Hello there

Brittany. 31. Mom. Wife.

[sarcasmandsnozzberries]

Everyday I’m more and more convinced this baby isn’t waiting until 39 weeks to make her appearance, but I also still have no idea when she’s coming if it is early.

[altivyx]

[sarcasmandsnozzberries]

Being pregnant is Awful

[boyfriendtvcom]

You can only eat 2 foods for the next 2 years (with no health repercussions)

Spin this wheel twice to figure out what they are!

Are you happy with your new food palette?

Literally a dream come true

Pretty satisfied, all things considered

It's fine I guess...

Ugh. I'm counting down the days until this ends

I FUCKING HATE THIS 😤 AAAAA

Voting ended onFeb 4, 2025

[sarcasmandsnozzberries]

I need iron infusions and it’s going to be $162 each, and I need to get one a week for five weeks 🙃

[roccio2]

[neomedievalist]

ohhh having a job is actually ruining my life.  ok

[2nowfort]

[vampirecatboy]

[purr-in-ink]

Sound on 🐈‍⬛🤍

[anxietyproblem]

[zero-two-ten]

this site has one setting

[jenroses]

I’m laughing, but there’s a super useful corollary, which my husband calls “the Red Balloon.” He was a defense lawyer and had a fair number of drug addicts come through, and there is a thing where if you’re like, on your first offense, they’ll do a thing where you can go to treatment and if you complete it they’ll take the conviction off your record.  And he would tell his clients, “Look, everyone’s going to tell you not to do drugs. They’re going to say it over and over again. And it’s like, if people tell you not to think of a white elephant, you’re going to think of a white elephant. But the trick to not thinking about a white elephant is to think of a red balloon. So you need to find your red balloon. For some people it’s yoga. For others it’s woodworking. For some people it’s scrapbooking or gardening or any of a long list of things to do. They focus on that, it’s a lot easier to succeed in ignoring the white elephant.” So yeah, “watch yourself” is one thing… but the better idea is to watch something else. (Even if it’s fanfic about werewolves fucking.)

It’s a form of productive dissociation, and is super, super helpful. It’s easy for me to get bogged down in how much pain I’m in… but some of the most painful periods of my life have also been the most productive, writing-wise, because writing is one of my red balloons. 

[kittydorkling]

There is a phrase I use A LOT in my parenting and my son gets very sick of it, but it’s true:

The thing you practise is the thing you get good at.

You may not intentionally be practicing “being grumpy” but if you don’t put effort into practicing “not being grumpy” then I’m afraid that’s what you’re doing. It’s hard! It’s really hard! Sometimes, for some things, it’s pretty much impossible and that sucks!

But being carefully aware that you are going to get good at the things you do most of is a good way to be more careful of what those things are. If that makes sense.

[bogleech]

You gotta appreciate sometimes how tumblr works in such a way that everyone who wants to reblog this interesting or useful psychological advice is also forced to reblog the thing about werewolf fucking

[hyperlexichypatia]

Werewolf fucking is useful psychological advice! You gotta find your own source of joy in this cold world. So, so cold… you might call it a… three-dog night.

[maxknightley]

has anyone noticed that working for a living sucks ass

[fairycosmos]

ping ponging back and forth between seeing immense beauty everywhere and feeling deeply like i am in hell

[trans-ralsei]

[trans-ralsei]

[caughtthedarkness93]

I love my job, but reblogging employment jelly for someone else I love.

[sarcasmandsnozzberries]

Pro tip. If you have plans to meet up with friends, esp a pregnant friend who has a toddler, and you’ve been throwing up within 24 of said hangout, maybe cancel those plans, or at the very least give a heads up so friend has the choice to cancel.

[thinkingabout-girls]

“but what if i’m being annoying :(“ everyone’s annoying dipshit it came free with fucking being alive and existing. now go talk to your friends

[equivocations]

flowers in the community garden. watercolor on toned paper~

[weirdgirlvampire]

again and again and again and again

[sewersoul]

feeling this going into 2025