears skinny jeans regularly (looking at u fashionable goth/punk trans ppl), here’s a tip for your first few months of T: don’t.

Bottom growth will be overly sensitive and stick out of the hood more than usual, and anytime the inside of ur jeans rubs against it it will a) hurt and b) make u horny.

This can be a problem in general, but especially if u have bottom dysphoria and being reminded of ur junk can make u dysphoric, and/or if ur ace like me and being horny can be a very confusing and annoying experience (I know this is not every aces experience but I had never really had a sex drive or arousal before T and it was very distressing at first. Still ace tho)

Also re: top surgery, the first time I saw my chest post-op my brain flipped and I got so dizzy I nearly passed out. This is also relatively normal and okay. I think my brain just kind of freaked out seeing my body so different from what we were used to and also oh yeah with a big scar running across it. Its okay, that doesn’t mean you regret it either. I think sometimes ur brain just needs a minute to catch up and realize ‘oh wait this isn’t a traumatic injury this is what my chest is supposed to look like’. Once I had seen my chest a few times and let my brain get used to it I was absolutely thrilled and loved it (and still do). I also had a panic attack the night before my surgery because I was afraid of the anesthesia. Again, doesnt mean I made the wrong decision.

I think a lot of trans ppl don’t know that surgery can just be an emotionally intense experience, and yeah can also mess with ur hormones a bit (another consequence of both hormonal stuff and the stress of surgery is I got really bad acne for awhile after surgery) and so you might feel all kinds of weird or stressed directly before or after. It’s okay. Make sure u have supportive ppl around u to take care of u, and wait until ur body has had a bit of time to heal and renormalize before u start panicing over if u made the right choice or not. You’ll probably be sleeping for most of the first week anyway. Give ur body and ur nerves a break for a bit.

[fucktuplex-deactivated20200906]

@theuntemptedone @mimsidoodles @yoitsjaime @official-mossman @onlyoneformeisme

[ryegarden]

gay rights haha rb patreon insta

[nonbinarywiki]

Nonbinary 101 for Allies 

Check out our new booklet, written by the Nonbinary Wiki community with art by @trianglart! 

Here’s the full PDF:  https://static.miraheze.org/nonbinarywiki/1/18/Nonbinary_101_for_allies.pdf

[queer-buccaneers]

qupha (ku-fa or kyu-fa)

a gender which can be described as ‘woman’ but not ‘girl’. it is genderqueer/gnc, and not necessarily feminine in any way, though it can be if a qupha sees fit. it is large, loud, and slightly monstrous. it is also soft and warm, for the right people. it is associated with the roles of the mother, the queen and the sorceress; with fire and earth and water; with passion and sensuality and tenderness… but ultimately, only a qupha can truly define what it means and why they are one.

[sasstablook]

Venturgender: A gender which feels like an ongoing adventure, journey, or trek. A gender that is constantly evolving and revealing new aspects to a person.

(Psychedelic/phlox) purple: Mystery

(Golden) yellow: Discovery

(Forest) green: Growth

Infinity arrow: Always moving forward

Term coined by @sasstablook

Flag designed by @sasstablook and @fantastenby

[arlo-blu]

Neopronuns aren’t valid and damage the trans community. Discuss? 

[official-loka]

How do you even get to this conclusion….neopronouns have been used for decades and yet we’re doing fine

[transmedjarvis]

Neopronouns haven’t been used for decades?? They’re all new and created on tumblr??

[official-loka]

Hfjdjdbdhsj maybe do some research before making stupid statements

Xe/xem/xyr has been used since the early 90s

In 1934-1961 Merriam-Webster’s included the singular gender neutral pronoun ‘thon’

In 1991, Kelly Ann Sippell provided an extensive list of gender-neutral third-person singular pronouns that had been proposed over the previous hundred and fifty years. This list included, but was not limited to, hes, hiser, hem, ons, e, heer, he’er, hesh, se, heesh, herim, co, tey, per, na, en, herm, em, hir, and shey.

“Within the 19th century, pronouns such as ip, co, xie, per, en, ne, thon, le, hiser, ey, ho po, heshe, ze, heesh, bun, bunself, ey, and xe, had been introduced for non-binary representation.”

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[wolverineheight]

Adding on to this, Spivak pronouns (e/em/eir, e/em/es or ey/em/eir) were first recorded used in 1890 in response to ‘thon’ as a neutral. [source] and if that isnt enough to get thru ur thick truscum skulls and you want more, the wikipedia page for spivak pronouns is well sourced and provides a lot of good information! [source] 

[nondysphoric--enby]

Neopronouns have existed for over a hundred years and haven’t “harmed the community” in the slightest, you just want to convince yourselves that respectability politics will make you less oppressed even though history has shown that it only makes you and everyone around you even more miserable

[sheepgirlwizard-deactivated2025]

cis bootlickers are more harmful to the community than neo-pronouns ever even theoretically could be

[queerjubilee]

Bun/bunself was created at around the same time as Spovak pronouns for the same reason too