Zoe

Twister Champion

[approach]

my clothes: *has a bunch of words and shit about how youre supposed to wash em right on the tag*

me: .. youre fabric go in the robot sink

[l11ghtw0rker-deactivated2019052]

HOW TO GET SHIT DONE WHEN YOU FEEL OVERWHELMED:

1. Choose 3 main tasks per day that you want to accomplish. Balance the activities between practices for your mind, body and soul. 

E.g. My 3 main tasks for tomorrow are: 1. Tarot Notes (mind), 2. Work Out (body), 3. Bath (soul)

2.Time block. Schedule your day’s, week’s and month’s ahead so you’re not operating your life randomly (at least just do your day ahead*)  

E.g.  9:00- Wake up  9:30- Take the dog out  10:00- Breakfast 10:30- Tarot notes  etc. 

3. Prioritize. Things will come up, you won’t always get done what you need to in a day. Number or put star’s/symbol next to task’s that have to get done that day. Set deadlines for goals. Write notes on how you can improve on achieving your goals when you don’t meet deadlines. Use the data to your benefit, keep track of patterns so you can form new ones and be aware of where your time and energy is going. 

4. Reward Yourself. Do a page of homework and then watch an episode, go get a special latte after you finish a self reflection page, go to the clubs after exams, celebrate your victory’s no matter how small or amazing. Have something to look forward to. Even simply having a cup of tea while scrolling can make the experience much more cozy and soothing. Set yourself up for success and follow through with being kind and gentle. 

5. Encourage Yourself. Be your #1 fan, be a friend to yourself. Find/create affirmations you feel connected to. E.g. “I can conquer any-fucking-thing that comes my way with grace and ease.” Comfort yourself when you feel down. Don’t let the darkness take over. You have the power to do anything when you believe you do. Stop giving your power away. Your belief’s create your reality. “What you think you become” is viral for a very good reason. It’s true.        

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tumblr psa:

[tryforce-deactivated20211211]

There’s a nip in the air. Cold won’t be good for my crops. Never is. 

[myboyfriendpetebuttigieg]

It’s a bird! It’s a plane! It’s a cold and it’s a broken hallelujah.

[sapphiac]

Achieving self love takes a lot more commitment than just accepting yourself for who you are in the present. It involves forgiving your past self for your mistakes and flaws, and paving the way for your future self to have a bright and happy existence.

[angelchangsta]

I would have a LOT less anxiety about responding to emails if all email interactions were like this

[oldschoolgarage]

[realniceusernamebro-deactivated]

jason is always fucking up

[energyprison]

me at the zoo being so afraid of the monkeys: that little man hasn’t any pants on

[sistertaxon]

when you drive your chevy to the levee but the levee is dry and you see the good old boys drinking whiskey and rye

[justavpdthings]

I once said to my therapist after a particularly hard week, “I wish I could just fix all of my problems and move on to live a normal life” And he looked at me and said, “There is no finish line”.

Those words felt like a stab in my heart, but they were words that I desperately needed to hear. There is no finish line to my problems. It’s not possible to get through a certain point in life and have my problems simply disappear. And it’s unhealthy to think that way. Up to that point in my life, that’s what I though recovery was. I thought it was like working your way forward until it seems like your problems never existed in the first place.

The finish line does not exist. Instead, everyone has a capacity for recovery. You may never completely rid yourself of whatever causes you pain, but you will move miles from where you started. Don’t set your expectations too high and create that theoretical finish line in your life, or you will only end up chasing it. Instead, focus on your own capacity for recovery, and be proud of yourself for every step you take.

[justavpdthings]

Just saw Eighth Grade and reblogging the heck out of this bc wow it gets so much better if you just take it one step at a time

[mintedwitcher]

Okay but I cant help but hear “there is no finish line” and immediately respond with “then why am i running the race?” What is the point*? Where is the benefit of putting in the effort if its not going to ever end? If i am always going to battle I would rather just give up the fight.

*(Im not saying recovery is bad or whatever ppl wanna reach for, this is my personal view)

[dalniente]

That’s the thing, though: it’s not a race. It’s a garden.

No matter what your garden looks like in the beginning, you have to weed it before it can grow into what you want it to be. And when your flowers are planted and growing, you still have to keep up with the weeding. You have to keep up with the weeding even after your flowers are tall. A garden can’t survive on its own. There will always be weeds.

But there will be flowers, too, if you give them space to grow. Give them room, give them time, and keep checking in to make sure the weeds don’t get too tall. You will always have weeds, but you will also have flowers.

And maybe your garden doesn’t look exactly like you imagined it would. Maybe you aren’t sure how to get rid of that one big thistle in the corner. Maybe you’ve got bindweed and nutgrass (which will always, always come back). Either way, you’ve got flowers now, and it’s a nice place to sit and look around, and it looks nicer than it did before, and it’s yours. Keep going with it. If you miss a few days, or months, or years, that’s okay. Pull up the weeds when you’re ready, uncover your old flowers and plant some new ones, and keep going.

Gardening is a process, not a project or a problem that can be solved. The same is true for your mental health. Weeds will grow, but you’ll get better and better at pulling them, and you’ll grow flowers, too.

[wanderlustspider]

Today I needed this. Cause I’m really tired of running this race… You start to make your own finish line, and it’s probably sooner in my road than the universe planned.

[estfortis]

This is something i’m only just starting to realize

[justhere4coffee]

When people call you a “snowflake” just remember they’re quoting Fight Club, a satire written by a gay man about how male fragility causes men to destroy themselves, resent society, and become radicalized, and that Tyler Durden isn’t the hero but a personification of the main character’s mental illness, and that his “snowflake” speech is a dig at how fascists use dehumanizing language to breed loyalty from insecure people.

So basically people who say “snowflake” as an insult are quoting a domestic terrorist who blows up skyscrapers because he’s insecure about how good he is in bed.

[thefloatingstone]

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[nabuisthebeastiworship-deactiva]

[anxietyproblem]

Follow us @anxietyproblem​

[mindfulwrath]

honestly “i’ll do whatever you want” “then perish” is the single most powerful exchange possible in the english language and it’s from some bizarre “hewwo” obama rp

[fallingtowers]

And there was that other post where someone dreamt that Obama said “violence for violence is the rule of beasts” like what is it about Obama that makes people come up with such raw fucking dialogue for him

[twofingerswhiskey]

my mother had a dream where he lived in the forest and she had a cigarette with him and he said “to become god is the loneliest achievement of them all” and put it out and walked into the mist and i’ve never fucking forgotten that

[antiblackness-archive]

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[lotrlocked]

Reboot this post to be blessed with dream Obama’s wisdom

[detrea]

The premise of minimum wage, when it was introduced, was that a single wage earner should be able to own a home and support a family.  That was what it was based on; a full time job, any job, should be able to accomplish this.

The fact people scoff at this idea if presented nowadays, as though the people that ring up your groceries or hand you your burgers don’t deserve the luxury of a home and a family, is disgusting.

[oncelerfucker69-deactivated2019]

Also if a livable wage breaks the system then the system deserves to be broken.