hater

black woman. 30s.

[mpregeminem]

[cuntaloupes-deactivated20241215]

Abusive men pave the way for lazy men to get wives and girlfirends.

[cuntaloupes-deactivated20241215]

Lemme clarify, how many times have you heard your overworked female friends and relatives say “Yeah, Jerry drinks beer every evening after work while I cook dinner and clean up after everyone and does the bare minimum to help me raise the kids but he’s such a nice guy. He’s never beat me in my life. I couldn’t ask for a better guy in my life.”

Like no, Sally, your husband is a common stone among turds and you know it.

[biggestniq]

I try to explain this conceptually to people as a thing that happens not saying that this is good but it’s a thing that happens.

[wedgemccloud]

This is what male privilege is and how all men benefit from it.

This is why you are not exempt from statements about “all men” even if you are overall good.

You benefit from the bar constantly being lowered by systemic issues within the gender.

The expectations on you are always lower than they should because “at least you’re not X”.

[123235785898313578973-deactivat]

lmao at these posts going around like “:( what happened to feminism guys?” on the same website that spent the past 6-7 years constructing blocklists of feminists, making it impossible to show any form of female solidarity lest you be accused of being the worst person on earth, propagating a misinformation campaign that would make MRAs blush, and justifying sending death and rape threats to lesbians. All the fEmiNisTs wItH tEeTh are still here fighting for you, you just have them all blocked because you ate up the 21st century equivalent of anti-suffragette propaganda about how mean evil and ugly they all are. glad you finally noticed the backlash period you helped facilitate though! it’s never too late to stop being utterly spineless

[unbotheredmuse]

[porcelain-dollbones]

men will often pull a neat rhetorical trick where they act like women and men are perfectly matched, equal parties on neutral territory who simply need to iron out their differences and come to terms. of course, this is not at all how they behave, and the way they treat women reveals the disparity of power that in fact plainly exists

[goblinous]

A lot of women want to believe this and try and pretend it's true, putting themselves and other women in danger because convincing themselves of a lie is a lot simpler than facing the whole of inequality.

[takethemedicinemoved-deactivate]

[shamelesslyunladylike]

Well, yes, feminists have been warning you about that for ages.

[hotgirlruslana]

we literally told you

[moderata]

and you called us evil for pointing this out

[sowhatisheckinavailable-deactiv]

I want to elaborate more in case someone reading replied/reblogs was never told this. Feminists have been saying since the start of this transition boom that the reason companies were/are so supportive is because they see it as a profiting tool. They don't care about your mental health or what is best for you. They care that you are convinced you are the opposite sex and they care about you buying their products to make them money. Everyone (by that I mean corporations) only seem to be supporting this mass out cry for easier transitioning because it's easier profita for them.

A lot of lesbians and gay men have been telling you that this is eaxtly what happened to us as bring gay became more accepted mainstream. We yell about it every time pride month rolls around when companies start to push their "pro-gay" stances so we gobble it up and make them money.

This is even more serious. We arent and were never out to hurt people by pointing this out. We arent trying to male you feel alone or like no one supports you. We want you to be safe and understand that companies are going to try to take advantage of your mental state. Just because a snake is smiling and using language you are comfortable with does not make them less of a snake.

[churels]

Inauthentic Selves: The modern LGBTQ+ Movement Is Run By Philanthropic Astroturf And Based On Junk Science - Campaña Argentina por los Derec

Let me set the stage for you. It is the recent Anchorage municipal elections. It is cold, it is chilly, it’s Anchorage, and there are munici

still one of the most world changing and insane investigative pieces I’ll ever read.

[genderisareligion]

Sending this to someone made me realize that link is broken

Inauthentic Selves: The modern LGBTQ+ Movement Is Run By Philanthropic Astroturf And Based On Junk Science Part One

How the LGBT community got suckered by Big Business and Big Philanthropy.

There's a lot in here but this year I find these particularly interesting (and I wrote about that study they're talking about in the screenshots here, and got an anonymous threat or two after saying that lol)

[glorianas]

i think all the women through out history who were financially pushed into marriage and motherhood because they had no other options is sad and tragic too but socially something we will never be able to reckon with because we can’t come to terms with the fact some women don’t want to be mothers

[glorianas]

we really are so condtioned to believe, deep down, all women want to be mothers (even if now we’re okay with women having careers too) like i really just think we should all question how news cycles about birth decline are aimed at us, when realistically there’s several reasons for it and one is absolutely women more and more are in positions where they don’t have be wives and mothers for economic reasons and you know what? that’s a good thing!

[stephexmachina]

genuinely insane to me that bikinis are the Default swimwear marketed & sold to women. that's nylon underwear. & if you don't want to wear one people treat you like you're childish & insecure & suggest ways to "get over it"

[stephexmachina]

"i feel uncomfortable with the idea of wearing what amounts to fast-drying underwear in front of other people, many of them complete strangers" "have you tried gradually acclimating to showing more & more skin? have you tried being more confident? are you ashamed of your body? don't you want to show off your beach bod?" girl what the fuck are you talking about!!!

[stephexmachina]

wearing a bikini is all about confidence & self-love 🥰 but remember to wax all that icky yucky body hair first!!! 🤢 nobody wants to see that 🙅‍♀️

[glamfellens]

"he can't write women" is crazy because its not like women are aliens or whatever but i guess men dont see women as people so it all adds up huh!!!!

[femalegrandma]

[dapperprincess]

women: i choose the bear because the way men are capable of raping, murdering, or even enslaving us is all far worse than being eaten alive or left to bleed out

this man: I choose the bear because female humans have said mean things to me

[fretami]

once again:

women are afraid of men because of the violence they inflict on us

men are afraid of women because their feelings get hurt

[kkoffin]

ironically this is the most male socialised thing this guy could’ve possibly said

[ruuling]

"you're more likely to be attacked by a cis woman than a trans woman"

no. you're more likely to be attacked by a ADULT HUMAN MALE than an adult human female regardless of your sex.

the amount of obfuscation explains so much about this misogynistic, homophobic movement that is trans rights activism.

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

By sheer numbers it's probably true that you're more likely to run into trouble with a regular woman than with a man who identifies as one. Once you control for the numbers...no. There is no evidence that's ever been presented that transwomen pose less of a threat than a regular man, and at least one study showing they retain male rates of violent crime.

It's like that statistic MRAs love so much about how women make up over 50% of child abusers. But the second you control for access and time spent, you find that men are far more dangerous to children.

[laundryandtaxes]

One important thing to remember in life: Do not coddle men. Do not do their work for them. Do not perform uncredited labor for them, including intellectual labor. Do not bend over backwards to help them. Do not tell them they are good at things they are bad at. Do not smile at them when you don’t want to. Do not laugh at their terrible jokes or stroke their egos or let them think they are better than you when odds are good that they are almost definitely not. Do not even deal with men whose presence bothers you when you can get away from them/when you aren’t regularly forced to be near them for things like work. Do not include men in your life who don’t deserve to be in it any time that you can avoid it at all.

[ceruleanheaven]

religion is so fucking funny the world is just too beautiful there must be a higher entity behind all this. lets oppress women

[averys-blood-supply]

Genuinely why does every single one hate women

[warriorxena]

[goatfem]

"Kinky" partner: I like to choke and beat my partner and get off on it.

Abusive partner: I like to choke and beat my partner and get off on it.

Saying that "consent" changes anything when someone is into brutally beating their partner is like praising a cheetah for waiting for the right moment to pounce on prey. Same outcome for the prey.

[depsidase]

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