22, agender

diary. don't follow me

[riparianzones]

personal. please don't follow this blog. i will block you if you interact with this blog

[riparianzones]

additionally, i want to try my hand at the sport of listening to an ambient album and keeping a vibrator near by. ambient and drone and co are so sensual

[riparianzones]

i’ve been thinking about kissing clean feet a lot lately. i’m so shy about it but they’re so smooth and nice

[spiderbitesandvampirevenom]

WHEN THE MODERN FRAMEWORK OF GENDER, SEX, AND SEXUALITY WAS LITERALLY BORN OUT OF 19TH CENTURY RACE SCIENCE YOU CANNOT DISCUSS FEMINISM OF ANY KIND WITHOUT HAVING TO FIRST DISCUSS THE RACIALIZATION OF GENDER ASSIGNMENT/PERCEPTION

[spiderbitesandvampirevenom]

like i cannot stress enough that when "man" and "woman" got codified "scientifically" in the 1800s as intrinsically seperate categories within western society THEY EXPLICITLY STATED BLACK AND BROWN PEOPLE WERE TOO PRIMITIVE TO DEVELOP THIS DISTINCTION. WE WERE QUITE LITERALLY SEEN AS A THIRD UNDIFFERENTIATED CATEGORY BELOW (WHITE) MEN AND WOMEN.

[spiderbitesandvampirevenom]

Like you CANNOT divorce gender as a construct from race as it was literally born out of the social construct of race. Black/Brown Trans Woman and White Trans Woman are, for all intents and purposes, discrete gender identities historically speaking. And the worst part is that this way that both Black/Brown women of ANY gender have had to fight to be recognized as people - much less women - should be a point of solidarity between white trans women and black/brown women. but every time we try to have this discussion it turns into a fucking flamewar bc of white fragility

[cyberpunkpavlichenko]

South American Feminist Maria Lugones discusses this in The Coloniality of Gender.

[rozieramati]

[cozyvu]

via cozyvu

[riparianzones]

it’s like yeah maybe i’m butch, but my growing hesitance and maybe resentment towards butch/femme bar culture complicates that immensely.

[riparianzones]

i’d love to take exercising seriously… i feel like i really could be crazy built if i gave it effort, but i think i oughta learn to stretch before i establish a workout routine or spend money on weights. my body aches so often and so badly over nothing, i gotta get loose

[escuerzoresucitado]

[judgejudyofficial]

stop letting miserable people on the internet convince you that you must have a concrete, well-constructed opinion on everything that has ever existed.

[riparianzones]

i might feel better about myself when there’s no profiles, no quick representation or summary

[3liza]

IDENTITY EMERGES ORGANICALLY FROM ACTION

[3liza]

IF YOU DONT DO ANYTHING YOU ARENT ANYONE. SORRY

[riparianzones]

there's a bizarre little section of online transfeminists who believe pedophile "liberation" is intertwined if not identitical with transfeminism. i think they just can't wrap their heads around the fact that a pedophile (real, not accused) is an oppressor, not part of the oppressed. there is nothing to liberate them from as someone who seeks, gains, and exploits their power over children. i think the mental torture that pedojacking did to a small handful of the online transfem community did has been disastrous in this way. of course a tortured individual will go to the group that tells her she's good

[3liza]

IDENTITY EMERGES ORGANICALLY FROM ACTION

[3liza]

IF YOU DONT DO ANYTHING YOU ARENT ANYONE. SORRY

[chelsea-mornings]

every bedroom picture is a diary entry

à la @imanbenerrabeh

[imanbenerrabeh]

beautiful

[riparianzones]

[riparianzones]

feeling off, i think im just tired and weary. i’m also still waiting to tell judith about last night’s play, which i’ll journal about soon. 🔜 i accidentally clicked that… anyway… today will likely be a rest day. i oughta find my slip and buy dye for it, though…. maybe that’ll be tomorrow, and i’ll go dye it in cal anderson in an effort to keep our house clean. it’s hard to believe summerween is This Weekend…. June has been going by significantly faster than May, April.