TheWildAndTheTame

Traveller, veg*an, feminist, slightly obsessed with Greece and everything Greek

[nightdepthss]

[blond-shell]

[lianedegrenade]

the detached brutality of all these “women need to have more babies” thinkpieces man

[lianedegrenade]

split your body wide open for the stock market

[defend-animals]

[fatallyfeminist-deactivated2020]

why do men want to be gynecologists? why? why. gynecology is for females and should be practiced solely by women imo 

[eyesofsomeonenew]

I don’t think a fuckboy is gonna go through years of college education with the mindset of “I’m doing this so I can put metal and cotton swabs in vaginas”…. (more)

[fatallyfeminist-deactivated2020]

lets talk about the arkansas gyno, paul becton jr. who took nude pictures of his female patients 

lets talk about dr. john black (gyno) who sprayed a chemical found in drain cleaner into his female patients’ genitalia

or dr. robert hadden, a gyno who performed unwilling oral sex on his patients and staff member

or dr. bruce sylvester smith, the gyno who raped (at least) one patient and sexually harassed many others.  

and while we’re at it, lets talk about male gyno, dr. john marshall who tricked, drugged, and raped his patient. 

or dr. paul kelly, an indiana ob-gyn who sexually abused his patients and over-prescribed dangerous drugs. 

and dr. kevin pezeshki, who abused several patients and the list goes on and on. 

so actually tons of male doctors abuse their patients, and the cases of female doctors abusing their patients is almost non-existent. so thanks for your comment, but next time, try doing a bit of research. 

[landmerbabe-deactivated20190210]

let’s talk about my patient yesterday who complained that every male ultrasound tech that has performed a vaginal ultrasound on her pushed the probe way too far and clearly had no concept of vaginal comfort during penetrative procedures

let’s talk about how not once have i hurt any of my patients during vaginal ultrasounds, and if they have issues with penetration such as vulvodynia or a history of endometriosis, i take a long, slow time to do the ultrasound and check in frequently, and will attempt to do an abdominal ultrasound instead if warranted

let’s talk about how it is most certainly because i am a woman and therefore i understand my female patients and their comfort levels much more than any dude could.

[pizza-trashh-deactivated2016031]

^^^ all of this. Not to mention the one time I had a male doctor do my exam, he took one look at my sexual history and immediately refused to do any more tests or exams because he was “positive” I was just had a bunch of STIs. He didn’t listen once to me telling him that I didn’t think that was right and I wanted to be sure. Three days later I’m getting rolled into emergency surgery because my ovary had ruptured and had become infected. Yeah, gynos should always be female.

[artemiswasamerf]

I wouldn’t feel comfortable at all with a male doctor being anywhere near my vagina, sorry not sorry.

[rad-virgo]

A male physician tried to pressure me into letting him put my IUD in! He was so adamant about it, and had this sick smile plastered on his face during the consultation. Eventually I just got up and left. Sick fuck. My current physician is a female, she’s very professional and does her job without associating vaginas as sexual attraction. MALES SHOULD NOT BE OBGYNS! I’d even go so far as to say that males shouldn’t be doctors at all. As some of you know, my childhood family doctor (a male of course) was convicted of possessing and distributing child pornography. Even more evidence that most men are incompetent sick freaks.

[cantanopeshitthatwastaken]

hell, there was a recent story about a podiatrist (‘foot doctor’) whos only reason for entering the career was due to his extreme fetish for feet. It was discovered by his wife when she found thousands of photos of patents feet, stored WITH other porn, on his laptop. This was not “staying in the bedroom”, and he had never even mentioned it to his wife (actually denying having any out-of-the-usual desires whenever she asked).

[brokemeansfixed]

A former friend of mine (a male) worked as a nurse and was charged with looking after a woman about our age. This included helping her dress, so yes of course he saw her naked. After a few days caring for her, he comes to me for advice about asking her out.

“But I don’t want it to be awkward because I’ve seen her naked?”

I explained to him, it’s GOING to be VERY awkward. It seems like you were just checking her out.

Of course he’s all, ‘no no no of course not I compartmenalize. I’ve just enjoyed talking with her/getting to know her while I’ve been caring for her.’

Like he thought he was so romantic. Instead of opportunistic. It’s literally your JOB to care, you asshole.

I said to him, She’s been talking to you because she’s a captive audience, she’s hospitalized.

He says, okay well I’ll wait to ask her out until she’s discharged then.

He asked her out.

She turned him down.

I was like, what did you fucking expect?

Men shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near women when it comes to healthcare, period. Our bodies are different than theirs. And men don’t see women as human. They see us as objects at worst, opportunities at best.

[brokemeansfixed]

An ex-girlfriend of mine used to see a neurologist as a teenager until he was arrested for child pornography. Just to add to the ever growing list of revolting offenses by men.

