Idk they seem kinda….. nice???????
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Idk they seem kinda….. nice???????
realizing that the online sphere and especially tumblr is NOT a good sample for ‘what everyone thinks’ is so, so, so good for your mental health and moral OCD. i swear to god. realizing that you don’t have to live your actual life like you’re being hunted for sport because the average tumblr user will hunt you for sport for wording something slightly weird or engaging in the wrong stuff or whatever is so incredible. like no you’re actually not fucked up and evil for not donating or for watching that one indie cartoon or questioning a post that everybody is agreeing with. that’s just tumblrs georg making you feel that way
you make one fucking post where the point is “women are encouraged to develop disordered eating from a very young age and that impacts how we view the ‘natural’ size and shape of women” and too many reblogs later i am being accused of saying short people wouldn’t exist if they ate better growing up. i’m sorry but if you genuinely think i was saying that you are just a buffoon. i cannot and will not sanction your buffoonery.
ohhh holland marchhhhh (leans on expensive car)
You don't have to grieve alone.
asked one of my coworkers how she's doing today and she goes "could be better, could be worse," and another coworker nearby who was eavesdropping chimes in with "could be a lil bit o' alligator curse!" i have no idea what he meant by that but i do know that it has been immediately added to the lexicon.
Very fond of the idea of stratt meeting march holland and jackson healy in their 60s/70s looking for their estranged grandkid ryland grace
I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.
I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.
I humbly offer this contribution.
Watched a documentary about abuse and advice one guy said to give children was, "Tell them that if someone is hurting them, to tell someone - and don't just tell one person. Tell as many people as possible, and keep telling as many people as possible until the abuse stops." and i really liked that
Bc so many ppl focus on the idea of telling A Trusted Adult, but even a well-meaning individual can fuck up and let abuse fall through the cracks or not know what to do
Whereas if a child tells LOADS of adults AND other kids, there's far less opportunity for an abuser to do damage control
Consistently telling their story and spreading it around disempowers the abuser to control and coerce the flow of information, or to utilise gaps and weaknesses in systems of reporting or welfare to isolate the child
Just really good advice. Not suprised I don't hear it more often.
This is really good advice and, in the UK at least, also applies to “adults at risk” as well. It’s what I did when I had problems with my social care provider that amounted to a safeguarding concern earlier this year.
If your school safeguarding lead, youth worker, scout leader, neighbour, doctors surgery, local citizens advice office etc. all make referrals and follow up on them to make sure they’ve been received and taken seriously then it’s more likely that it will be taken seriously and that action will happen.
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Especially the last one!
Fae descended/ Lady of the Lake ish AU where Aegor never gets Blackfyre at Redgrass, because after Daemon, Aegon, and Aemon's deaths the sword just straight up vanishes before Aegor can reach it. He literally saw it vanish into the mud?!?! No one knows where it's gone or what happened to it but the assumption is that someone stole it, because Aegor never fucking says what he saw. Aegor's determined that it doesn't fucking matter and Daemon's kids still are the rightful claimants to the throne and continues to raise them with that thought in mind.
But where actually is Blackfyre? Well, you see, Dunk and Rafe went scavenging through the battlefield and came across this funky looking sword with its jeweled pommel. Rafe is... relatively certain the blade is made of Valyrian Steel but that doesn't make any sense because surely surely someone else would have scooped up the sword by now if that was true?!? Anyway, they take it with them. It ends up saving Rafe's life, because when Dunk realizing Alestor is going for her, he stabs him with the sword (it had been sheathed at his side, they'd covered the pommel and hilt with rags so no one would look at it twice). Dunk ends up killing the other two gold cloaks as well. He and Rafe steal back their coin and all the extra coin the guards have on them and they go rushing off to get tickets to the Free Cities. But end up getting into some trouble before they can board the ship, Arlan saves them, and they end up going with him. Arlan keeps side eying the sword at Dunk's hip (because he was at Redgrass and he fucking recognises Blackfyre, thank you very much). Arlan's honour would demand he return the sword to the Targaryens, but his practicality means he knows he, Dunk, and Rafe would be accused of looting at the very least and likely end up being executed, so he says nothing about it other than a command for Dunk to keep the fucking thing hidden, unless Dunk's very life is in danger, and even then he better make sure not to let the Royal Family see it unless they're the ones threatening his life, and even then he better have some fucking luck on his side if he doesn't wanna lose his fool head over it. Dunk agrees, though he's confused about it (until he later realises the sword is Blackfyre).
