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@shut-the-hell-your-meowth
"theyll hate you for this" "but theyll be alive" is THE juiciest thing to me
i will ensure you stay alive above all else. even if what i do to make it happen is horrendous. even if it violates all your wishes or moral principles. even if you can never look at me the same way again, even if you hate me for it. because at least if you hate me it means youre alive
Trapped in the talkative cycle
Blease stop Dutch is barely a respectable language as it already is
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It was nice of Frodo to wait until after Sam's wedding before leaving Middle Earth forever.
"Republicans don't have consistent morals"
Yes they do. It's just that their morals are rooted in "protect the people and things closest to me at all costs". Their values are extreme tribalism. They also believe those outside the group are constantly threatening the safety and prosperity of the in-group.
This is why so much of what they do seems contradictory and hypocritical. Yes, they want prosperity for those they consider "like them", but they are also willing to do things that harm themselves if it harms the "enemy" more. And, they blame the enemy for that harm, not themselves.
It's literally "this is why we can't have nice things". It's your fault.
A conservative may think, "welfare might be nice, and it's true all my neighbors depend on it, but those welfare queens are stealing it, so we can't have it. Public pools might be nice, and they provide a safe place for my children to play, but people I consider unclean might use them, so we can't have them."
This is how a conservative woman can justify an abortion for herself, but not for others, even though anti-abortion laws make it harder for her to get that abortion in the first place.
What needs to be done will morph and change, external influences will change what they think are important values for the inside group to have to some degree, but at the core it's always about protecting their own.
When I was in highschool, I had a conversation that truly made me understand how conservatives think on a fundamental level. I was discussing with a conservative family friend an essay I was writing that was arguing for the decriminalization of sex work and I spent a while laying out my various arguments and why this issue was important and at the end she said to me "okay, but I don't want my daughter to think that is an acceptable thing to do".
I (being a teenager) was confused by this because this issue is so much larger than just her daughter. So I tried again to explain how many people are harmed by sex work criminalization and how decriminalization would decrease sex trafficking and she repeated again, with a smile on her face: "I don't want my daughter to do that and decriminalization would signal that that is an acceptable thing for her to do".
I was struck with a moment of realization that the way I see the world is the exact opposite of this woman. She fundamentally saw the world as centered on her and her loved ones as individuals, and was completely unconcerned with how it would affect society on a larger level. To her, the material harm that was caused to thousands of people is completely inconsequential when compared to the imagined possibility of it signaling something to her family that she personally disagrees with. That is, at it's core the conservative mindset.
yeah the bad news is that trying to argue through this mindset the normal way is a recipe for a stress-induced coronary and a satisfied conservative opponent.
the good news is you don't have to argue through it the normal way.
conservatives are vulnerable to the kind of emotion-driven arguments that most people are taught to avoid as inappropriate. they're vulnerable to cheap manipulation tactics, trolling, and fearmongering. use these to your advantage. don't waste your breath laying out rational, empathetic arguments; hit them with their own medicine and a "well i think it's my god-given american right to earn a living by running a small business on onlyfans, and if you think the government should stop me you're a dirty commie!" confuses the hell out of em every time, and if it ends up bringing one or two of them around to the right position via the wrong route, all the better!
Not to sound like an evil chessmaster or anything, but yeah. Studying rhetoric means learning to make a good argument… and it also means learning when a good argument isn’t what the situation calls for. Sometimes all you need is a good ol’ appeal to pathos. Sheer manipulation, baby.
You’ll notice that this is how they talk to each other, too. They’ll say “facts don’t care about your feelings,” but they’ll disregard science when it comes to climate change or vaccines or LGBTQ+ identities. The basic conservative rhetoric strategy is blindingly simple, and because we have to live in the same world as them, it’s useful to know how to speak their language.
Conservative Arguments go as follows:
Identify the In Group, as relevant to the topic. It can be as broad as “all of humanity” or as narrow as “white suburban moms in the Midwest.”