Like, men thrive on having positions of power. Fuckboys DO go to college. They drug and rape girls at their fraternity parties, then go on to become all sorts of professionals.

[phalloid-destroyer-deactivated2]

One time i needed to get a heart ultrasound and the male doctor had a fucking boner because his hand was around my boobs and he started to touch me with his other hand WHILE A FEMALE NURSE AND MY MOM WERE IN THE SAME ROOM NEXT TO US and then he was so out of focus after the scan was done i was just waiting for it to be over and he couldn’t even talk properly and he was constantly scratching his dick in front of me and after we left i was constantly looking over my shoulder and then he went to the staff bathroom to fucking jerk off.

I still feel extremely violated to this day, i want to kill him, smash his head and gouge his eyes out, paint the floor with the blood of his intestines.

Ask any woman…

[whatthefuuuuuuccckkkk]

also its suspect for a man to even want to do that if you ask me…out of all the jobs in the world….

[prettyangryprostitute]

When my girlfriend was hospitalized with severe Guillian-Barre syndrome (she was essentially paralyzed from her neck down), she would literally beg me to shower her instead of her MALE nurse because he refused to lift her breast to clean the skin underneath, or clean her thighs between her legs because it gave him a fucking hard-on. As if it wasn’t literally his fucking JOB. She’s my girlfriend and I wasn’t so overwhelmed with sexual desire while I gave her a shower that I couldn’t even touch her breasts with going into a lust-filled satyriastic craze.

[thevaginamonoblogs]

I’ve worked in the medical education sector and the amount of male medical students who enter medicine knowing NOTHING about female anatomy and who leave it with the same knowledge should horrify every woman reading this.

After over a decade working in the sector, over 90% of the male medical students I’ve encountered either objectify women, are embarrassed by them, or do not care about female medicine at all.

The women on the other hand were uniformly fine with male medical examination et al.

[arminjuice-deactivated20210413]

this is why i won’t even take my shirt off in front of my male doctor, even back when i wore bras. he already looked at me sexually once when i was 13, and my mom blamed me for wearing a low-cut jumpsuit in 38°C heat. not letting something like that happen again.

[pusheen-the-radfem]

I just don’t understand what people expect. the same men (basically all of them) who watch violent degrading pornography go on to become doctors. the same men who think of women as things for their pleasure only, as objects, as usable, abusable and discardable, go on to become doctors. it’s not like getting on the pathway to medicine means you are sent into monk-like service as a toddler and shielded from the perversions of the patriarchy. these doctors are men raised in our porn-sick misogynist society first and foremost, in and out of the white coat. I never get what makes libs think that there’s some magic button that these men can press in their heads to be able to go from misogynist porn-user man to professional doctor. brains don’t work like that. pleasure and addiction drives don’t work like that. we have explicit neurological studies showing that this sort of compartmentalisation is not possible. and yet the same lib women who will have had sex with violent men and experienced first hand their desire to get off on women’s pain will enter twilight zone levels of cognitive dissonance to argue that this doesn’t matter the second that man enters a workplace. and the men themselves who get off on abusing women won’t ever think any of this is a problem, in a professional context or not.

[parliamentaryinquiry]

https://www.science.org/content/article/female-doctors-save-more-lives

“If male doctors were more like female doctors, 32,000 fewer deaths would occur annually, new research suggests. The exact reason why, however, remains unclear, The Wall Street Journal reports. The study, published in the journal JAMA International Medicine, included more than 58,000 physicians who treat Medicare enrollees. They found that even when female doctors treated sicker patients, like those with sepsis, pneumonia, acute renal failure, and arrhythmia, mortality rates were lower than those of male physicians.”

[goblinous]

Men cannot be trusted

[boganclarke2-blog]

Let’s also add onto the list the male fertility doctors who have used their own sperm to fertilize patients‘ eggs and, in the case of Pedro Pascal’s father, stolen and implanted embryos in a human trafficking scheme. The violations don’t even stop at our bodies.

[kosmogrl]

[drbased]

This whole ‘people had lots of children in ye olden days bc the infant mortality was so high and they needed more children to help out with the farm and stuff’ is a comically transparent cope and lie. ‘People’ had lots of children because of rape. You think women who were traumatised from having lost multiple young children were itching to have more of them? Why were all these families in such isolated situations which required child labour? You don’t think people of the past would have found a way to, like, cooperate? It’s fucking obvious that men were snatching these women away, keeping them isolated, and justifying raping them into repeated pregnancies by being like ‘sorry :( despite being members of a social species we live in the middle of nowhere for totally unavoidable reasons and the only source of labour is all the children you make for me :( that’s just the way of things :( oh well’ our society is built out of completely sociopathic and evil male behaviour and I’m beyond exhausted trying to pretend otherwise

[recoveringsoulsposts]

Being a 4B Woman is so easy because Men offer little to no value to Women’s lives

Being 4B is so easy as a woman because men do not offer much value to women’s lives

Let’s say a heterosexual couple decides to go 50/50. You will inevitably end up adding far more value to his life than you will receive in return.

