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kinda fucked up can't tell if I'm dreamin

[yesterdaysprint]

Courtney Dunkel in the Boston Globe, Massachusetts, November 10, 1950

[llovinghome]

[bajo-el-mar-blog]

Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.

[imnotreallyherecheckagainlater]

what book is this?

[tehbewilderness]

This is from “Why Does He DO That” by Lundy Bancroft.

[chemicalheart-deactivated202009]

I’m so glad I’m seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS. The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD. He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.

[queen-mayhem]

Here’s a link to a pdf copy. If you haven’t read this book yet, read this book.

[appropriately-inappropriate]

Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?

That is how we stop abuse.

We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.

[bhuttu]

Arm yrself with knowledge!

[birkenth0t]

Changed my life, would reccomend.

[fuckyeahsexpositivity]

Reblogging for the PDF link.

—BB

[egodram]

Always reblogging because this isn’t just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etc…

[tinierspacecharm]

http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/07/20/why-does-he-do-that/why-does-he-do-that.pdf

new link (the old one is broken)

[hansbekhart]

Pretty sure I’ve reblogged this like eight times, don’t care.

[lokispriestess-deactivated20181]

new link 14/08/18 

[rembrandtswife]

The link from @lokispriestess works as of 9/23/18.

[neophyteoutpost]

This link from @lokispriestess still currently works 12/27/18

[5oil]

https://instagram.com/p/BegX2ewh-_4/

[porkiez]

[lesbianherstorian]

[niktipolos]

the cover of the lesbian pulp novel i prefer girls by jessie dumont, 1963 (via lesbianherstorian)

[givemethefeeels]

looking deadly

[rosexhorror]

death becomes her.

[alrauneking-deactivated20190519]

Ariana Grande in Final Fantasy Brave Exvius

[kronkocean]

earl don’t care

[love]

Sadness or pain by Crystal Erickson

[marcchurch]

[thickcurvysexy]

[mice-teeth]

I took this picture at my old house at least 8 years ago when we were about to leave to the store and someone had backed up a couple times and made these perfect two hearts and my mom stopped the car before driving over them so I could take a picture and I dont know how you could ever do that again if you tried but this is one of the most important photos to me I have ever taken

[straightboyfriend]

all boys are demons but i want one to love me

[tkkatherineblog]

[follower-of-morgoth]

The Hanged Man, 1873 by Paul-Albert Besnard

[ohmy80s]

Winona Ryder / Jodie Foster / Julia Roberts (1989)