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How Your Beliefs Guide Your Dating Life
Rarely do any of us allow in new information. We often take the shortcut of filtering new information and experiences based on what we already deeply believe. We simply seek to “reconfirm” what we already know so we can feel more in control of life as we know it. Two people can experience the exact same event, yet their interpretations (and the thoughts, emotions, and behaviors that follow) are…
Who Is SEI Club For?
Who Is SEI Club For? Here at SEI Club, our goal is for you to have a beautiful, enjoyable dating experience. Of course, that starts with you and each of the members we represent. We always want to do everything we possibly can to ensure a happy, deeply rewarding experience for all incoming and current members. Given that most new members come from past or current members’ recommendations, your…
Are philosophical differences “deal breakers” for you when dating?
When seeking a life partner, it’s natural to want to meet someone who shares your views of life and values. That’s part of what makes a relationship so special. The trouble can come when we are unwilling to tolerate any differences in perception. This is because even someone who is very similar to you and shares many of your same outlooks, will never 100% match your view on everything…even things…
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The Power of Relationships
We all know how life can be wrought with general uncertainty. Few people can predict the future and we are often bombarded with ideas of war, financial market fluctuations, and all sorts of general unrest and lack of ease in life. While it requires tremendous faith in yourself, the universe, and the general good that is in our also-beautiful world, nothing helps us weather the inevitable storms…
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Is SEI Club “Too Good to Be True?”
Occasionally we might encounter an attractive, accomplished, fit single looking for love who is a little held back by the idea that SEI Club is “too good to be true.” In the case of men, there is sometimes an idea that these beautiful women in some ways aren’t “real” or sincere about wanting a deeply loving relationship with another human being…or vice versa…the idea that the gentlemen who…
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Feel Brand New at This World-Class Spa….
Feel Brand New at This World-Class Spa….
Claridge’s spa They say that “good things come to those that wait.” They also say, “if a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing well.” Both sayings embody the exciting new addition that Claridge’s have recently made to their five-star London accommodations. This famous hotel has been the leading venue of choice for those who prefer the best, including royals of course, for over 200 hundred…
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A Dining Experience to Satisfy the Most Discerning…
A Dining Experience to Satisfy the Most Discerning…
Perhaps of all the dining styles and restaurant formats that get bandied around, the term steakhouse is the one most loaded with the most pre-conceptions. Portion sizes erring on the side of gluttonous, mountains of side dishes, and customers in stretchy waistband pants. Obviously, there is a time and a place for such dining options, they are after all an American staple but the team behind a new…
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These Italian Destinations Give You A New Lease on Life…
These Italian Destinations Give You A New Lease on Life…
Even with the gradual opening up of borders, the increasing opportunities for air travel, and the reassurance of vaccination, negotiating the tourist landscape of the “new normal” is still a tricky business. There is an ever-shifting raft of additional requirements to be overcome, from PCR tests to quarantine, additional insurance, and even the chance that your destination of choice might…
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This Luxurious Spa Will Make You Feel Good All Over
This Luxurious Spa Will Make You Feel Good All Over
Although located only about an hour from London, Cliveden House feels not only half a world away, but as if it also exists in a whole different era. Merely driving up to its grand stone facades and ornate and sprawling gardens, makes you think that time travel is perhaps possible after all! But such historical grandeur hides a secret, and one very much in keeping with the modern world. The newly…
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The Perfect Winter Escape …
The Perfect Winter Escape …
For many people, the thought of spending the day skiing through picturesque scenery over a glistening layer of fresh snow is everything that a winter break is all about. Even better, the best resorts often offer spa services to help people unwind at the end of the day — but one resort is taking a new approach to this service. Located in Aspen, Colorado, the Viceroy Snowmass hotel has created a…
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What To Expect From SEI Club
What To Expect From SEI Club
If you’ve been referred to SEI Club from a current or previous member, you know what to expect from the world’s most exclusive matchmaking and dating venue. However, if you have not been referred by a current member and are looking to meet the love of your life, please find some of the highlights below.
We look forward to introducing you to the Right Person, as defined by you.
It is…
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The Ultimate (Virtual) Safari Adventure Is Here…For Your Satisfaction
The Ultimate (Virtual) Safari Adventure Is Here…For Your Satisfaction
The thought of roaming across wild African landscapes, marveling at untamed landscapes, not to mention even less tame animals, as you bounce along rugged tracks in the back of an open air jeep, may seem a very long way off at the moment. Especially at a time when just heading out to the shop for more cheese and a bottle of wine is practically frowned upon. And whilst things will eventually…
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Why Now Is The Best Time To Find Love
There is genuine power in the pause. Power to create the life you’ve always dreamed of living, the power to heal, the power to create new beginnings, to finally find and forever connect with the love of your life.
