Shadow

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[shadowofobsidian]

Do the things that makes you shit your pants

[olive-garden-hoe]

I think one of the most difficult parts about being ace is that your perception of attraction is so intrinsically different from allo attraction that it makes it difficult to understand your feelings. Like, how do I know I’m romantically attracted to this person if I don’t want to have sex with them? Is it queer platonic or is it genuine romantic attraction? And it’s not like an allo can ever answer that, so you feel isolated and confused. Idk just a thought

[shadowofobsidian]

Honestly if you really like being in their company, seeing them or just being in their presence makes you happy, you think about them for a long period of time, you feel like kissing, cuddling or just wanna be physically close to them, just being their friend breaks your heart a little because you always want more, it's probably romantic attraction.

[shadowofobsidian]

As if attraction to women wasn't enough, I had to develop attraction to men too 🫠😭

[jasper-dixon]

[fluoresensitivearchived]

Small penises aren't bad, balding isn't bad, being short isn't bad, being fat isn't bad. Physical traits are not signs of morality, and the sooner people stop mocking people for their bodies (yes, even when they're bad) the better.

[uxji]

[cretaceousundead]

Like another tumblr post said “when you make fun of a bad person for their appearance, somewhere there’s a good person with a similar appearance who hears you and feels terrible”

[shadowofobsidian]

Source

[engulfes]

Growing up is actually all about realizing people don’t inherently dislike you and it’s a bit odd to assume they do

[existentialdruid]

This

[jelliebeanbitch]

there are more tweets in this thread

fucking SLAY

[darlington-v]

this isnt even the full thread, there are even MORE tweets to this thread that i think are really necessary to read if you do what op is talking about! it is not enough to know that feeling this way hurts the people you love, we already know that.

this rest of the thread continues after the third tweet from the reblog.

like THE FULL THREAD is genuinely so reassuring.

sometimes, it is not enough to just know, sometimes you might need that reassurance of "do you really think of me when i'm away?" and someone reassuring you that yeah, they do. and evaluate that! trust that! just like op did.

and then learning that ykw, it's NOT any of my business really. and finding comfort in that trust that like. whether they are or aren't thinking of me, they really do love me.

this full thread changed my life and i am ALWAYS going to give the full thread because the parts people cut out aren't enough for the people experiencing these things, speaking as someone who does. it, really it just makes us, made me, feel bad about my own capabilities when i saw the unfinished thread.

[shadowofobsidian]

Multifandom Yuri on Ice

By A.G. Nonsuch on x.com

[shadowofobsidian]

Poison Ivy in Flower Bikini

Credits to @skull_fraxr on x.com

[shadowofobsidian]

Harley Quinn show was soo good, I will miss it so much man. Harley and lvy are THE couple man, one of the healthiest wlw couple I have seen. And it was sooo fun, this show was crazy and insane and just so funny. It became my comfort show, I'm gonna miss it so much

[rrregisabbb]

i swear that’s exactly what Carol was thinking when she finally admitted she had fallen for Zosia!!

[charlilil]

Who up plurbin they bus

[metamorphesque]

― Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

[text ID: I need a father. I need a mother. I need some older, wiser being to cry to. I talk to God, but the sky is empty.]

[kassy-djomunson]

[fatfatgaybitch]

What accepting yourself for being gay does to a mf

[no1fanm]

What I like about Pluribus is that it's about an alien invasion, but it's about ai; but it's also about grief; but it's also about colonialism; but it's also about conversion therapy; but it's also about toxic relationships; but it's also about neurodivergency; but it's also about loneliness; but it's also about

[loveridden1999]