Doesn't matter...

[samthesuperiosane]

Just watched two episodes of Jujutsu Kaisen : Culling game ....and who the fuck is this new misogynistic clown, Naoya Zenin?!

Tch.

Was so happy to see this cutie though ✨

[samthesuperiosane]

I've been watching Dr. Stone: Science Future and I cannot stop emphasizing on the fact that my boy Senkuu is an aromantic!

When Luna asks him out,

His reaction goes from this:

To this, real quick:

I keep losing my shit over this 💀

His. Fucking. Face.

[samthesuperiosane]

Source: comic by Impressive_Switch_98 (reddit)

TW: Aphobia

[samthesuperiosane]

Should people on the asexual spectrum date allosexuals?

Yes

No

It depends on their sexual attitude (sex favourable/indifferent)

Voting ended onApr 2, 2025

I know this is a personal choice, but I was just curious on what the general stance is in the community.

[durarara-brain-rot]

i saw your analysis video about shizuo (great video btw!) and now i'm curious... what ARE your opinions on each shizuo ship? because to be honest i don't care for any shizuo ship either LOLOLOL

Oh my gosh I’m so glad you liked the video! And I can talk about it for way too long but I will try to summarize my feelings about each ship that I’ve seen around! Also this is not me saying anyone shouldn’t ship these characters this is just my opinion on why I think they don’t work and why I think Shizuo needs a therapist and then a lover interest that is removed from all of the chaos of the plots!

Tom and Shizuo; while they make good friends I can’t see them as a romantic couple because there is that power dynamic of Tom being his boss and the fact that Shizuo can’t keep any other job. This will quite literally be a power dynamic they could never get over as long as they are both working.

Izaya and Shizuo; they try to kill each other on a daily basis and in my opinion they both give each other so much anxiety it could never be a productive relationship. Both Izaya and Shizuo are mentally ill men who have a lot of internalized issues that lead to them lashing out. Izaya views Shizuo as a monster because he can’t predict what Shizuo will do and can’t understand his motivation. Izaya even says in the sunset of Izaya orihara that he “neglected to take in account the human side of Shizuo” he viewed him as lesser and any relationship born out of that dynamic inherently is toxic and will lead to abuse. I also feel that this ship breeds a lot of peoples internalized misogyny by perpetuating the idea that men can’t feel anything but anger and sex.

Celty and Shizuo; my sister ships this one and there isn’t much wrong with it compared to some of the canon relationships and ships I’ve seen in this fandom but in my opinion they work better as friends. Shizuo has very little close friends and even less friends that he doesn’t have to worry as much about hurting. Simon and Shizuo can go toe to toe but they aren’t really close from what we’ve seen, more friendly acquaintances. Celty is on an equal playing field and can more easily communicate with him since he quite literally has to calm down enough to focus on what she is writing. (I also headcanon that Shizuo has dyslexia considering he has trouble reading all of the things on the dollar message board and gets pissed off by how many words and how fast the posts were going. I may be projecting with this though) I feel that a romance between Celty and Shizuo would further separate him from others due to the fact that people would more likely associate him to the supernatural even more than they already do.

Shinra and Shizuo; Shinra doesn’t see Shizuo someone interesting, even the friendship stemmed from Shinra finding Shizuo’s powers intriguing on a scientific standpoint. Shinra should also get therapy cause boy oh boy that man needs it before getting into a relationship. Shinra as we’ve seen with Celty is a bit of a push over and is secretive because he is overly possessive. I think he has a major fear of abandonment too. Shizuo needs someone who will call him out and calm him down. He also seems to like solitude and Shinra would drive him up a wall.

Vorona and Shizuo; she literally tries to kill him and only got close to him to learn how to kill him. Yes she grows fond of him and he grows fond of her but they end up having a mentor/student dynamic creating an unhealthy dynamic if they were to get together. Plus the age gap is a bit much especially considering vorona is mentally stunted from her upbringing. Vorona is barely 20 and Shizuo is pushing 26-27 depending on what source you look at for the final season. While 6-7 years older for someone over the age of 25 isn’t that bad when it comes to someone like vorona who is barely 20 and who has had no healthy relationship with anyone let alone herself it can create an extremely unhealthy dynamic. Vorona needs time to explore her life and emotions that she just hasn’t had the years todo. Shizuo by the end of the first season (not talking about the manga because I’m not caught up) he is fully developed and actualized as a person. He has over come a lot of different internal battles and struggles and got more control over his strength. Vorona is not at that level of maturity nor is she someone that should be. She needs the time to develop and a relationship with anyone would stunt her growth in my opinion.

If you guys ship any of these characters obviously this is no hate to you guys but these are my thoughts and opinions as someone’s who’s spent way to much time breaking down the show and each of the characters. I’ve been obsessed with this show for going on ten years and could talk about my feelings and observations about it for ages.

I ship Shizuo with therapy!

Please no one kill me for my opinions!

[samthesuperiosane]

Hands down! Best take on Shizuo and his ships. 👏👏👏👏

[samthesuperiosane]

I'm on the aroace spectrum and my attachment style is

anxious-preoccupied

dismissive-avoidant

fearful-avoidant

secure

Voting ended onOct 21, 2024

[samthesuperiosane]

Anime with Best Female Characters?

Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood

Durarara

Inuyasha

Cowboy Bepop

Lupin III

Other (specify)

Voting ended onSep 23, 2024

[samthesuperiosane]

I have been following NCT127 since 2019. It's literally my group. With the whole Taeil news that is out, I am utterly disturbed. Fans might not know him well, but he was loved by all his members so much. He was their hyung. The scenes from all their contents keep flashing in front of my eyes. All those moments when he said/did one silly thing, and everyone rolled on the floor laughing. Members always hyped him. Always. To see that their hyung stooped to this level, terrifies me as a viewer more than a fan. We really believe everything that is shared with us, without batting an eye. For me, he certainly never gave the I-knew-something-was-wrong-with-him vibe, I just thought he was the quiet and a laid back guy, who didn't really care much about attention. But who knew. Something that would break me more now would be if the members knew. I want to give them all benefit of the doubt that they were genuinely as unaware as the rest of us. But can I truly? For once, I am hoping if there is any dirt on the other members, that should be out too as soon as possible. I'm just disappointed.

[samthesuperiosane]

I am on the aroace spectrum and my high school education system was:

Single-sex education

Co-education

Both single-sex/Co-Ed (Transferred School)

Home-schooled

Voting ended onAug 31, 2024

[samthesuperiosane]

I'm on the aroace spectrum and my MBTI type is :

ESTJ/ISTJ

ESTP/ISTP

ESFJ/ISFJ

ENFJ/INFJ

ESFP/ISFP

ENFP/INFP

ENTP/INTP

ENTJ/INTJ

Voting ended onAug 22, 2024

Yeah, I thought I would try it with the MBTI as well!

[samthesuperiosane]

I'm on the aroace spectrum and my zodiac sign is

Aries

Taurus

Gemini

Cancer

Leo

Virgo

Libra

Scorpio

Saggitarius

Capricorn

Aquarius

Pisces

Voting ended onAug 21, 2024

I'm just trying to see something. Not sure if this has been done before?

[pragnificent]

This is Money Snake. She only appears every 312 years. 

If you reblog her picture within the next twenty-five seconds you will have good luck and fortune for the rest of your life. 

[thingsamylikes]

I reblogged her late last year and my 2024 has been very satisfying work-wise and (secure enough to not stress out) money-wise so far. Money Snake is wise and good.

[carpecake]

Not worth taking the risk

[aurae-rori]

snek please bless me

[rheamay]

I need the blessings, passing it onto yall.

[samthesuperiosane]

I don't know who needs to hear this, maybe its just me but:

Being on the ACEApp made me realize that your sexual orientation has nothing to do with your character/personality and being on asexual spectrum doesn't make you more moralistic/better human than allosexuals. You can still be on the spectrum and be an entitled piece of trash.

[st-pam]

[samthesuperiosane]

Back to square one.

[samthesuperiosane]

I started watching Wandee Gooday because of this:

Ace representation in a Thai BL!! Only two episodes are out, and I watched it with @icyspikes , they told me not to expect much screentime for my ace guy. But still I am hoping he has his own plotline and finds someone suitable for him!

Give my man the love he deserves! 💜🖤🤍

[samthesuperiosane]

The first half of V's FRI(END)S music video, screams person-on-aroace-spectrum-getting-affected-by-amatonormitivity, to me.

[samthesuperiosane]

My thoughts on O from Sex Education

I have seen divided opinions on Sarah "O" Owen from Sex education. Here's my thoughts:

Not the bestest ace representation, but I think this is the most screentime and attention an ace character has gotten in a mainstream show (as far as I am aware), and I think that's huge. Sex Education is a popular show, worldwide. So before anything, I am thankful to the creators for creating an ace character who had pivotal role to play this season.

It was an interesting idea for an asexual character to be a sex therapist, just because they think it's fascinating: sex and relationships. And it also made sense to me why she concealed her identity from her peers, cause to allosexuals, it could be just beyond comprehension; a bizzare idea; that someone who isn't having sex, is giving them sex advice? Hell no.

Sure Cavendish is a progressive institution, inclusive to all. But no one had a problem with her being asexual person. It was just their pre-concieved notion about how asexuals would be; someone-who-doesn't-like-sex-and-stays-away-from-it. Hence, isn't O an excellent character to break the stereotype? An ace who is fascinated by sex and relationships, someone with unbaised perspective, someone who actively talks and helps people deal with their sexual issues? It's beautiful.

I also related to her feeling that she was better off alone, and her clinic meant everything to her, something she held onto? She had no real friends, either. She was just alone. We all have things that mean a lot to us, that might seem silly to others. My goals and my love for anime seem extreme/obsessive to people. But they have to much on their plate, and they are hyperfixting on things, I don't really care or understand either. There is a gap, that cannot be bridged. But it's okay, we all have different ways and paths to walk, and it is okay to be an ace and feel alone.

The only thing I didn't appreciate is she being a bully and not standing up for her friend, and also not apologizing. Sure, in that moment she did it to protect herself. But I am sure she had several opportunities to apologize to Ruby later on, but she didn't. I don't know why? The only plusible explanation is she maybe didn't want to explain herself, as to why she did it. But she could have tried, atleast. She wasn't the nicest person, ofcourse. But all allosexuals aren't either?

Overall, I am still happy we got an ace character who isn't forgettable with just 2 minute screentime!

Gif credit: @dollopheadsandclotpoles