hi i’m kei / law, i’m 24, non binary, and i like pokemon and soulsborne
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let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open

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shark vs the universe
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izzy's playlists!

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@sablyte
hi i’m kei / law, i’m 24, non binary, and i like pokemon and soulsborne
read my about and check out my art ✌
“i asked chatgpt” “i asked grok” well i asked sweet shalquoir and she said "this place is already dead. everything will crumble and waste away, so that something new may be born. isn't it wonderful? hee hee hee…"
I've been rereading witch hat and i love them so much
directly asking merch makers in their preorder fundraising posts who makes their products & where & if equitable pay can be guaranteed to the ppl actually sewing their shit together .. perhaps a new trend this year
Starter questions
Who made this? What country? What factory?
Are there any accrediting schemes for factories making these items?
What techniques are used?
Can you find factories making these items based in your own country? If no, why not?
What are the materials? Are they sustainable? Are they hazardous?
What's the recommended method for disposal of the items?
hey. things are weird for me lately, my situation's starting to get pretty unstable, you. know how it goes. if ever i've made posts you like, you can help me out if you want
hi i'm ado. i try to make weird art online
they fit together like puzzle pieces
i would rather be equated to a cis man and wrongfully assumed to have privileges i don’t than for trans manhood to become a gendered category distinct from genuine manhood. i would rather be held accountable for how i interact with others in a gendered way than be misgendered. enough people see that i’m trans and act accordingly. not enough people see that i’m a man and act accordingly. i don’t understand why i’m being made to feel like this is a niche experience as a trans man. i’m a man. i’m a man. i’m a man. i’m a man. i’m a man. i’m a man.
if you hate men i need that to include me. if you love men i need that to include me. if you are criticizing or praising an aspect of manhood then that applies to me even if different parts of me like my transness or whiteness paint nuance on the subject. for all the ways it is convenient and inconvenient for your politics and relationships i will remain a man through it all and i’m tired of ceding ground on that. i just want discourse to reflect what i am. stop slotting me in categories that remove my manhood
This is transfeminism!
Tumblr post 1: Stories are all too grimdark and such it is fash doomerism to assume reality is evil What we need in these times is stories that inspire hope that is truly revolutionary
Tumblr post 2: Stories are all too fluffy and happy and such it is fash revisionism to shy away from the darkness What we need in these times is stories that are cathartic and unsettling that is truly revolutionary
MORAL: All storytelling is evil (telling lies)
"Go to Hell" is basic. "I hope your favorite game gets remade by and for people who believe its gameplay is an unplayable relic of a bygone age that you only put up with because today's objectively superior mechanics hadn't been invented yet" is real. It's terrible. It's happening every day.
figuring out how I want to draw kris
Which is better underboob, side boob or cleavage?
which is better, joy love or happiness??????????
have you played the new game? it's on steam. it's literally on gog. it's on epic with ads. it's literally on humble. you can probably find it on play store. dude it's on game pass. it's a eshop original. it's on itch. you can play it on itch. you can go to itch and play it. log onto itch right now. go to itch. dive into itch. you can itch it. it's on itch. itch has it for you. itch has it for you.
Do you like this Video Game Song? #2070
I like it and I've definitely heard it before
I like it and it sounds familiar
I like it and this is my first time hearing it
I don't feel strongly about it or have a complex opinion
I don't like it and I've definitely heard it before
I don't like it and it sounds familiar
I don't like it and this is my first time hearing it
I remember being a teenager and seeing MRAs on reddit talk about how they acknowledge that "some" MRAs were misogynistic, and that they didn't "approve" of it, but they wanted to talk about the impact of gender on their lives. And those of us who were naive enough to take this in good faith responded with genuine confusion, "feminism is the framework you're looking for. you should learn about feminism, and it will give you tools to understand the impact of gender on your life." and these men would say, "but we need a space that centers men's experiences."
now I'm in my 30s and watching the exact dialogue play out over and over on tumblr in trans spaces. tMRAs will sometimes acknowledge that others using "transandrophobia" or "transmisandry" terminology are transmisogynistic, and say they don't approve of it, but then go on to say that "trans men need spaces to talk about the impact of gender on their lives." those who respond in good faith say, "transfeminism the framework you're looking for. you should learn about transfeminism, and it will give you tools to understand the impact of gender on your life." and then these men say, "but we need a space that centers men's experiences."