It’s such a magical moment in time: Because it’s so rare that accomplished, intelligent, successful men and women have a minute free for themselves. They are always in high demand,…
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Why You Shouldn’t Give Up on Finding A Relationship You Can Be Proud of….
Why You Shouldn’t Give Up on Finding A Relationship You Can Be Proud of….
It seems like sometimes finding the right relationship is a lot of “work.” There are seemingly endless meetings of potential matches and no one seems quite “right.” After a while (maybe even just a little while) it’s easy to give up on the idea all together.
It’s like: Why bother?
Well…
When you are with someone who you admire and respect, they can give you perspectives that you otherwise would…
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Exciting laces to Dine in 2019
Exciting laces to Dine in 2019
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If you enjoy incredible cuisine in an invigorating, inspiring atmosphere, these restaurants are sure to delight you. Here are some of the best of the best of 2019.
Experience the depth and breadth of life’s divine flavor at these sure-to-be fine establishments:
Mentone, Santa Cruz, California
Michelin-stared chef David Kinch’s new restaurant takes its name from the village of Menton…
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The Lost Art of Courting and Seduction
Successful, accomplished singles are often excellent at getting things done. They are efficient in creating a vision or goal and finalizing it into reality. That efficiency serves them well when it comes to achieving their professional goals (or other life goals) and contributing to the betterment of humanity in their chosen, inspired endeavors.
However, sometimes, this high-powered efficiency is also practiced when dating a potential lover, partner, and friend:
In effort to “get to the point” or “close the sale” they arrive with a checklist of questions (for all practical purposes) – any of which answered “wrong” will lead to an outright rejection of any possible relationship being pursued with this prospect.
For instance, before the drinks are even served, she’s asking him “Do you want kids, how much stock do you own, what’s your net worth, and how often do you call your mom?” Any “wrong” answer is sure to kill the deal…just another night wasted in tedium.
Meanwhile, he is demanding answers to: “What do you do for a living, would you relocate to Vegas long-term if that’s where I needed to be, and do you like dogs?” – again, a rush to close the sale…one wrong answer and off to the “past failed dates guillotine” she goes. Another night wasted when he could’ve been out with some other prospect.
While this efficiency might be great at getting to the point in many aspects of life, it will (unintentionally) prevent you from ever finding the right lover, life partner, and friend when dating.
Because in an effort to go through a checklist, you’re actually missing the essence of who this person is…you’re not enjoying the moment nor taking into account all of the things that make a relationship last, such as his or her unique, insightful views on various topics that might make you a far better (more evolved) person than you are today. How this person has the ability to add tremendous value to your already great life.
You might be missing the fact that although he doesn’t call his mom enough now, with the right woman he might be able to heal and grow that relationship in a healthy, beautiful way. You might be missing the fact that she has no desire to move to Vegas now, and can’t stand dogs…but after a few months with you, all that changes…because she wants to be with you… now, all these other “details” become meaningless in comparison…completely extraneous and irrelevant.
Indeed, your whole efficiency “checklist” is irrelevant because while kids aren’t necessarily TOP OF MIND for him right now, after more time with you he will WANT to share this beautiful aspect of life and creation with you. These are all things that come out of a happy, healthy, deeply involved relationship….one in which two soulmates need each other to the point where all the rest doesn’t matter so much. Including the initial “incorrect” answers on the previous checklist of “efficiency.”
Meeting and RECOGNIZING the Right Person takes time. It’s a slow dance of uncovering the person’s many facets step-by-step over fun times…amazing conversations, great food, fun hikes, walks, trips…it’s the process of courting and seduction that CREATES the relationship itself…creating shared experiences and deeply invigorating moments…when you suddenly realize that you don’t want to experience life’s more mundane moments without this person…because they make those better, deeper, and more fun now that there’s so much shared history.
This is the art of courting and seduction…it’s the opposite of efficiency or rushing to close the sale. And those who do not practice it may risk losing one opportunity after another as Mr. or Miss Right is presented to them over and over again in various forms and faces…never uncovering who each prospect truly is due to a haphazard efficiency checklist that only shuts every door before it even opens.
People are too complex for checklists.
So next time you go on a date, toss your checklist out the car window on the way over and vow to just be present. Save the questions for some other time…sip your drink and notice the sparkle in her eyes, the flirtatious smirk in his smile…all the things that allow you to slowly uncover who this person is, so you too can enjoy and engage in the lost art of seduction. Over time, you’ll be unbelievably surprised at how the answers to your initial checklist can change day by day based on the persons mood, and their evolving interest in being with you…above all else.
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The Most Satisfying Brunch in Dubai
The Most Satisfying Brunch in Dubai
The concept of brunch may seem to be something more common in the west but Dubai has taken the idea to its culinary heart, so much so that when Friday rolls around – the first day of the weekend in UAE – thousands will head out to feast on the finest mid-morning foods. Even the most exclusive and finest of fine dining restaurants open their doors and offer a brunching menu, and such is the mix of…
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