they/them || an adult

i like my music niches and whatever else I interact with

[ioliravs]

THE ANSWER

[gendercensus]

The 2026 Gender Census is now open!

[ survey.gendercensus.com ]

The 13th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2026.

It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful!

Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com

The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.

Thank you so much!

[ Link to survey ]

PS: You can see some regularly-updated statistics about incoming data here, with lots of demography and graphs to peruse!

PPS: Image credits, bark and grass.

[theaisyapping]

could we get some more jaime+brienne and loras interactions? asking because all your little comics with them are hilarious and really cute <3

My pleasure <3

I loveee to doodle them

[powderofcats15]

Turn around

[shittycourtjester]

Finally finished my first doily!! It's 10 inches across and took about a month on and off and I'm glad it's done. I may sew it onto a bag or continue to put it on my cat. The pattern is on this website:

One Shuttle Doily

This doily is really easy to tat, and only requires one shuttle and ball thread! It was Shuttle tatted with Lizbeth size 20 in Vineyard Harv

[reticent-vampire]

at least we got armand in a bun

[nortism]

It seems like people are automatically assuming that ghost Claudia is 100% telling the truth in regards to her feelings towards Lestat and Louis rather than saying things she knows will hurt Louis out of rage at being stuck in purgatory while he reads her diary entries to her rapist and gets back together with his ex who abused her. Ghost Claudia is clearly in so much pain over her death and separation from Madeleine and is lashing out in the only way she can.

I really don’t think the seance is retconning the Louclaudia relationship into her always having preferred Lestat. I think it makes it clear that Claudia was more easily able to manipulate Louis than he was aware of, or wanted to be aware of. But I also think the ambiguity and the fine line between love and hate remains.

[mephostophilis]

are non brits aware of count binface.

[mephostophilis]

to give some entirely bizarre context, nigel farage (extreme cunt) has stepped down from his position as MP for clacton (due to a scandal where he received £5 million from a crypto billionaire that could have been laundered) only to run again so that he can prove people like him. and the only person running against him is count binface. who has been a staple of british politics for many years. and now the british press is forced to interview him seriously while he sits there with his binface.

[spell-fox]

For context Farage can't be prosecuted for this while not in office. His tactic is to be re-elected to show he is a man of the people beating all other parties (and therefore laws don't apply??). Other parties have chosen not to run ostensibly because it lends legitimacy to his stunt but more likely because it is a Reform stronghold and they are unlikely to challenge him anyway.

Except in the hour of need, a binface stepped up.

So either he gets in and is prosecuted, or he loses to a bin.

[shittycourtjester]

so no head?

[shittycourtjester]

THEY'RE GETTING DIVORCED IN WAYS THAT HAVEN'T EVEN BEEN THOUGHT OF BEFORE

[theshitpostcalligrapher]

req'd by @raspberry-radiation

miserably across the floor?

text: *displeased jingles*

[alixirdevida]

THE ANSWER

[calligrificator]

[shittycourtjester]

just finished reading the ballad of ronan mccoy!! incredibly touching, and I hope the people next in line on libby enjoy it as well 💜

[laterkiss]

i have this deadly sickness called remembering

[kosmogrl]

[utopians]

people aren't even exaggerating indeed is literally like that. walmart attendant $13 an hour, target attendant $13 an hour, AI dick sucker $40 an hour, home depot attendant $13 an hour, guy who designs bullets that can only kill children $160k a year plus benefits, gas station manager $18 an hour