men's "need" to be centered, and the antagonistic, resentful attitude towards even the suggestion of not being prioritized over women, is misogyny. understand this. it's misogyny even if he's not the one sending rape threats and harassing lesbians and vividly fantasizing about wanting to kill women. the desire to only participate in conversations that center men is the root issue. the more violent and recognizable forms of misogyny are nourished in spaces like this. you reap what you sow, and a space that centers men will grow misogyny (no matter how much you disavow the fruit).
no one, of any gender or relationship to their birth assignment, will find understanding around how sexgender functions in their own life if they cannot de-center men in that learning. they might learn ways to describe it (much of which will be misogynistic by virtue of learning this language in spaces that center men) but they won't meaningfully understand it any better than they did when they started. de-centering men is foundational.
to the guy in my notes getting frustrated
"the most frustrating part of this post is the equation of MRAs, a fully reactionary misogynistic hate group, to trans men trying to speak about their material needs and safety."
see this is the disingenuous thing that men keep doing. you are the only one on this post who is equating trans men speaking about their material needs and safety with MRAs.
there are trans men who engage fully in feminist and explicitly transfeminist spaces (some of them in the tags of this very post!). they discuss, interrogate, learn, and theorize about their issues with transphobia within patriarchal sexgender hierarchies. they are able to do this work without centering manhood and men in their analysis and praxis. they are able to do this work in genuine community with trans women and transfeminized nonbinary people.
men do not need to be centered. men are capable of understanding that their experiences with transphobia are shared with other trans people. this understanding enables them to form actually effective coalition rather than constantly sabotaging collective liberation efforts with transmisogyny.
in the original post when I say:
"men's "need" to be centered, and the antagonistic, resentful attitude towards even the suggestion of not being prioritized over women, is misogyny"
your reaction is exactly what I'm talking about. you came onto this post with so much misogyny.
saying men need space "away from" women
implying feminists don't want men to participate in feminism when this post is literally saying the opposite
calling feminists "childish" and "hostile"; addressing women as "girlies" and infantilizing them and simultaneously framing women as aggressors
saying "men are oppressed in their own ways either unique to themselves or similar to how women are oppressed" (i.e. denying that misogyny actually exists as a structural force) & quoting a guy literally doing the disco elysium "are women bourgeoisie?"
TERF dogwhistles (e.g. "sex discrimination" "transmen")
you offered up a perfect example of the theoretical misunderstanding of how gender operates in trans men's lives that I was critiquing.
"our masculinity is the exact thing that puts us in danger. its the masculinity".
here's a question: if manhood is the reason that trans men face oppression, then why the fuck am I also oppressed as someone who rejected assignment without being a man or pursuing/embracing masculinity? could it be that the oppression we're facing is transphobia? could it be that when we talk about structural oppression of trans people, the structures we are discussing are those of sexgender assignment and enforcement?
could it be that trans women and other transfeminized people experience sexgender assignment and enforcement just like we do, while also experiencing oppressive structures to which we are not inescapably subjected? could it be there are some structures of sexgender enforcement that we have the privilege to not even encounter, to the point we rarely even notice them until transfeminized people point them out? could it be that there is an actual structural reason behind trans women facing the highest rates of gender-based violence?
what is the point of gender theory that doesn't account for or theorize about the causes of these stats? just to flatter men?
when your theory doesn't account for anyone outside of men, it doesn't hold up! it's not bad theory because it's "mean," it's bad theory because it's inaccurate and actively moves people further from liberatory consciousness.
which is why y'all keep ending up aligning yourselves with TERFs and detrans grifters. do you not get why you always have these people in your tags? did you even notice the screenshots you included to support your position included TERF dogwhistles?
it's not the words you're using that I find unserious. it's the entire theory and praxis communicated by those words.
when I said
"no one, of any gender or relationship to their birth assignment, will find understanding around how sexgender functions in their own life if they cannot de-center men in that learning. they might learn ways to describe it (much of which will be misogynistic by virtue of learning this language in spaces that center men) but they won't meaningfully understand it any better than they did when they started."
this is exactly the shit I'm talking about.
you are not doing trans men any favors by telling them not to organize with or listen to the rest of us.
self-soothing with gender-affirming misogyny in isolated spaces where no one can call you on it is not gonna save you. you are locking yourselves in a closed room and breathing in poison.