I donât think anyoneâs brought this up before, so Iâd like to mention the demonization of Amarantha not only as a woman who is fully aware of her sexuality and uses it as a weapon, BUT ALSO as a tool to demonize wlw.
This whole argument centers around a nightmare Feyre has in ACOMAF. Iâll quote the passage in full (from pages 184-185 of the regular Bloomsbury edition of A Court of Mist and Fury:
I tumbled into a sleep so heavy my dreams were an undertow that dragged me down, down, down until I couldnât escape them.
I lay naked and prone on a familiar red marble floor while Amarantha slid a knife along my bare ribs, the steel scraping softly against my skin. âLying, traitorous human,â she purred, âwith your filthy, lying heart.â
The knife scratched, a cool caress. I struggled to get up, but my body wouldnât work.
She pressed a kiss to the hollow of my throat. âYouâre as much a monster as me.â She curved the knife over my breast, angling it toward my peaked nipple, as if she could see the heart beating beneath. I started sobbing. âDonât waste your tears.â
Someone far away was roaring my name - begging for me.
âIâm going to make eternity a hell for you,â she promised, the tip of the dagger piercing the sensitive flesh beneath my breast, her lips hovering a breath above mine as she pushed - [end quote]
And then it cuts off as Rhys wakes Feyre up from her nightmare.
The first time - and the subsequent times - Iâve read this scene, it bothers me. A LOT. Itâs clearly sexual, from Feyre being naked to the focus on her breasts to Amarantha nearly kissing her in that last paragraph.
This is what bothers me:  thereâs lots of sexual content in these books. I know that. Lots and lots. But this is the only time thereâs anything remotely like sexual content between two women (everything Mor says in ACOWAR seems rather strangely⌠desexualized) and not only is it assault, thereâs no reason for it.
We already know Amarantha used her sexuality in a way that is wrong. Like Ianthe. I believe the term @valamerys uses is Evil Evil Sluts Who Want to Steal Your Boyfriend. But to me, this is on another level. Amarantha never hurt Feyre sexually - just in physical ways, and emotional/psychological ways. To me, there was no reason to make this dream so dripping with⌠sex. To me, it becomes an association of âtwo women in a sexual contextâ with âhorrific torture and assault.â This is very different to the way f/m sexuality is portrayed throughout the series. Only a select few (Ianthe and Amarantha, the twins in ACOWAR though OH WAIT ITâS IMPLIED THAT AT LEAST ONE OF THEM ISNâT STRAIGHT) use their sexuality in ways that are wrong. Thereâs a lot of sex scenes, all f/m (as Feyre is the narrator and sheâs presumably straight), all portrayed in a pretty positive light. Even the scenes that border on sexual assault - the one after Calanmai in ACOTAR, the kiss with Rhys Under the Mountain at the end of ACOTAR - are, in my view, portrayed more positively.
And yet here is the only example of two women in a sexual context, and itâs⌠this.
Does this mean that Feyre associates women having sex with each other with torture? Does it mean that SJM herself does? It doesnât matter. What matters is that this is the ONLY depiction of wlw (sort of) sexuality in the entire series that has a focus on sex, and itâs framed as torture.
And this shouldnât need to be said, but thatâs not okay.