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the backflips people will do just to defend someone else’s boner…like do u REALLY think men who make like “my BARELY LEGAL stepdaughter was DUMB FEMINIST until I fucked it out of her and showed her HER PLACE” porn are doing that in like a feminist way. truly in ur heart of hearts you think hes like. woke?
brother: sometimes it seems like the end result of feminism will be that nobody (read: straight women) even fucks anymore. and that will be how we go extinct
dad: hahaha
men are so incapable of even imagining changing their own behavior that in the hypothetical scenario where all straight women decide to be celibate as a result of observing male’s terrible behavior, the blame is placed on feminism and not the male behavior that spawned the movement in the first place. men are very smart
personally I think that if one half of a species evolves to be so vicious and antisocial that the other half refuses to reproduce with them, it makes perfect sense for it to go extinct
I can't verbalize this in the way I want to, and I don't want to make any woman feel like she's not allowed to complain. But every time I see the uterus personified as an evil entity and periods treated as bad, I low-key cringe. No, your body isn't inherently meant to be pregnant, and no your period is not a punishment for failing to be pregnant. You're not failing at being a woman because you aren't having babies. Your body is not turning against you because you did something wrong. Unless you suffer from an illness that exacerbates your periods, you're just going through a neutral, dare I say good because it's a sign you're healthy, human female experience. This way of thinking feels like the modernized opinions of a medieval priest.
Debbie Harry and Joan Jett
Being a woman is just being a human who's female and an adult, there's nothing inherently boring or cool about that. It's a neutral path of human development and socio-biological category that accommodates a myriad of possibilities
Disability rights activists make being disabled sound so boring!!!!
look, a society could exist where culturally men are supposed to have long flowing well maintained shinny hair and women are supposed to be completely bald. If it’s a patriarchal society, the association would still be positive masculinity for men and negative femininity for women. “men grow their hair long to show their vitality, men maintain their hair to show dedication, longer hair means you’re stronger, longer hair means your wiser” vs “women look better to men bald, women who grow their hair are vain and trying to be men, women aren’t rational and shouldn’t draw any attention where their brain is, women need to put the extra effort of meticulously keeping their head bare because that’s what their time is good for” on and on and on we could construct positive reasons for men to do what we now consider feminine things. It’s all arbitrary, the end goal is to make men feel entitled and superior and for women to be objectified and second class.
If you can’t think of who is left over after excluding transwomen from feminism, then that’s fucking sad, because it shows that you never cared about or fought for women in the first place.
it’s just “what about men” in lipstick.
the most annoying thing abt the whole queer being reclaimed thing is like. yeah lots of fuckin slurs have been reclaimed. they still don't call women's studies bitch studies in college. they don't have n word theory 101. the fuck is anybody acting like it's cool for straight ppl and institutions to be throwing this word around like it's no big deal bc a couple of swingers with blue hair decided it was cool? wtf?
Exactly! to copy what I said privately on the topic:
For most slurs, reclamation is considered an individual process. What one person may be comfortable with is not safe to presume everyone will be comfortable with. Additionally, reclamation is normally done within a community, not outside of it.
Yet for sexual minorities, we're meant to suddenly be okay with straight news anchormen calling all of us the "Queer Community," who gave him the right? Lesbian authors are suddenly listed under "queer authors" by articles even when the woman herself has only called herself "lesbian."
There is a pervasive and constant pushing of boundaries by TRAs, and if you push back even a little bit, you're the one seen as intolerant. Why couldn't you just roll over and let us label you as strange?
The sad part is that this doesn't happen even w/ the N-word, at least not nearly as much. If a black person goes up to another black person and greets them with 'n***a' and said greeted-person doesn't want that word used, 9 times outta 10, that boundary will be respected. That word still holds power even in its reclamation. Some black people don't like and don't use the n-word, period. Some only use it in very specific contexts or when singing. We're all different. But that boundary (largely) is respected.
And then you get to 'Queer.' Which, yes, just means 'funky, weird, strange, etc' but if a bitch (me) doesn't want to be labeled as Queer just bc I'm quietly being my asexual self and fighting for (actual) women's rights in the process, can we not respect that?? Why did 'queer' so quickly lose all of its power to the point that anyone should freely be able to use it (allegedly) but how fucking dare you if you point out that it's a problem??
Then again, this 'queer' movement (cult) is the very same group of people who'll shout about women's rights until the cows come home and still threatened and silence any woman who can see through a trans woman's (man's) insultingly stereotyped and fetishized costume to the pervert beneath...
rules for thee and not for me type bullshit.
"that time of the month" "monthly visitor" "feminine hygiene products" GRRAH!!! SHUT UP SHUT UP!!! PERIOD!! MENSTRUATION!!!! TAMPONS!!! PADS!! MENOPAUSE!!!!!!!!!!!
VAGINA!!!!
