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40s queer poly transfemme hot goth nerd trash, she/her, living on TERF island unfortunately. Often NSFW, frequently irreverent. Radical inclusivity and mutual aid are more important than dunking on transphobes.

[reticulathefirst]

Praise kink, but in a deific sense. Praise me like a goddess. I don't want to be called Good Girl, I want to be called Oh Great and Glorious Mistress of the Night

[covid-safer-hotties]

Why Masks Work Better Than You Think: An Interactive Essay

Even partly-effective masks can stop the spread of COVID-19, so long as enough people wear them.

[talontarget]

jkr is literally posting upskirt photos to her social media. when will it finally get through to harry potter fans that their support makes her feel confident and correct enough to do things like this

[dodykeahedron]

If the holocaust denialism SOMEHOW wasn't enough for you to shut up about your favourite kids book as an adult; JK Rowling just committed a sex crime IRL against a transgender woman.

When do we start to care.

[maidslime]

The thing about the "trans women are capable of harm" type posts and blogs like transmascvoicesproject is that on a daily basis trans women are told that we are predators, that we are violent, that we have the rape organ, that we solely exist for fetishistic reasons and that makes us dangerous to be around. Society never lets us forget this. Cinema never lets us forget this. Terfs never let us forget this. Political parties on either side of the spectrum never let us forget this. These people post like they live in a world where trans women/transfeminine people are shielded from the consequences of our actions by our identities, but that's a fantasy. We are not only held accountable for our actions, but responses to our mistakes and transgressions are often extremely worse than that of other people. Not to mention, a lot of trans women are lied about, marked rapist/pedophile/abusive by an abusive, transphobic ex, and then isolated and removed from friends groups for the crime of coming out as trans. This is so, so, so common.

We do not need you to remind us we are capable of harm, trust me when I say we fucking know.

[fleshengine]

Every trans girl I know is too afraid of being seen as a predator to allow herself to be intimate with someone else. It takes years of understanding ourselves as something outside of the common archetype for us to get over that.

But go ahead. Tell me again that I'm capable of harm.

[b0tster]

I'm surprised I was able to get this far into the 2020's without needing to ask for mutual aid but here we are 💔

Local dentist saw a shadow on an x-ray for an unrelated visit and found bacteria eating away at my tooth and skull thats been happening for years. It hasn't been spotted until now because I wasn't showing any of the associated symptoms.

I need multiple surgeries to get the remains of the front tooth broken into pieces and removed, the bacteria scrubbed off, a bone graft applied to my skull, an implant installed and of course a new crown manufactured and screwed in.

They urged me to do it as soon as possible or else it will get worse.

If u could please donate / share ill be endlessly grateful ❤️

Donate to Help Lilith with her severe dental infection, organized by Lilith Walther

Hey all, you might know me by my work online :) I'll get straigh… Lilith Walther needs your support for Help Lilith with her sever

[wintymute]

You know mechsploitation as a genre is good and all but i feel like theres a surprising amount of themes and concepts that aren’t really touched on due to the common power dynamics people write about. Like, yes its good and all, but i do think that people could really afford to take a closer look at how ‘breaking’ a hound in effects them psychologically, and more importantly the inherent incompleteness of refashioning a person. I mean there is no “true loss of self” as much as we’d all like to pretend, you’re still you, even if its buried deep below layers of trauma and reeducation (if you even like to ascribe to the concept of a truer self in the first place that is). Either way, i think that blurry-lined edge between was and is, is far hotter than seeing a broken hollowed out girl say yes ma’am with a smile. Sure that sort of thing fits the fantasy of loosing your autonomy and responsibilities a bit better, the excision of self in place of another’s will, but thats not really how it works. No matter how much i torture you, no matter how much i rip your mind to little pieces, there will still be some sliver of self clawing at the walls of your own skull. Which works out perfectly really, I don’t want a broken down doll, i want to see what little fragments of self are left, and how painfully they grate against the new person they’ve become. I want to see how a broken little animal of a girl struggles to be, because there are immutable parts of her that are still human. We are awfully adaptive creatures, after all, but you and i both know some part of you is aware of whats happening. Some part of you knows what you’re conforming to, that these are all decisions you’re making, even under duress. That this is something you actively choose every time you hear an order. Some part of you still screams in the distant recesses of your mind when you hear yourself fall to my every command.

I hope it never stops screaming

[miscling]

miscellaneous food fundraiser

hi it's the miscling back again to ask for grocery and utilities money for this week. this week it's fundraising grocery money, but also there's bills and it's started organising the next big tnemm meetup. it needs to ask for £150 by the 20th july to cover necessary costs.

this thing is a disabled transfem community event organiser, managing a whole bunch of trans women, autism, unmedicated adhd, plurality, and a little physical disability. any help it gets would be greatly appreciated!

any support it gets is going to go towards its necessary costs, and anything beyond that is going to go into supporting its girls in tnemm and getting them to our meetups!

to help: >Donate Here< or reblog, thank you!