Women typically end up doing the majority of:

• Domestic labor

• Acting as a therapist + Emotional support

• Managing pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding (which cannot be split 50/50)

Women will inevitably become the default parent while still being expected to look beautiful, maintain an attractive appearance, and keep up with societal standards. So even in a 50/50 financial arrangement, women are not truly experiencing equality.

As a result, you’ll end up performing most of the “traditional feminine” roles while also contributing financially by providing 50% of your income. How do women benefit from this arrangement? While there are some couples who achieve a true 50/50 split, they are the minority. Most women end up doing a “double shift” — working their paid jobs and then handling the majority of household duties due to ingrained stereotypes. Studies show that women perform 70% of household chores even when they pay 50% of the bills.

Now, let’s consider a traditional heterosexual couple where the man is the provider:

• You’ll be expected to handle all the housework, cooking, cleaning, and domestic chores.

• You’ll be responsible for all childcare and emotional support.

• Pregnancy, childbirth, and child-rearing are entirely your responsibility.

• You are expected to be available for sex at all times because you are supposedly “privileged” to have a provider man.

• You must maintain an attractive appearance, staying in shape, and being visually appealing.

Essentially, you’re expected to act as a servant in exchange for what? For a man to “provide.” But what do you actually gain? Aside from room and board, what are you truly receiving in exchange for all the services you provide? If you were to outsource every service that women provide, a man’s salary likely wouldn’t cover the full cost of your labor. Even without this provider man, he would still need to work, earn a living, and maintain a home. So your labor is subsidizing his lifestyle.

Furthermore, there are inherent risks to being around men — even basic safety is a factor. Remember, one woman dies at the hands of a man every 10 minutes. Women are at greater risk of being harmed by their own husbands. There is always a chance the man you are with may be addicted to pornography, video games, or consuming harmful “red pill” propaganda that teaches males to manipulate and mentally abuse you. Men are often not worth the hassle or the investment, especially when they put your psychological well-being & life at risk.

The reality is that most men lack the looks, height, or wealth to even demand half of what they expect from women. Women have historically been forced to perform all these roles without any reciprocal return on investment (ROI). Women are being exploited in relationships with men. Women who still want to be in relationships with men and if they still choose to engage with men, they should demand more, do less, and prioritize themselves. Women are the prize. Men are the ones who struggle to be alone, who crave women’s attention, and who pay for services like webcam interactions and OnlyFans just to experience a connection with women.

Marriage and relationships with men typically decrease women’s quality of life. Men are often parasitic, siphoning women’s energy to build themselves up at the expense of women’s livelihood and well-being. Men live longer when they are with women, benefit financially, experience more success, are happier, and gain stability. The same cannot be said for women. The constant push for marriage and romance is because, without the illusion and intangible experience of “love,” men have little to offer women that is genuinely valuable. Without this idea of love, women have no reason to stay in relationships with men.

The dynamic between men and women is parasitic, when you have men who expect women perform the majority of domestic work, emotional labor, and support for men in relationships, which is actually unnatural when we consider how most species function in nature. Typically, it is males who must prove themselves to females, if they want a chance at reproduction. Patriarchal societies have flipped this natrual system by positioning men as the dominant gender for centuries, by making women dependent on men for survival. Without this dependence, men offer fuck all to women.

. There’s an actual ROI in having a career, being focused on education and money. Being with a man and having children is a 24-hour job. It never stops. ALL RISK, NO REWARD. If men want to be in relationships with women, they must make themselves useful. Most males are a burden and are to obnoxious and entitled to realise they are not worth the risk or hassle of adding all these responsibilities to women’s lives. If you meet a “unicorn” — a genuinely equal and supportive partner — that’s great. But RARE. But for the vast majority of women, males are simply not worth the cost.

Women who are 4B are making the most logical decision for themselves which is completely understandable.

[recoveringsoulsposts]

Women are the superior sex.

We create and nurture human life, serving as the backbone of society. Women uphold humanity and build communities. Despite centuries of degradation, oppression, and systemic barriers, we continue to surpass men. In education, women now outperform men academically. Many of the so-called “great” inventions credited to men were, in reality, stolen from women, only for women’s names to be erased from history.

