women are not an idea, not a feeling

you cant wish away reality

[uwameshi]

Saying being trace is racist is like saying being transgender is sexist. I get it, new things may make you uncomfortable, but you need to stop with your bias. Trace individuals aren't hurting anyone, the same way Transgender people are not hurting anyone.

Heart breaking to see so many tracephobic Trans people.

[vampyfem]

Transgenderism IS sexist and rooted in stereotypes.

Transracialism IS racist and rooted in stereotypes!

Hope this helps.

[fretami]

the paralells to incel men who identify as cute anime girls are so clear here

you say to a man fetishizing women and girls “you are male” and they hear “i am an OGRE who will NEVER BE LOVED and have to perform masculine stereotypes and BODYBUILD and abuse women and burn art”

they are so sexist their ideas around sex and gender are disorted. the same way this person hears “you are not white” as “you are [insert all the racist slurs and stereotypes they listed]”

[anjomecanico]

Some people's arguments are in the same level of "Do you like dogs? Yes? Do you know who also likes dogs? Adolf Hitler! You're a nazi!" and they aren't even a little bit ashamed of it. In fact, they feel intellectually superior to other people because of this

[noblackwomannocry]

as part of the transfem voices project, mousidy felt the need to highlight the voice of a woman who, as a 12 year old boy addicted to loli pornography, molested an 8 year old girl and spent years in the juvenile detention system as a result. this woman is now a 30 year old self-admitted pedophile, enabled by parents (whose support she credits with keeping her alive) who have seemingly coddled her every step of the way, including somehow allowing their child the means to easily access pornography after molesting another child, who now self-flagellates on tumblr about how much she wants to die because people would want her dead just knowing that she is a pedophile. not even based on the fact that she was a 12 year old boy that molested an 8 year old girl.

she loosely connects her story to transmisogyny at the end by going "well idk if I faced transmisogyny before I came out but I did after I'm so scared because transmisogynists would call me a pedophile and they would be right everyone wants me dead I can't be pedojacketed because I have the jacket on :("

great #OwnVoices job, team. knocked it out of the park. hit the showers.

if you are able, consider donating to a group like Survivors of Incest Anonymous, which helps provide a safe space for victims of CSA, including victims of COCSA, to talk about and heal from their experiences.

[riverlarking]

how it feels to become too feminist for things you were previously fine with

[hugewomanwatches]

[quastions-i-dont-ask-on-main]

The trans men complaining about misogyny think we're all pre-T boys----

Hey look at me. I've been on T for almost 8 years. Same amount of time with my name and sex marker corrected. And I am misgendered about 50% of the time. I have beard growing on my face. I am still treated like a hysterical woman while being called my male name on doctors. My parents still misgender me and deadname me. I still have been coerced into sex without a condom and have someone with a dick to treat me like a woman - more than once - during sex, and even with me saying I was a top only, complaining that ny hole is better to fuck. So no it's not only those "pre-T boys"

[harrypotterfuryroad]

good news everyone, we've officially dropped the fake genocide scaremongering narrative

[fat-fuck-hairy-belly]

Remember when everyone knew the YouTube CEO by name and blamed her personally for everything wrong with YouTube when the CEO was a woman? And how when she was replaced by a man people didn't do the same to him despite YouTube getting worse and worse? I wonder what the reason for that might be 🤔

[manuciruja]

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

They’re posting pro pedophilic content op that’s what

[sichorean]

[marmorada]

[Image ID: A two panel infographic reading "SCHRODINGER'S TRANS: A phenomenon in which..." where panel 1 titled "IRRELEVANT AND UNIMPORTANT" depicts the eponymous Shrodinger's Cat in its box, labeled with Women's Spaces, Sports, Language, etc, with a thought bubble saying "Women shouldn't mind giving them up." Panel 2, titled "CONSEQUENTIAL & NECESSARY" depicts a male desperately grasping at the box which is labeled "essential for survival". He says, "Men will DIE if they can't have them," with a skull emoji.

A paragraph at the bottom reads, "It's a phenomenon known as "Schrodinger's Trans" in which women's spaces, sports, language, etc is so irrelevant and unimportant that women shouldn't mind giving them up while simultaneously being so consequential and necessary that men will die if they can't have them."

End ID.]

it should be noted that the image looks a bit AI.

[fretami]

the meme is almost unreadable AI slop but the content is good. an artist should update it

[gatekeeper-of-witchcraft]

lowkey how it feels to be an actual homosexual during pride month

[frogburglar]

wow what a typical girlhood milestone

[valariesolanas]

i refuse to believe this is real 💀

[absoluteunitpussy]

???? what the fuck

[lesbionichulk]

Ummmm this is not what girls did at sleepovers.

And I may be mistaken but aren't boys the ones that typically compared their genitals? So nothing has changed for them

[gendercriticalsideblog]

Weird as fuck to call it a “milestone of girlhood” and a reclamation of his adolescence and then immediately delve into sexually-charged activities. Men really do believe their porn is real life

[fretami]

“cuddled, spooned, and compared breasts” these men literally think womanhood is their porn fantasy. i dont want to share even a club with these men theyre extreme misogynists

[kiefbowl]

the most important virtues for the young woman are as follows: time theft, selfishness, orgasms, irreverence to authority, sacrilegious behavior, a questioning mind, and eating regular meals.