£0/£150

[miscling]

£50/£150, and only a couple of days left to fundraise. it knows money is tight and it asks a lot, but anything anyone can give would really help

[miscling]

this comes due the day after tomorrow and it really hopes someone can help it

[allegedly-human]

nothing is more tumblr than having a tumblr sexyman wiki and then warn you to not find some of those men sexy because it's problematic

[pocket-deer-belly]

these people would fucking die if they ever spoke to more than 1 furry

[missstrogen]

Help my girlfriend stay housed!

My gf's household received an eviction warning for 2,200$ and they need help to cover it! Please give her whatever you can so she doesn't get evicted, it would really mean the world to me. If you can't donate, at least please reblog okay?

Her ko-fi

(my ko-fi as backup if the above link doesn't work)

[miscling]

there is no smell more wonderful than trans girl bush and pits

[cptapathy]

And so, the fringe returned.

There was no stopping it, all we could hope for, was simply to survive it.

[cptapathy]

An essential stop

[cptapathy]

Day 1 of build and I forgot my adhd meds...

[cptapathy]

I'm used to using a cane now, but it is more of a hindrance than aid during build so I'm going without... and girls... how did I cope with this pain all the time before.

Day 1, trucks arrive and we do a lot of hurry up and wait for our kit to arrive.

Build crew meanwhile are full steam putting venues together for us to get into the rest of this week

[cptapathy]

Day 1 of build means day 1 of the tape tops

Unfortunately I had to bin a bunch cos they got tangled in my hivis but a small start today.

We're at a good point, 2 venues almost tech ready and 8 looms labelled and ready to loom.

I have come to the conclusion that I should bring my cane to work and put it away during the day so walking to and from is less painful and I only have to deal with the pain during work hours.

After our brief hurry up and wait period we tipped 2 trucks and set to work quickly.

It feels good, we've settled back into working with everyone well and (except the 1 new, and only, man in the lighting team) I feel like my expertise isn't being questioned and is appreciated. (Obviously the man was the slowest and least efficient of all of us, and messiest)

Anyway, I need to get food and a shower so see you all tomorrow for day 2 of the build.

Loom day.

[cptapathy]

Build day 2 and we've finished the looms. Ideally we bash out another 2 venues today and we have some options.

I also managed to remember my can and meds. Good start to the day. See you all at lunch.

[cptapathy]

Day 2 lunch, and the production manager is also on lunch so I get to chat with my friend who is far too busy otherwise. Miss him being on the ground with us, but it's nice to catch him in these moments.

[cptapathy]

Day 2 over, we didn't do the two venues we had planned to as all hands were called to the dome (2nd site) to unload dome container #1 which took so long but needed to happen and went well.

Anyway tape shirt day 2

See y'all tomorrow

[cptapathy]

Day 3 is over and it was a big one. 4 venues mostly done another dome container tipped and one exhausted girl in bed. Sadly the tshirt had to come off as it was too warm when tipping the container but I have a pic anyway

And a little bonus on the leg

See y'all tomorrow

[cptapathy]

Day 4 of build.

Morning of unloading horrible steeldeck from a truck and many flight cases. Followed by finishing up 1 venue and completing a second start to finish. 2 more days till we get time off and only 1 more venue to finish this week.

We'll probably have a day of snags, doing all the small jobs we didn't get round to, and help site crew with raising some truss. Then next week is dome week.

Today's tape top.

(Secret matt from light hire company cameo in the background apparently)

[ashnods-transfemogrant]

what they dont tell you about the really cute mutual is that she'll also have a voice so pretty it leaves u frothing at the mouth to suck her off,,,,

[vincentpriceofficial]

I think for a lot of people “I am completely helpless and powerless” and “I am completely powerful and in control” are both basically comforting fantasies because most of us live our lives in an in between place where we have enough agency to be responsible for our actions but not enough agency to have true control over our lives and the tension between power and powerlessness in the day to day is psychologically wearing and exhausting

[werewolf-transgenderism]

my most lukewarm take is that I don't think there should be any exemptions for vaccines, etc., beyond documented legit adverse medical shit that makes it physically impossible. like they should be free and required and nobody should be allowed to just choose to leave their child and any immunocompromised person they interact with vulnerable to potentially deadly but entirely preventable diseases and other medical conditions.

[tharkuun]

my lukewarm addition to this is that i think refusing your child vaccines is child abuse, just like refusing to feed them

[druetta3]

Feeling very myself today. Something about this outfit really makes me feel like me.

[um-jammer-tranny]

the girl who is trapped in my computer and phone should be trapped in my arms and bed instead

[lovestruck-lusagi]

trans girls are allowed to be annoying and stereotypical and socially inept and hyperactive and hypersexual and various types of animalgirl and there's nothing you can do about it. in fact if you're mean to that skirt go spinny reddit trans girl i'm stealing your entire house