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Rye, 29, Germany. Pronouns are they/he. I have an aesthetic tag which is "pleasing", you'll find landscapes and flowers and interior design. My tag for beautiful people is "beauty." Special interests: birds and dinosaurs (#birb(s), bird(s) and dinosaur(s)); Crazy Ex Girlfriend; interior design

[gravitcat]

a thing for mermay i guess

[wutheringheightsfilm]

before i go to bed because im ill again i just briefly want to say that white people's adoration and frankly over the top love of (certain) animals taking precedence over their care about people of color is disturbing and needs to be dealt with. saw an insta reel today of a girl who adopted a cat whose owners were abducted by ICE and the comments were just filled with "omg the poor cat!" "i feel so bad for the cat!" "omg it probably thinks it was abandoned!!!" "omg the cat!!" okay and what about the owners. what about the people who owned that cat and loved it and will probably never see it again. the owners that like no one knows the names of? the owners? like the people that owned the cat that got kidnapped so suddenly their cat was just left? what about the people. the owners. like remember them? people who are living their worst nightmare?

or the way yt people will prioritize animals in gaza over the humans that live there. or the way yt people will prioritize animals over like real human laborers farming in unsafe and deadly conditions for their agave or whatever vegan trend of the month. or the way yt ppl will tout ecofascist talking points in favor of animals and against human beings. or the way yt people try and push universal veganism instead of food sovereignty and dismiss the culinary traditions of indigenous groups. and and and

[oliviawhen]

Job hunting in a hostile environment. ✨

[animentality]

[coast-modern]

I was 12 years old in 2011.... you could NEVER make me hate stomp clap hey music

[coast-modern]

How it feels to be 10 years old and hear Little Lion Man for the first time

[caspercryptid]

And it was

NOT YOUR FAULT BUT MINE

And it was

YOUR HEART ON THE LINE

I really

FUCKED IT UP THIS TIME

[messygoku]

[messygoku]

ya empezaron con "memes that transcend languages" cuando son palabras obvias

[deepseecreature]

anglofonos cuando reconocen cognados:

[feefal]

Oyster mermaid~

[feefal]

ah fuck, so sorry ma’am-

[thestateonmtv]

So with voting do you cum when a person get bitten into or when a person is swallowed or does it depend on the moment

[beachdeath]

usually you just mark a ballot with a pen or you select the candidate you want on a screen. sometimes you hole punch the ballot though

[creature-adjacent]

Carnivorous plants doin this is so funny to me

They don't wanna eat their pollinators :(

[questionablepastries]

[ozempicofficial]

[toastpotent-deactivated20250619]

nobody:

half full water bottle left behind on the floor of a public bus: *rolls around*

[thejoanglebook-deactivated20210]

OP is an optimist

[theweirdwideweb]

[can-i-make-image-descriptions]

[Image ID: Text message reading: But, if she’s on her period and you’re in cowgirl, she can bleed her egg into your penis and get you pregnant in the balls. /End ID]

[pissvortex]

[rottingfacade]

[tall]

[thevioletcaptain]

shane hollander opening a private browser window on his phone at 3am & googling what are the macronutrients in cum? send post.

[dogpuppy]

[pangur-and-grim]

it’s interesting how upset some people have gotten over negative things like homophobia and fatphobia being present in my writing. unfortunately I’ve had a life where those have been huge, shaping factors, and I like to talk about it. I was deeply anorexic for a number of years, and have had friendships and familial relationships deteriorate because of my queerness. being able to say “hey, this exists and it really, really sucks, now watch the fatphobic person get punched by a dragon” is kinda just what works for me, personally. I have a lot of feelings with nowhere else to put them, so my writing is always going to cater to my own catharsis.

[pangur-and-grim]

[pangur-and-grim]

a large part of this is also the intolerance for discomfort. there's a clear jump from "I'm uncomfortable reading about this bigoted character" to "this text is harmful" to "the author has harmed me," and I'm not sure if it's conscious.

my book definitely does have the flaws of a debut, but everything is in there with intention, and it makes me wish I'd included reading questions at the end of each chapter, like:

Glenda the elf repeatedly calls Domitia the half-elf a mongrel. Why is that included? Does her bigotry serve a role in the narrative? Is she a mouth-piece for the author? What evidence exists in the text to support each of these theories?

Sir Cameron is a closeted gay man who has been exiled by his father for gender nonconformance. The organization enforcing Order is out to kill him, to restore the world to normalcy. If representatives of the Order are shown to be homophobic/transphobic/fatphobic/racist, how does this affect the narrative? What is the underlying message about the imposition of Order? How does human diversity suffer under these artificial conditions? Are we rooting for the Order?

Glenda finds Domitia's weight worthy of criticism. Glenda is also deeply attracted to Domitia. There are multiple instances where Glenda refuses food, despite herself being hungry. What does this say about Glenda?

A sentient spaceship has named itself 'Lunatic Freak', two slurs on the moon. How does Sir Cameron react upon learning this information? What is being communicated about the spaceship?

Read the text in a paranoid manner. Then read the text in a restorative manner. Is there a difference? Which version has more textual backing? Which version sits better with your discomfort?