[saint--psychopath]

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Hi, I’m Vervain. Welcome to my blog.

This blog is a mental health blog and I will focus mostly on ASPD, but since I’m also diagnosed with DID you might read something about that too here and there. 

Please beware that I don’t have any empathy and I usually just speak however I see it fitting. I might get involved in arguments and I’m definitely not polite in those, so keep that in mind if you decide to follow me. 

This space is supposed to be my safe space and I will definitely also be a bit more... vulnerable here. If you are just here to abuse that I will block you since I’m not dealing with any bullshit like that. 

I will only TW tough things like RAMCOA or CSA, but I will not TW every single post of me. 

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[indianterritory-deactivated2022]

two spirit is not a "native version" of anything

its not a "native version of nonbinary" or a "native version of bigender"

thats not what it means, that’s not what it’s ever meant

two spirit is an pan-tribal term coined by indigenous people in 1990, for indigenous people, to replace the term berdache, an offensive term that white settlers applied to indigenous people that fell outside of the western lens of gender and sexuality

two spirit isnt a "native version of nonbinary" because two spirit doesnt inherently mean someone is nonbinary. some of us are, but so many two spirited people arent. many people in our community also choose specifically not to label themselves with terms like nonbinary, gay, bisexual, etc, and solely use two spirit or another term from their tribe or language

we can be anything and everything and nothing you've ever imagined

to say its a "native version of nonbinary" is not just inaccurate, it's a complete erasure of a massive part of our community

[you-can-be-what-you-want-to-be]

Would it be more accurate to compare it to the word queer or lgbt+ or is trying to find a comparison something that should be avoided all together?

[loboflaco-deactivated20221016]

It would be best for you to make no comparisons as no comparisons can be made. We are not here to be compared to our oppressors or their institutions.

[thecorpsedump]

people finding out in some way or another about how someone has aspd is the funniest shit in the world because 99% of the time the response is “if you killed me would you feel remorse” and “do u cry…” like baby what do you want me to say

[unreasonable-suspicion]

I truly couldn't care less about if people use "sociopath" in a derogatory way. seriously.

yes, they shouldn't, but people with ASPD have much bigger issues than Olivia Rodrigo's new song. I haven't seen anyone constantly complaining about the word sociopath even mention the actual issues we face.

issues like:

involuntary hospitalization & poor treatment there

psychiatric abuse

the fact that prison is considered a legitimate treatment for the disorder by many psychiatrists

longer prison sentencing just for having the disorder

being given lifelong institutionalizations over misdemeanors

inability to work for many branches of the government

discrimination in the workplace

if you haven't mentioned any one of these things complaining about the word "sociopath" is entirely performative. actually give a shit about us and our issues, they go well beyond TikTok trends

prosocials reblog this pretty please 😊

[ireallyamthemaincharacter]

My toxic trait is being emotionally vulnerable with people and then adding ‘lol’ or ‘lmao’ after so I can pretend whatever I said is not a big deal and/or a funny joke we can laugh off 😍

[embodiedfutures]

Black is not a dirty word.

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And please remember, Black is good is a radical concept, but radical concepts are what create change. Keep fighting.

[disgustinggf]

[mutual-beatings]

sick fuck ((flirtatiously))

[himbos-hotline]

its 2021. 

When are we gonna stop treating people with DiD like we’re evil criminals or deranged sociopaths?! 

[saint--psychopath]

Wow, you really respond to ableism with more ableism.

When will people learn to NOT use sociopath in that negative matter? I'm a person with DID who classifies as a sociopath/psychopath due to my comorbid ASPD. Congrats you're not like me, I suppose.

That's why I don't like the DID community. You're so full of shit and scream ableism at fucking everything but you don't give a shit if something is ableist against someone else.

Fuck you, OP. Fuck you.

[cluster-b-culture-is]

npd culture is being mad when someone, anyone blocks you. why wouldnt you want to experience me???

[saint--psychopath]

People who put syscourse into the actuallydid tags are the most annoying people on earth

[wilted]

is everyone having fun with their nicotine addictions and 14 hour daily screen times

yes

[hopelesscalico-deactivated20230]

i am so fucking sick of people trying to act like it’s ableist to acknowledge that disabled people Are Disabled. this whole movement has started around people saying “disabled people are just as capable as abled people” when the conversation that SHOULD be being had is “there is nothing wrong with needing accommodations that abled people don’t”

[carnivoroustomatoes]

ASPD would make me such a good candidate to be turned into a vampire I’d never be a “consumed by my insatiable bloodlust” goon like, first time? Lol okay I’m gonna go eat cops and then fly away as a bat, healthy outlets for violent impulses and stuff

[lloras]

mutuals if u murdered someone its ok it happens sometimes i forgive u<3

[herrmetzger-deactivated20250120]

It'd be great if people understood that "no regard for others" means "no regard for others" and not "will seek you out to put salt in your coffee and punch you in the face"