Identify perceived threat to the In Group. Notably, you can convince them of almost anything if you frame it as competitive (“if X wins, we lose!”) or dangerous (“your children will get hurt!”).
Make that perceived threat PERSONAL. They don’t care about people in the abstract, so bring in their family. Don’t say “what if,” frame it as a matter of When. (ex. If we’re talking healthcare, age inherently comes with disability. Disability is a scary Out Group word to them, but age is not. The frame would be “when you’re eighty and your knees need to be replaced, that shouldn’t have to be as expensive as buying a new car!”— inevitable, personal, and based on a comparison they understand). In a carrot and stick sense, this is the stick.
After laying out the worst case scenario, provide an optimistic alternative. This is something conservatives are very good at and leftists are presently very bad at. Conservatives use nostalgic language and imagery to paint a picture of an idyllic world where the In Group is safe and the Out Group is nowhere to be seen. This is the “make America great again” and 1950s visuals that erase anyone who doesn’t fit their whitewashed worldview. A leftist alternative might be an optimistic future where billionaires— our Out Group— are no longer fiscally possible and their wealth is with the people, where people can afford homes, and where a shift to sustainability has revitalized industry. It doesn’t need to be realistic. The 1950s tradwife wet dream certainly isn’t. It just needs to meet their desire for safety from the Perceived Threat mentioned earlier. This gives them something to fight for: the carrot.
Prescribe a course of action. Conservatives are good at mobilizing, it’s why they’re in power. Specifically, prescribe action other than just voting— ways to incorporate goals into a lifestyle. For the conservatives, this has looked like participation in evangelicalism, putting their kids in private or home schools, or refusing vaccines. Leftist alternatives might be asking people to engage in mutual aid and/or gift economies (by another name, this one is too lefty for most of them— try “helping your neighbors” or “paying it forward”), joining firefighters or medics instead of the military or police (“bad apples spoil the bunch and good apples don’t make it better!”), recording law enforcement officers (“to make sure everyone’s rights are protected from Them”) etc.
As they leave their echo chambers and participate in face to face community with other people, their In Group may be widened against their will (think of college students who go from right to left wing after meeting people from other backgrounds) and their mindset may open to more intellectually honest arguments.
Of course, it doesn’t work on everyone. Many people are too far down the conspiracy hole to engage with people they see as belonging to the Out Group in any peaceable way. This is part of why it’s the responsibility of people who they might perceive as members of their personal In Group (ie other white people, other cishets, other men, etc) to try to change their mind. Even a little.
At this point, it’s less like changing someone’s perspective with reasoned debate and more like redirecting a loaded gun. But that means it matters more than ever. If your discussion can be the difference between a parent encouraging their son to join ice or telling him to reconsider, if you can convince someone to record law enforcement when they see them harassing someone, if you can get some guy to think about becoming a firefighter instead of a cop, if you can get someone to donate directly to a food bank instead of to a church group, if you can redirect their anger and paranoia towards billionaires instead of immigrants— even one change can have a ripple effect.
So yes. Manipulate the conservatives. It’s one of our last rhetorical tools against them.
i just found out my mother has had a tumblr since i was 3. I am 20. I am a second gen tumblrina.
i can barely comprehend your power
um yeah his name was Wheatley
A BIRD POOPED ON MY HEAD ON THE WAY TO WORK.
HOW DO YOU KNOW THE BIRD WAS ON THE WAY TO WORK?
DONT MAKE ME ANGRIER THAN I AM
So as an Antarctic expert I need to add to this that we had not in fact been to Antarctica when it was named. The ancient Greeks decided that because there was an Arctic at the top of the world, with bears, there had to be an opposite at the other end, without bears. Which is kind of ridiculous except that the fuckers were dead on
no i don't want you to redirect me to your app i want to look at recipe
i am not going to a secondary location with you one of us dies here