Dunk loses Blackfyre approximately three times in the years with Arlan. Arlan'd be concerned about that except for the fact that the sword just... keeps on showing back up in the oddest places and it's always Dunk who stumbles over it again. He figures there's some magic at work here that he doesn't understand and it's not worth interfering with that. Just keep the sword safe, boy!
Arlan still ends up dying on the way to Ashford, but he does knight Dunk first, and Dunk and Rafe go on as normal and everything still happens as in canon. Except when Dunk's brought before Baelor regarding the whole Aerion situation, Dunk, who had discovered in his time with Arlan that he's something of a wordsmith if he puts his mind to it, ends up bargaining with Baelor, that if he can provide House Targaryen with something precious they've been looking for for years then Baelor will pardon Dunk and Rafe for any wrong doing already committed up to that moment. Baelor's very raised eyebrows about this, but agrees anyway on the condition that this 'something precious' must be very precious indeed, or the deal is off. Dunk just smiles and asks if Prince Baelor could request Dunk's arms be brought to them. Baelor, bemused, does.
Ser Arlan's sword and Dunks are brought to them by the guards and handed to Baelor. Baelor waits until the guards are gone and then he turns to Dunk and just asks 'now what?' Dunk grins and asks Baelor to unsheathe the larger of the two swords. Baelor does and furrows a brow at the Valyrian steel that's revealed. He looks up at Dunk demanding an explanation, but Dunk just tells him to take the rags off. Baelor does and just stares at Blackfyre, he hasn't seen it in well over a decade and what the actual fuck?!
"I believe, your grace, that I've just restored to you the symbol of kings. The King's Sword, if you will. I doubt you'll find something more precious to your house, except living dragons," Dunk says, the smile on his face is all teeth and Baelor realises suddenly what Dunk is. He's just bargained with a fae and the fae has kept their side of the deal and now Baelor... Baelor must keep his unless he wants to risk the fae's wrath. Dunk and Rafe get their pardon, but Dunk gains Baelor's unwavering attention.
Baelor later realises that Dunk has absolutely no fucking clue what he is, and he's determined to figure out how that can even be. How did the fae lose one of their children in fucking Flea Bottom of all places?!?! What the hell did Rafe mean when she said she was surprised the sword hasn't already abandoned Baelor?!? It's a sword?!?! What?!
Enemies to "I accidentally came across you while you were vulnerable and scared and I'm not a total asshole so I tried to help you" to "accidental mutual uncovering of softer sides and vulnerabilities" to "I can't be mean to you anymore, not out of pity but because it would feel weird betraying that brief truce we had" to "Fine I'll make an effort to be nice to you now I guess" to "actually now that we're not actively hating each other you're not so bad I guess" to "i think we're friends but I'm not going to say that because I'm afraid you're not gonna feel the same way" to "oh you also think we're friends? Great" to lovers
Ngl every time someone adds a comment or tag that says "remove the to lovers part and this is perfect" I'm like. Yeah you're right. Weakest part of the post honestly. Consider it removed.
Consider this an aroace post now.
I love seeing people get excited over the last addition it makes me really happy
Putting the term "Catholic guilt" on a high shelf where fandom can't reach it until everyone learns how to identify characters who are very very clearly coded as Protestant.
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And whatever's going on between them
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“It's not fair.” The little ghost kicks impotently at the chalk lines around her feet. “I ain't done nothing.”
I nod, setting down my chalk and spellbook. “It does sound like there might have been a bit of a misunderstanding.”