Biologically, women are more valuable. We live longer, possess stronger immune systems, have higher stress resilience, and are genetically more stable due to our two X chromosomes, which provide genetic protection. Women are essential for the continuation of the human species. Societies with a high female population are more peaceful, stable, and harmonious. Even Mother Nature favors women—during times of extreme stress and famine, female fetuses are more likely to survive. A woman’s body will naturally abort a male fetus, as the XY chromosome is expendable and worthless. Men die earlier, have weaker immune systems, are more likely to be born with birth defects, and are more prone to genetic disorders. I truly believe Males shouldn’t even exist in the large numbers they do currently.

Male value has always been artificial and manufactured. Men by default are more of a burden to the world than anything. Men commit most violent crimes and engage in anti-social behaviors. Prisons are male-dominated, creating a financial burden on governments. A surplus male population leads to increases in human trafficking and social unrest. The effects of China’s one-child policy serve as an example—after the mass murder of female infants and the artificial skewing of the gender ratio in favor of males, China now faces a 30-million-surplus male population. In almost all species, having a high male population is unnatural. As a result, China is experiencing increased human trafficking, rising crime rates, an aging population, and social instability. Males shouldn’t even exist in such large numbers. At birth, males are expendable and worthless by default. A surplus male population is more detrimental to society than anything else. The more you overvalue Men’s natural worth and undervalue Women’s natural worth, patriarchal societies will continue to reap what they sow, and find themselves in this situation. In an artificial, man-made society, system may favour men however nature, biology and the truth will always be on the side of women.

If males were truly superior, as they claim, they wouldn’t need to constantly remind us of their supposed superiority or use outdated systems of power to justify it and claim that ‘men built the world’ when women were deliberately excluded from participating in society and denied access to resources, making us artificially dependent and forcing us to rely on men for survival and to deal with males in the capacities Women have been forced to deal with them. Yet, despite all the rape, torture, humiliation, and abuse women have been subjected to at the hands of men, along with the oppression and discrimination, women have closed the gap within just a few decades and are now outperforming men. As soon as women regain even a small fraction of our rights, we excel, outperform, and thrive

Men’s survival depends on women, not the other way around. There is no metric in which single men outperform single women. Men need women far more than we need them. Men are confirmed parasites, and women are the hosts. Men suck the life out of women, benefiting from relationships and close proximity to Women. Everything they say against women is merely a projection of their own deficiencies, lack of value, and worthlessness. Remember Women brought these men into the world, and women can just as easily choose to stop bringing these men into the world.

[woman-for-women]

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[wolfythewitch]

My piece for the Sing O Muse zine! Its coming out in July so keep an eye out for the tag :]

[thegreenwolf]

“Not all men are like that.”

That’s fine. What are you doing about the ones that are?

[draculuve]

female hair removal culture is crazy actually bc why are we pressuring half the population into bald mammal cosplay

[tortellinigirl]

men really be like “well this woman has studied this subject her whole life, and i am a man, so we have equal knowledge on this”

[hcrzallerliebst-a-deactivated20]

it’s ok you could have just said “i hate men”

[tortellinigirl]

okay, i hate men

[1dietcokeinacan]

[faustique]

the older i get, the more i appreciate being out of the loop. don't fill me in, i don't want to know anything about anyone.

[genderisareligion]

[true-bluesargent]

the thing is is that you'll be like. 11 years old and someone will tell you that you have to shave your legs. either it will be your mum or a friend or a mean girl in the p.e. changing rooms telling you how gross it is that you have hair on your legs. so then you ask your mum about it and she says yep you have to take this razor blade and drag it across your skin under running water and just hope you don't cut yourself too badly and you have to do this every single week and maybe more frequently than that and you have to do that for fucking ever. the rest of your fucking life. because the hair that grows naturally on your legs is gross and ugly and people will laugh and boys won't like you! of course boys have hair on THEIR legs. but that's normal and even attractive and it's just not the same for you. and a few years later they'll say well you obviously should also be shaving your armpits. and then it's your arms and then it's that you have to wax your upper lip and pluck your eyebrows and ewww why do you have hair on your fingers and your toes.. you need to shave that too. and then suddenly you need to buy spray that will make invisible hairs on your face visible so that you can shave that too! and it's expensive and time consuming and difficult and it HURTS but they just say beauty is pain babe! and you're not allowed to say that maybe if beauty is pain then you don't actually want to be beautiful

[true-bluesargent]

and i'm so fucking tired of girls who do shave being defensive when this topic comes up because then i have to say well of COURSE it's your personal choice whether you want to shave or not! no offense! maybe it makes you feel empowered! you do it for YOURSELF! because that's bullshit and i actually DO think you should stop shaving your legs because it's not fucking empowering it's insane. if you give it more than a minute of thought it can't possibly be empowering. you're in a PRISON!!!!! and i was in the prison too okay and i know it seems hard to break out but i promise you it's not. and the more people we can break out of the prison the easier it gets for everyone else i swear to god. please