It’s really disgusting sex predators are mocking people for censoring their feet in photos of themselves because there actually was a big problem with foot fetishists creating databases of people and their feet to masturbate to. We should be able to acknowledge that it’s a violation to masturbate to pictures of strangers online to the point where everyone becomes so aware of it they’re not even comfortable showing their fucking feet in pictures, but that wasn’t even the issue. The website wikifeet literally cataloged people and pictures of their feet specifically to jerk off to with their identities attached to it. We’re not allowed to feel any type of way about that though. We’re not even allowed to censor that in photos of ourselves now or else receive ridicule. These sex pests have no problem throwing a fit about kiwifarms and similar websites documenting lolcow pedophiles and how that’s a violation of privacy and dignity, but no having a website of profiles of strangers online with images of their feet specifically to masturbate to is fine. Everyone should be fine with that. It’s actually weird if you start to cover your feet now because you know we have a profile of you on fetish website.
how happy do you think men were when they discovered they could destroy any pro-woman argument (anti-kink, anti-prostitution, anti-pornography, et cetera) with “that’s terf/radfem rhetoric” and people would listen? how happy do you think men were when they realized they could switch from ‘misandrist’ (too heavily associated with MRAs, not taken seriously by feminists) to ‘terf’ (scary prospect to be called, grounds for being cancelled, easy to guilt feminists with)? must have been a really good day for them.
the actual pride month rundown
- marsha p. johnson repeatedly identified as a gay man and drag queen and survived into an era where the language did already exist if he chose to identify as transsexual. he explicitly stated that he was not transsexual and claimed that all transsexual people were also homosexual.
- sylvia rivera did identify as a transsexual woman (and made disparaging speeches about lesbians). she was not an ally to lesbians. lesbians and transwomen have not always been allies.
- neither of them were there when the stonewall riots began, according to marsha’s own testimony. sylvia was sleeping off a drug trip on a park bench, and by the time marsha arrived at stonewall, the riots were already in full swing.
- storme delarverie, a mixed black gender-nonconforming lesbian and drag king, may have been the one who incited the stonewall riots. she never identified as a transman despite surviving into an an era where the language was made accessible to do so. accounts differ as to who started the riots.
- stonewall was not a special haven for trans people and drag artists, it was just some bar where gay people met up. by all accounts, it wasn’t even a good bar.
- pride as a festival and parade was invented by gay men, lesbians, and bisexual people. fred sergeant is one of those gay men, and he has been beaten (in recent years, as an elderly man) by trans people and their allies due to his views on medical transition. non-homosexual trans people were unheard of in this era.
- this is just united states history, and not even the beginning of gay rights activism in the united states alone. the rest of the world didn’t necessarily base its gay rights activism on stonewall.
White transwoman in plain English: I'm sexually attracted to misogyny. I think being raped is the epitome of femaleness and if I'm being perfectly honest, it would be extremely validating. Sexual degradation not only affirms my womanhood but my sense of being as a woman. When I get catcalled or disrespected for my feminine appearance I get an erection. To be honest this compulsion of mine to feel small and powerless is what drove me to start identifying as a woman. Libfems using every coping mechanism imaginable to suppress their common sense: TERFs wouldn't get what she's saying, she's a feminist philosopher venting about the complexities of womanhood. When she says the thought of being raped makes her cum the hardest she's saying exactly the same thing Andrea Dworkin and many feminists once said about gender-based violence. What she's saying is SUPERRR DEEEP and complex and is basically the essence of feminism but terfs are too stupid to see. Sad really. She's basically the female Socrates that's why people can't get what she's saying.
Radfem- While I think trans people should get the support they need, it's not acceptable to deprioritize the role biological sex has played in female oppression for thousands of years in every corner of the globe. Validating individual gender identities cannot be the #1 feminist priority. Libfems: See sounds innocent on the surface but what this person really means is they want all trans people dead. They're also implying every woman is just a walking-talking vagina. And if you look closely the subtext of what they're saying is that the only way to be a woman is to be a Christian trad wife who has nine babies and that every woman's name should be Caucasian Uterus.
Calling this a strawman would be an insult to scarecrows everywhere.
"I refuse to listen to women talking about their lived/ observed experiences because they challenge my world view and identity as an 'ally'. also I am literally incapable of not proving the point of the original post."
anyway here you go bozo:
correction, the writer's name is Jacob Tobia and the article has since been removed from Playboy's site, but here is an excerpt:
"Yet, here’s the rub: if sexual objectification is so categorically awful, then why do I want it so badly?In my academic and feminist training, I’ve been told over and over again that sexual objectification is bad. The thinking goes like this: women around the world have been treated as sexual objects instead of people. Women who, in the course of trying to run a board meeting, have been hit on by their colleagues. Or, during a job interview, have been sexually harassed. Women who have had their brilliance diminished by solely placing value on their bodies. Women whose day-to-day experiences have been marred by unwanted sexual attention, catcalls, leering looks and once-overs. This type of sexual objectification is seriously dehumanizing; it reduces women and feminine-of-center people to objects, flattening out who we are and taking away ownership of our own bodies. As such, my feminist training taught me that sexual objectification is categorically undesirable, categorically patriarchal. Therefore, we must fight against sexual objectification in any form and create a world where no one is sexually objectified again. Yet, here’s the rub: if sexual objectification is so categorically awful, then why do I want it so badly? The idea that being seen as a “sex object”–at any time, ever–is universally a bad thing is too simple, like many tenets of straightforward, non-intersectional feminism."
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https://www.businessinsider.com/straight-guy-friends-hit-on-me-after-transition-2023-10
hell, there's an entire subreddit dedicated to "ewphoria". please be serious.
The left: men aren’t responsible for the oppression of women. You can’t blame an entire group of people for something
Also the left: actually the rise of open and violent racism and misogyny and homophobia in society is all women’s fault because they were kinda mean to men on the internet and some of them are even saying no to men. Poor baby victim men are being forced against their will to become trump loving conservatives by women, who are single handedly destroying the left and democracy.