[kiefbowl]

[neatlyvaliantchampion]

I just realized that the term "penetrative sex" strips women who participate in it off of agency and focuses solely on male perspective of things. If such sex was framed from a woman's perspective, it'd be called something like "enfolding sex" or "encasing sex", as if the woman attaches her vagina, which is an autonomous organ that doesn't need to be filled in order to be complete, onto something unnecessary. Kinda like grabbing a rock with your hand or something. We: 1) fully acknowledge our active participation in the process of grabbing a rock; 2) fully realize that our palms are complete, autonomous organs without a rock in them – and that's why we don't say that a rock enters, or penetrates, our hands, we say that we actively grab it, or encase it.

[en-cima]

“Andrea Dworkin suggested when it comes to justifying misogyny, the right has religion while the left has nature. Trans politics has offered up a suitably postmodern amalgam of both. Are we dealing with scientifically verifiable proof of the “gendered” brain? Or with some mystic, soul-like essence known as “gender identity”? In many ways, it doesn’t matter which, as long as both are reinforcing a male view of how masculinity and femininity work”

—

[gluten-free-pussy]

Swinging at the hornets nest here (the “sex work is work” crowd won’t like this one lol) but there was a post going around about like “if you work in hospitality and you think you see a sex worker, no you didn’t. Keep your mouth shut and let them make their money” is honestly sending me. As many of you know, one of my jobs is working front desk at a hotel and like no lads…we can’t “look the other way” at times. Yes, we know when the working girls check in (many are regulars who are open about it, plus after working their long enough you Know™️ when a woman is because you can clock the signs) and of course we can’t stop them but there are times when you literally have to say something. Here are a couple of instances that have happened on my shifts alone:

-I was checking in two girls and knew something was off and asked to see both their ID’s. Only one had a passport and her 18th birthday was literally a week ago. The other one handed me her high school student card. We had to call the police when their pimp came in and started making threats bc we refused to check them in.

-a sex worker checked in the night before and a housekeeper went into the room the next morning and found the woman in a bloody mess. There were chunks of human tissue scattered throughout the room (the housekeeper quit after that. Honestly, housekeepers are literally on the front lines of the bullshit but that’s another story)

-something about a “couple” was offfffffff at check in. The woman was standing with her hands behind her back, had her eyes glued to the floor, and wouldn’t answer questions despite her name being on the reservation. The man was answering for her. When I asked to see her ID, he hands it to me, and when I handed it to her, her arms were covered in bruises. We didn’t let them check in

-there are two properties and one of them has an agreement with a women’s shelter. I’ve checked in women into one property only to see them come in months later to the other property under the womens shelters’ reservation with bruises and broken limbs (many of whom are indigenous women).

So yeah bottom line: with the World Cup soon approaching, all of us -front desk, maintenance, housekeeping, the kitchen staff, sales, you name it all departments- have had to do extensive modules on clocking the signs of human trafficking. You can’t just look the other way because it can mean missing the underaged girl or preventing horrific violence. Yes we have our regulars and yes sometimes it is what it is but no you can’t just look the other way and let them “secure the bag” because I guarantee there’s a pimp in the lobby/parking lot who’s the one getting the bag at her expense.

[ovaryuri]

woman back in like the 1800s or something: I want to be able to explore the world and pursue higher education. but because i am a woman, the world will not allow me to do such things. this is why i made the difficult decision to cut my hair, bind my breasts, and pretend to be a man— all so that i can truly live.

people with stale gumballs in their head instead of a brain: omg trans icon! he's so gender! trans people have always been here and accomplished so many things 🥰 don't point out that he was a woman experecing sex based oppression or you're literally if hitler and jkr fused together

[hexagon-club]

They also do this thing where they take a single line from a diary of a 19th century woman saying something like "my life would be easier if I had been born a man" and take it is proof that she was definitely transgender and trans people have always existed. Yet they will also look at a detrans person who got a formal diagnosis of gender dysphoria and fully medicalised themselves and lived as a trans person for 20 years, and they will say that this person was never actually trans. Almost as if there isn't really a consistent definition for what "trans" even is.

[fretami]

or, as a product of her time, will truly say “im a man in my soul” when what she means is shes an extremely butch lesbian

[literally-black-jesus]

I hate people who say shit like "I prefer to date people with afab bodies" no you don't you prefer people with vulvas and boobs who look more "fem" to you and its perfectly fine to say that. I'm afab and I don't think you'd like my beard or body hair or anything about me so don't rope me in when we both know what you meant. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN I FUCKING BEG YOU

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

OK. She means she’s a lesbian and she wants heterosexual men to stop sexually harassing her.

[fretami]

trans men have been part of lesbians communities forever. also when you poll people on their willingness to date trans people, lesbians have high responses in willing to date trans men but low responses in willing to date trans women. your gender is a religion.