sad simmer

cj | she/they | 24 | baby cc maker | i play The Sims 4 along with many RPG games. this blog is mostly my thoughts, sims, and favorite content. WCIF!! Some 18+ content SIm Requests OPEN; send an ask please.

[seajaysims]

Sul Sul!

My name is CJ, I’m gender-fluid and use she/they pronouns. I love the Sims and I’ve been playing it for 11 years (Sims 2 days!) This is mostly my personal blog where I post my Sims 4 stories/families/legacies, other games, my thoughts, and aesthetically pleasing images for reference! This is still a simblr however, and I’d love to find more around here. 

Most of my stories feature POCs and members of the LGBT+ community, various underlying topics such as complex romantic relationships, drugs, and plenty of drama so I’m excited for you all to see my stories.

Mobile Navigations:

Cisneros Family Legacy (Through the Decades) [Family Tree]

Jones Family Legacy

Millennial Complex Rules

Millennial Complex Challenge

Flores Legacy  [Family Tree]

[nelisims]

newlyweds.

original lot by @bojanastarcevic

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Been trying to re-launch my sims game after updating mods and I just keep getting a white screen. c: Anyone know what mod may be causing this?

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The FRANKIE VENEGAS Set

Hey simmers! Here’s a CC set I made for my OCs that I thought you’d all love to also have. Planning on making a few more sets in the future but I’m still a bit new to this stuff. ^^

This set comes with:

The FRANKE Top and Skirt

The CAMRYN Top and Skirt

The RUTH Top and Pants

All pieces have various colors for you to mix and match with. If you use them, tag me on tumblr @seajaysims !

 Recolors are allowed as long as you link to this original mesh. Please do not claim as your own! If there are any problems, you can send me a DM on tumblr. Happy simming. <3

DL: Patreon

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It’s summer time so time to write a new story that I’ll eventually drop. I’ve been in my regency era/period piece phase. c:

[marblechemist]

nickelodeon: zim cant hit people with his fist his hand has to be open. no punching. the children.

nickelodeon: dark harvest is allowed

[crtter]

[gallusrostromegalus]

If you were wondering: the thing that the studio doesn’t want depicted are unsafe activities a young child whose impulse control hasn’t grown in yet watching the show could feasibility imitate- not wearing a seatbelt, jumping off the garage roof with a pair of cardboard wings, throwing a proper punch at a peer etc. Because kids do imitate what they see around them as part of learning, so you don’t want to teach them something that could hurt someone or themselves until a bit more brain grows in.

Unsafe activities that are not within the scope of an elementary school student are fine- where’s a six year old going to get a missle launcher?

[artisticlicense-personal]

That genuinely answers a lot of questions I had about why kid-friendly media is as wonky as it is, and I love it.

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Another small update:

I’ll try to post more soon. I have a few more posts left in my drafts but I also have like 200+ screenshots saved on my desktop that aren’t formatted yet for posting. I’ve been meaning to take the time to go through each post and edit them accordingly, but as of now I just haven’t had the time due to work and school. By next week the school year should end for me, so I can start getting things back in order hopefully. 

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Rosa went to the doctors and found out that she has asthma. Her father Kai had mentioned not seeing her in some time, so she invited him over for a fun afternoon.

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Valentina started getting a bit flirty with her new gardener called Christina, or Chris for short. Rosa’s enjoying her childhood with new tastes, and Fallon is learning plenty… While being an iPad baby.

[morrigan-sims]

Hey, simblr!

So, I know by now most of you have probably gotten attacked by that anon / spammer. And by now you all know that blocking, reporting, or even turning off anon isn't going to work. It seems the only option is to turn off asks entirely. But I'm not willing to lay down that easy. Asks are part of what makes simblr a community, and I'm not going to let an idiotic piece of shit take that away from us.

So what do we do? I think we start collecting evidence. Any screenshots you have, any posts about it you've made, collect them. Get proof of what's happening. The earlier ones you have, the better. And then we have to make sure @staff notices. The fact that one of the largest communities on tumblr is getting harassed in this manner is not acceptable. Hell, even if it was one person on tumblr, it's not acceptable.

Send support requests. Send tumblr emails. Tag @staff in posts with screenshots of what's going on. (though they get tagged so often I doubt that one will work well.) Will it work?? I have no idea. Can @staff even do anything about it, since this person is clearly using 10-minute email generators to make burners? I don't know. But maybe we can convince them that this is an actual problem. And here's some solutions for @staff:

Introduce an ask setting like the one for DMs that is "only from blogs I follow"

Crack down on these endless spam accounts being made from the same computer. (I can't guarantee that it's even the same IP address if they're using a VPN)

You know what? While your at it, crack down on bot/spam account in general!! The pornbots are still a rampant problem.

Do something like Discord has, where it's possible to make it so that only people who have 2-factor authentication on can send you an ask/DM.

Tagging some people with more reach than me: @cinamun @gunthermunch @softerhaze @seafoan @peonypyxels @simstrouble @jellypawss @hazelminesims @simelune @cowplant-pizza @glimersims @sojutrait @puppycheesecake @wildmelon @marigolde

PLEASE REBLOG!!!!

This won't work if we don't work together!

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Rosa went to the doctors and found out that she has asthma. Her father Kai had mentioned not seeing her in some time, so she invited him over for a fun afternoon.

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Valentina started getting a bit flirty with her new gardener called Christina, or Chris for short. Rosa’s enjoying her childhood with new tastes, and Fallon is learning plenty... While being an iPad baby.

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The cowplant that killed Janelle has also died, so yay? Tobias went to the doctor after not feeling too well and it was discovered he has diabetes. Also, the generation goal of having a Green Eco Footprint was hit!!

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And with that. Tobias’ birthday comes to a close.

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The cowplant that killed Janelle has also died, so yay? Tobias went to the doctor after not feeling too well and it was discovered he has diabetes. Also, the generation goal of having a Green Eco Footprint was hit!!

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And with that. Tobias’ birthday comes to a close.

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Tobias had a lovely beach party to celebrate his birthday, and is now a child.