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we are all pick mes. we have literally all been groomed to be pick mes, that is the essence of femininity. wearing makeup and restrictive clothing everyday, being terrified of aging, of getting too bulky from exercise, of being too loud or ‘masculine’, of having body hair. this is all done for attention + acceptance from individual males, and more often, from a patriarchal society. so many women struggle to understand that the reason why you feel more ‘confident’ doing those things is because you would be ostracised if you didnt and because that is what you have been bombarded with since before you could speak.
Me: I want to see a cultural third gender that isn’t a way of othering effeminate males out of ‘correct’ manhood.
Progressives on Tumblr: I have the gender.
Me: You’re sure? You have the third gender and it isn’t exclusivily for males?
Progressives on Tumblr: This is correct. I have a socially functional third gender that is completely different from masculinity and femininity and isn’t sex-exclusive. I do not have a fringe identity for male crossdressers.
Me: Excellent! Please show me the gender.
Progressives on Tumblr: Here you go! *Effeminate male in a patriarchal society*
Me:
the reason why every few years there are thought pieces on the panic of dropping male graduates and dropping male grades and dropping male attendance in colleges is bc universities know it drops the value of their product
yep, because in our male-centric world, any time women get into something, it becomes socially devalued, because apparently if women are doing it it must not be very hard/important. ref. biology, ref. nursing, ref. school teachers, ref. social sciences, ref. programming
it's "women's work". but it's the foundation of society, everything would stop dead in its tracks without us
yep, if you can’t be a high paying engineer w/o an engineering degree, but suddenly the engineering field is majority of women, the engineering industry becomes devalued (been shown before that pay drops across an industry if it switches from male dominated to female dominated), then suddenly an engineering degree isn’t so illustrious. Or whatever degree…medical, law, etc.
self-awareness check, list five things you like that aren't media pieces in the tags now ‼️
Let me describe to you what kind of world gender abolitionists actually dream about:
When a child would be born it’s biological sex, being an actual physical reality, would be noticed but not a single assumption regarding the child’s personality would be made based on it.
Growing up, children would be free to chose what toys and clothes they prefer. If they want to play with toy trucks or dolls, it would be fine either way. If they want to dress comfortably or in frilly colorful dresses, it would be fine.
Certain personality traits would not be encouraged in members of one sex and discouraged in the other. Females would be free to be strong, brave and assertive and males would not be shamed for being shy and soft spoken.
No female child would be called a tomboy and no male child would be called a sissy. No kid would ever be bullied for what we in our gendered world call “gender expression”.
When children would reach puberty they would still be free to dress how they want. Females would not be pressured to wear clothes that reveal their bodies and males would not be shamed if they chose to. Everybody would have a free choice of accessories, which would not be categorized as “men’s” or “women’s” but people could should whichever they liked. Or chose to not wear accessories at all if that’s what they are more comfortable with.
Females would not be pressured to keep their bodies slim, soft and hairless. Males would not be pressured to be athletic and muscular. Expectations of femininity and masculinity upon the body would not exist and affect negatively people’s relationship with their own body.
Everyone could choose a career without fearing stigmatization within that particular field because of their biological sex. The most important thing would be competence and not what someone has between their legs.
Domestic work would not be considered “women’s work” and would be shared equally between the sexes.
Biological sex would only be thought about when relevant. And everyone would be free to be themselves without ever having to worry about gender expectations. Nobody would feel the need to repress certain parts of their personality and exaggerate others in order to fit into some gender role that is being forced on them.
Gender abolitionism is not about restricting people’s choices but about giving them greater freedom.
- http://burningax.wordpress.com/2014/10/06/a-gender-free-world-boring/
—The concept of gender identity, in my opinion, is one of the worst intellectual scams—
A teacher, Luisa Velázquez Herrera, dismantles the myth of self-determination of sex:
“For about 16 years, I’ve taught feminist courses and workshops, and I can assure you that no one manages to answer this exercise about these assumptions, no matter how much they defend men or how queer they are. I always concede the point before starting the example:
“Okay, let’s suppose that gender is a choice, that’s what you’ve said, right? That means we can stop being women.” “They answer ‘yes’ with conviction.
“Very well, then let’s launch massive campaigns to encourage all women and all girls not to ‘perceive’ or ‘identify’ as women.” If that puts an end to rape, femicide, the exploitation of girls and women in trafficking networks, in homes, and obstetric violence, we have the solution right under our noses… “—Doesn’t that put an end to violence?
What?! So, gender isn’t a voluntary choice? Don’t we ask women what their gender is before assaulting them?”
“I swear that not a single queer person, right there in front of me, said never a word.” “I wait a few seconds, the last minute arrives, nothing, the silence persists…..”
“Okay… I’ll end the tension… feminism highlights this: patriarchal oppression isn’t based on individually perceived identities, but on women’s sexed bodies, and listen, it’s not because my body contains an ‘essence’ of oppression, it’s because men chose violence and decided what women would be in the system they founded.”
Let's suppose, finally—I say this to conclude the example—that tomorrow everyone wakes up "non-binary," dresses androgynously, and shows creativity in their appearance; rest assured that in the kitchen, in the bathrooms, carrying babies, and suffering obstetric and sexual violence, we women will still be there. That is gender.
