ROMAN'S CORNER!

[ HE/HIM ] [ (PRO)ENDOS, RADQUEERS, PROSHITTERS AND "GOOD FAITH" LABELS DNI ] [ INTERSEX, ACTUAL LESBIAN, OSDD-1B SYSTEM ] [ FACTIVE OF AN ABUSER. PERSECUTOR. BE WARY. ]

[sysmed-supreme]

The most frustrating part of this discourse is watching people twist themselves into knots to avoid a simple truth: Not every internal experience is a system.

Having imaginary friends? Not a system. Roleplaying characters in your head? Not a system. Feeling like you have "different modes" for different situations? Not a system.

DID/OSDD alters are not characters. They are not personas. They are dissociated self-states formed as a survival mechanism. The fact that some of you are so desperate to pathologize normal human behavior that you’ll co-opt a severe trauma disorder is genuinely concerning.

Stop romanticizing mental illness. Get offline. Touch grass.

[otakusys]

i sort of dislike how no one in the system community talks about still going through trauma even after finding out you’re a system.

of course i don’t want people to overshare to the point of putting themselves in danger. but im still in an abusive household. i know people who are still in abusive households. the system community always talks about splitting from “minor” things or triggers, but not new trauma or repetitive trauma.

i’m glad some people are doing and functioning better than they were as a child. but don’t forget the rest of us. we’re still here too.

[clockwork-col]

Casual reminder that the following things are considered traumatic to small children

- neglect (physical and/or emotional)

- living in an emotionally unstable environment (for example, having parents that fight often)

- any kind of physical, emotional, or sexual abuse (not just from parents)

- consistent bullying

- etc

Remember that what is traumatic to a child is not the same as what is traumatic to you now. So think again before saying your trauma ‘isn’t bad enough’

[problematic-alter-culture-is]

Problematic alter culture is constantly wanting to ruin our relationships with everyone because you don’t like anyone who’s with us (for example, breaking up with our partners.)

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[the-io-collective]

pro tips for interacting with introjects (factives, fictives, whatever i don't care)

treat them like their own people

literally talk to them like any other person

that's it. you did it.

[neo-pilled]

Common things in DID that no one likes to talk about

- switches that feel like you’re turning into someone else rather than them taking control (non-possessive switching)

- being unable to recognize amnesia until something requires you to remember something you forgot

- staying in the front for weeks at a time

- being unable to communicate with alters internally (this is so common why does everyone act like this is weird?)

- feeling like you don’t have any problems because you feel disconnected from them

- constant denial

- rapid identity, label, and appearance changes

- comorbidities, particularly personality disorders, anxiety disorders, and the schizophrenia spectrum

- autism (there is science pointing towards autistic people being more susceptible to trauma)

- disliking your system

- wanting final fusion

[c4ss1an-deactivated20260110]

"I feel safer in anti endo spaces"

Pro endos: you're a terrible person and an exclusionist

[roman-845]

dni if you don't believe in narc abuse btw. not all pwNPD are evil but we should be able to have terms for our trauma. fuck off with that trauma fakeclaiming shit

[fleshfictive]

NOT supportive to your system friends:

- "can you make [alter] front?"

- always asking who's fronting

- getting upset when they can't remember something

VERY supportive to your system friends:

- giving them money

- "here's $50 for you"

- relinquishing your money to them

- offering them money

[bloodonvalentine]

endos claiming to be oppressed is lowkey jaw droppingly outrageous

you're really that dense?

YOU are ableist. YOU are feeding into oppression.

"oh i'll never support ableists"

look in the goddamn mirror

why do you think actual systems say you aren't punk if you're endo? because you're the oppressor. you're the one making it 10x worse for actual disabled folk. a REAL punk would never do that. a REAL punk wouldn't ignore the majority of the scientific community in favour of living in a dumbfuck circlejerk of quacks.

the lack of self awareness is unreal

[roman-845]

if syscringe was focused on ACTUAL FAKE SYSTEMS (read: endos and some but not all pro-endos) instead of random ass pwDID just living their lives it would be cool

[dicktives]

Why is a common pro-lesboy argument “trans men who like women will transition and still feel connected to the lesbian label!!” Okay?? But you aren’t. You can be trans and straight, that’s perfectly fine but fym you’re “connected to the label?” You’re a man now and cannot be a lesbian…

[pupkure-deactivated20250819]

IF YOU'RE ::

- proship.

- support harmful para, zoophilia, pedophilia or radqueer + radinclusive.

- a loli/shotacon, map or mad.

- magatard, repub/righty, elon musty supporter.

- think transmen can be lesbians & vice versa.

- support or like BTD or any games like it that sexualize r*pe.

- into morally questionable/ and or support morally questionable kinks like r*peplay, ageplay, snuff ect ect.

- transmed, terf, OR truscum.

- believe endogenic systems are a thing/ or u dont need trauma to have DID.

FUCK OFF. YOU ARE NOT WANTED HERE. like... duh?

ty :3

[yipeejayvik]

"some trans men identify as lesbians because they feel connected to the term they used before transitioning" I used to be a baby but you don't see me telling people I identify as a 2 year old now do you

mspec "lesbians" and their supporters DNI, arguing will only reaffirm my opinions thanks bye

[burningnails]

Endos: ‘We don’t claim to have a DID/OSDD we just have alters like you as a symptom.’

Yes… a symptom of…. go on, I’ll let you guess.

[burningnails]

Me saying ‘endos do not interact’ does in fact mean endos do not interact.

It doesnt mean to send asks or comments arguing with me for being anti endo.

It doesn’t mean trying to justify being pro endo to me or trying to get me to support the belief that you’re endogenic.

It means do not interact.

[chimishuu-deactivated20251002]

tbh even if I did think endos and systems were the same (which they arent) i STILL wouldn't want to be in endo spaces...

I wouldn't want to be in a space where people water down my disorder and act like they "understand me" when they dont. its really that simple and its the reason I dislike the community as much as I do. they want to push and push and push about us being "in the same boat" but were not. they only experience the aspects of systemhood they want to experience. they ignore the dissociation, the amnesia, forgetting people and things you've known your entire life and the confusion and fear that comes with it. endos ignore how TERRIFYING being a system truly is. its not all "silly alters in my brain uwu" its being shown something you used to love and cherish in childhood and not remembering anything about it. its losing most of the only good childhood memories you had because those entire years worth of your life are locked off somewhere inside your brain and you cant reach ANYTHING from that time period. as much as I encourage systems to be silly and whimsical to help cope with their CDD, being a system is NOT all sunshine and fucking rainbows. I dont wanna be part of a community that acts like it is and ignores mine and other systems' REAL struggles.