as someone who had to work with a "golden retriever white man" who was the main character on plays, he was racist, most white people are to different degrees, he also didn't listen and I had to do lots of work that went unappreciated and then had to go along with how everything was fine and it was fun.
now that I'm far away from there, he was a nazi, he literally told me immigrants like me should be in concentration camps, he hates women and queer people, he called my disability fake.
just because a poc, especially women or gender non conforming and in the situation atp and saying it's fine doesn't mean they won't leave, be safer and go "yeah actually that kinda sucked". it's part of the experience at this point.
if you're white then you're gonna have racist thoughts or povs, you don't live like us so you don't see the injustice where it's not meant to be seen by you.
please just listen to us when we say something is fishy cause you're gonna be "oh so shocked this happened, I couldn't have seen it" in a few years, again.





