Luisa Velázquez Herrera — Menstruator at Tradfem
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Berthe Morisot (French, 1841 - 1895): Summer day
Camelia Whitehurst (American, 1871 - 1936): Summer
Annie Traquair Lang (American, 1885 - 1918): William Merritt Chase’s summer class, Bruges
Lotten Rönquist (Swedish, 1864 - 1912): Summer day in Capri (1895)
Ivana Kobilca (Slovenian, 1861 - 1926): Summer (1889-1890)
Rhoda Holmes Nicholls (American, 1854 – 1930): A summer day
Mabel May Woodward (American, 1877 - 1945): New England summer, late afternoon
What I have noticed is that men are so deeply in the trenches of learned helplessness that they think things just happen by magic.
They see women's homeless shelters and emergency hotlines and think pieces about the violence we suffer at the hands of men, and wonder why men don't have the same resources.
Not for a moment they think that, if they want all of that support, they have to create it themselves. They truly think that female shelters and support networks are born out of nothing, with no work or thought behind them.
somehow men are the original inventors of every single thing on the planet because they are far more intelligent than women, but they can't prop up male exclusive shelters or hotlines..
Men don't think women's shelters/orgs appeared out of nowhere, they just assume The Men in Charge created these institutions in response to women "whining" about our problems, which are actually trivial and insignificant compared to *men's* problems. It's proof the we live in a tyrannical matriarchy.
That is verbatim what I've seen MRAs claim on sites like reddit and the chans. It's not that they don't think about it, they just invent male supremacy historical fanfiction that they share amongst themselves instead of reading a single article or book that doesn't flatter their worldview.
Reminder, or new information if you're young, that the first women's shelters were illegal. The women who set up shelters to hide and protect women and their children escaping abusive homes were breaking the law, and the police would drag those women and children back to their owners when they found out where they were.
The women who ran those shelters were risking their own freedom, safety, and lives to run them.
The shelters and services became legal and often partially-government-funded after years of campaigning by hundreds of thousands of feminists. Who, again, risked their freedom, safety, and lives to do so.
it always amazes me that pro p0rn mindless drones think that women are a fair price to pay for freedom of expression. they didn't even assume we could fight oppressive censorship without it. so lesbians being able to express themselves can only happen if their sexuality is exploited? okay. "conservatives don't see a difference between p0rn and gay people" and neither do you?
I really don’t believe in male loneliness. When males talk about loneliness they always still have FRIENDS they just aren’t having sex. But they have FRIENDSHIPS. So they aren’t actually lonely.
When women talk about loneliness they literally mean no friends, no sex, basically no family, and probably not even much of a functional baseline. Most of the lonely women I know have something that actively prevents them from working too. But male loneliness is just… not being able to have sex? I don’t fucking care tbh???
Same with "male depression" btw
My city has outreach resources for mental health. The men’s suicide prevention group meets every week. The women’s suicide prevention group says “page cannot be found” 🤣
Just found out that women have to borrow more to pay for college, and then take longer to pay back their loans. Parents save more money for their sons, because of the breadwinner gender role. Colleges avoid taking too many girls into their classes and give boys' applications a second look. Once in college, girls are more likely to send money back to their parents to help support them (the same parents who saved less for their college education, because sons are the breadwinners...). Lots of female dominated professions like nursing require degrees, but any field with 'too many women' pays less. Once they're in the field, even if it is male-dominated, women are again paid less than their male counterparts (women are more likely to be penalized for asking for raises etc, and more likely to be overlooked for promotions). If they become mothers, that sets them back even further.
But men still complain that there are special scholarships for women. Lol.
Sources:
Colleges avoid taking too many women:
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
All other statistics:
https://www.stlouisfed.org/-/media/project/frbstl/stlouisfed/files/pdfs/iee/eei/wocstl-stlfed-03-nov-2022.pdf?sc_lang=en&hash=67A421B90B88E88EA3DF5FCBBFDCD4AE
All this and men still want to cry and moan about being underrepresented in colleges? These men literally have it so much easier to go to college and be successful and instead they CHOOSE not to and then complain about women dominating colleges. Insane.
Between this and the study that came out recently saying single women buy over a million houses more than single men, modern women are really proving that we are the superior gender. In 50 years, we now outpace men intellectually, financially, and obviously emotionally. These men with their 2000+ years (technically significantly more, but I’ll be nice and only count the years after the Christian church started fucking the world over) head start are getting beat by us in so many ways.
I think all these men need to stop pushing this tradwife/femininity bs and start being humble. Because women are proving every day we don’t NEED men, and if they want to get kept, they need to at least be WANTED by women. And they need to clean up their attitudes and acts if they want women to actually WANT them lol.
If you met someone with the same last name as you, how surprised would you be?
Not at all, it's very common
A little surprised, but wouldn't immediately assume a connection
I would be surprised and assume there was some relation
I would be very surprised that I *hadn't* met this person, we must be related
Does anyone else with this last name even exist?
The reason a man can’t legally club you over the head and drag you back to his house is because a lot of women who came before you were called loud, and annoying and shrill, and evil, and witches and stupid and sluts and harlots and sinners and ugly and spinsters and lesbians. Now they’re called terfs, nazis, Karen’s and femcels and bigots.
There has never been a point in history where feminists engaged in actual positive change were well liked and warmly received. To be feminist is to be hated and called whatever the Worst Thing Possible currently is btw.
If they like you it’s because the hard work is done.