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shared blog of a nihachu (💘) and sweet anita (🔆) factive

[shutterdove]

💘 — dinah/niki(ta), she/ask for neos, 17-22 (ageslider...!)

big fan of horror, the paranormal, baking, the magnus archives and streamers <3 i also like to roleplay, but i keep that between me and my friends...

i listen to rammstein, rory webley, naethan apollo and madilyn mei mostly...but i've been getting into ghost too!

taken by my wife (👾) insys!! and collectively married!

🔆 — anita/swan, she/whatever you want, 34

any animals, streamers, photography, tea, rwby, improv-based comedy (looove dropout tv and things like it), but i'll talk about whatever

for music: skitz kraven, corpse, banshee, pretty much any horrorcore honestly

also a velvet scarlatina (rwby) fictive if you care at all

[eggdolls]

How are you enjoying the timeout, my little twitch chatter?

[beardedmrbean]

Sproingggggggggg

[lycanthology]

i think one of the most important things you learn about making connections with others is that a significant portion of the time people just do not know theyre doing what theyre doing

[lycanthology]

sometimes someone is acting selfish because they just didnt think you had any interest in what theyre hogging. sometimes you dont get invited to the movies because your friend could have sworn that you said no. sometimes you think someone is mad at you because theyre bad at hiding how little sleep they got. we are all like little worlds that briefly crash into one another from time to time and we just arent physically capable of seeing the whole picture at once in those moments. and learning that really changed everything!

[foxofninetales]

In my head, I call this "vase of flowers" thinking.

See, when I started driving, I would get irritated by people who drove Soooo Slowly... like, the ones who slow down to 10 MPH to take a turn kind of slow. And then one day I was taking a vase of flowers to an event, and even though I'd strapped it in carefully you can bet I was taking the turns extra carefully to keep it from tipping over, slowing way down, and... oh.

And, like, there are definitely unpleasant people in the world. There are definitely people who are toxic, or just don't care about other people, or have a pattern of hurtful behavior. But there are a lot of people who are just trying to deliver a vase of flowers.

[confessionsdiaz]

*through gritted teeth* the world is GOOD. people are kind. Humans are NOT inheritly selfish. you will make it through this year. recovery is possible. people you don't know yet will love you. You are going to do things you can't even imagine right now. You are going to read a rlly good book. You are going to eat some rlly good food. You are going to experience joy again. Things can get better. Situations can change. You can choose to be kinder. The world can change for the better.

[bellhopping]

Bunny bitea you. Bunny bitea you. Bunny bitea you. My Brutal Bunny Attacks

[bobisnotaperson]

OW! OW! OW! IM BRUTALLY ATTACKEDSTYLES

[bellhopping]

Bunny geta you

[redstonedust]

all animals have a place in the ecosystem and that includes humans and im sick of encountering edgelords who say the earth would be better off if we were wiped out. you wanna mess things up for every species that has adapted to live alongside us? as far as i can tell our existance is pretty intertwined with the world we live in, and caring about animals should include caring about humans because we're also animals. so we should probably focus on doing good with the resources we have instead of fantasizing about a big nuclear reset button. you sound like a pokémon villain.

[anniespositivity]

You do not talk too much. You do not expect too much. You do not care too much. You do not ask too many questions. You do not need too much attention. You are not too needy. You are not too much to handle. You are perfect the way you are. If people make you feel like you are too much, they are not worth your time, your effort or your love. You deserve better than that. Your heart and soul should be protected at all cost. You simply are not too much in any way, my love. Always remember that.

[redstonedust]

ive been tryin to slowly train myself out of my various bug phobias via exposure and i earnestly reccomend tryin it. like yeah okay i'm still screaming and crying and shitting when im coaxing a spider into a cup but the fact i can do that much without hurting them is a 100% improvement for everyone involved. its not their fault they ended up in my bathtub y'know. they're just a little guy.

[taffywabbit]

hey I noticed you seem to be having a really awful time of things lately. yeah just a completely dogshit kinda day, been cursing the world and your existence and stuff a lot more than usual. have you tried looking at pictures of really tiny itty bitty little bunnies about it? it probably won't solve your problems, but at least you will be able to face said problems while there's an image of a really tiny itty bitty little bunny in your mind, and in my experience that's still pretty good tbh

[taffywabbit]

here are a few from my collection to get you started. carry them with you in your heart and mind and let them empower you with their really tiny itty bitty littleness. I hope they help

[kosmogrl]

[persianmom-deactivated20251026]

[stuckinapril]

it literally all starts with forgiving yourself there’s no way around it

[stuckinapril]

[mothprincess]

don’t forget that it’s your life. it’s not school’s life, it’s not work’s life, it’s not your family or your partner’s life—it’s perpetually your life, for better or worse. what do you want from this life? forget happy, what motivates you to live? why are you here?

[bakwaaas]

[wetheurban]

Say it with me: I owe it to myself to see how good it can get.