“She took against me, that's what happened,” the dead girl says with a scowl. She looks about fourteen, round faced and spotty, with whisps of brown hair peaking out from under her mob-cap. Her face and her crossed arms have a tell-tale bluish tinge to them. A cholera death.
“I been here for don't know how long and never gave any trouble. Nobody ever complained about me 'till her.”
…well, that's not strictly true.
Number 12, Barclay Street has been attracting rumours of haunting since the mid nineteenth century.
Sounds of faint singing and crying in the corridors at night. Cold spots. Doors that open and close by themselves. Animals acting strangely. Harmless, mid to low-level stuff, typical for a bored teenage poltergeist.
Still, pointing that out isn't likely to achieve much, and certainly the most recent complaints of blood running down the walls, screams in the dark and paralysing night terrors seem distinctly out of character.
The ghost toes the chalk again, more tentatively this time. It stays resolutely unbroken.
She could get out if she wanted to. I'm not one of those assholes who brings out their full arsenal of wards and sigils for a first meeting with a level 2 spectre. The summoning circle will keep her in one place for as long as I need her to talk, but it wouldn't hold for a moment if she really fought against it.
I take it as a good sign that she's still here. Pouting or not, she's clearly willing to work with me.
“None of the others could do this,” she says. “None of 'em even saw me.” She looks up. “Are you here to exise me?”
“Exorcise,” I say instinctively, and curse myself when she flinches. “Sorry, no, no! I don't exorcise people from their homes without good reason, not if they're happy where they are.”
“I was happy. Till she started calling in all them ghost hunters.”
Mrs Delaney had been quite persistent in her attempts to 'fix' her haunted house. Most of the people she found were charlatans, of course, but I'd still arranged an appointment as fast as I could once word reached me. It wouldn't have been long before she happened upon somebody with Talent, and unfortunately not everybody in this field knows how to behave like a professional.
“I think we might be able to help each other,” I say, careful to keep my voice calm and level.
“Don't see how. Not unless you can exorcise Her.”
“Not quite what I had in mind.” I pull out my phone and scroll through my photos. “You say that you're not the cause of the most recent incidents of paranormal activity?”
A pause. The ghost gnaws on her lip. I wait, patiently, keeping my body language open and nonthreatening. “I… I knocked her coffee cup over,” she admits at last. “She was being mean and talking on her telephone, saying I done all these things when I never did! So I decided to show her what I could do if I wanted.”
“Hmm.” The ghost eyes me nervously, as if expecting me to pull out a book, bell and candle and banish her on the spot.
“I only tipped it,” she adds. “I didn't break it or nothing!”
“You shouldn't have touched it at all,” I say sternly. “But… I can appreciate that you were frustrated, so let's say no more about it.”
The ghost looks relieved.
“My point is,” I continue, “if you weren't the one making blood rain from the ceiling or tormenting people in their sleep, then what was? There's no other ghosts on the property.” I find the picture I was looking for. “You can get anywhere around the house, right? Including behind the furniture and in the backs of cupboards?”
“Yes'm.”
I hold the phone up so that she can see the picture on the screen. “I'm going to let you go free in a moment, and I need you to see if you can find anything that looks like this.”
The ghost wrinkles her forehead. “What's that when it's at home?”
“Black mould,” I say, reaching out a foot to break the binding circle. “And I'm pretty sure it's the cause of this haunting.”
disabled ppl we need to start lying to nosy people okay? you tell me i'm too young to need a cane and i will tell you point blank that maybe you should tell that to the guy who ran me over. you don't get an explanation of my health issues you get lies and depending on how much of an asshole i want to be that lie will be anything from a humble car crash to a 1 billion lions attack. mind yr business.
"i could never live like that" well maybe you'll have to because this happened overnight. yeah you heard me i was the most able bodied man in the world but then one morning bam i woke up disabled. yeah you could have that too. there's no cure either you'll just wake up one morning and now you have to live like me
"what happened" well have you ever seen looney tunes? yeah an anvil landed on me and squished me flat.