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As a woman, if you focus too much on having morals in your youth, you just might die poor.
Wine 101
How-to Choose
How-to Pair w/Food
Using The Right Glass Shows You Have Class
Basic Types of Wine
Expanded typing of Wines
What Temp For EachType of Wine
Knowing Your Wine Colors
Wine Type Descriptions
Caloric Comparison vs. Beer
Coffees
A friend once told me (while discussing wines & spirits) to learn about coffees too… “ Because you’ll eventually need them, if / when you enjoy too much good spirits.”
Infographics: Wine Folleys, Primer Magazine, and Chicago Food Magazine.
How to be an Adult 201
Thranduil’s Guide to Life
Adult study guide to alcohol.
I feel like this could be very useful for sugar babies like myself that don’t know much about wine!
PSA - THE REAL DADDIES PAY
Hey girls,
If your dude is saying “this feels too transactional” and trying to avoid paying you he’s not a real daddy. Don’t waste your time.
The real daddies will give you money for coming out to dinner, pay for Uber, and be a gentleman.
Don’t let them kiss/touch/or anything without giving you money or entering an arrangement.
When you are on a date it’s NOT a test mode. If they like you they need to pay you.
None of my guys even asked for dirty photos before giving me money.
Please stop getting taken advantage of.
Zendaya with Tika Sumpter & Aja Naomi King at Glamour’s Game Changers Lunch in West Hollywood, LA.
Sugar Baby Education 101: 7 Etiquette Habits
It is a big part of sugar baby’s lifestyle to be comfortable go out on dates with their SDs to high-end restaurants, opening galleries, charities, fundraisers, and balls. What most newbies do not know/lack is the proper etiquette habits.
For those men who surround themselves with successful people 24/7, would be a big turn off to be with a young lady who does not know how to behave and know the unspoken rules in the public. It is important for all sugar babies to know how to act classy and elegant, take your time, don’t be in a rush, be sophisticated and be a mystery for your SD.
When you are dating a millionaire, the right manners and ways of conducting yourself assume an even a greater importance since they indicate grooming and class – qualities which are important in the upper classes.
Here are a few tips on dating etiquette if you are seeing someone rich and successful and wish to come off as his/her ideal partner.
#1 How to Communicate
Not every thought that comes into your head should come out of your mouth. Vet your thoughts. Speaking your mind does not mean sharing every thought. Some thoughts are not appropriate and could cause irreparable damage to your relationships.
Never gossip. Most gossip is bad, negative and damages relationships.
Look everyone in the eye for no more than 5 seconds at a time, then divert your glance for another 5 seconds. Practice will turn this into a habit.
Make eye contact with people you speak with.
Never criticize, condemn or complain about anyone to another relationship. It’s a giant red flag. People will assume that you are bad mouthing them and will try to stay away from forming any strong relationships with you.
#2 Focus on your partner
When dating a rich man , it is important to let them know you value the time and effort your partner is spending on you. And one of the best ways to do this is by being attentive to your date. Maintain steady eye contact with him and listen actively to what he has to say. Smile often and present a positive body language. Also avoid fiddling with our phone (do not take pictures of the food, take snapchat of yourself, etc. do not present yourself as immature girl.). Unless you’re on call at a high-pressure job, you have no excuse for frequently checking your PDA. Flashing expensive technology makes you look self-absorbed and immature. If you must take a call or check a text, apologize for being rude, and tell your date why it’s necessary.
#3 Eating Etiquette
Believe it or not, most people don’t know how to eat. In the adult world of the successful, you need to know how to eat at social settings. Let’s go down the list:
As soon as you sit in your chair take the napkin off the table and drape it over your lap.
Never begin eating until everyone has their meal.
Never chew with your mouth opened.
Never talk while you’re chewing your food.
Never dip any food you’re eating into a sauce everyone is using.
Don’t wolf down your food. Eat at the same pace as everyone else at the table.
Never hold a spoon, fork or knife with your fist.
Outside fork is for salads, inside fork for the meal.
Never make gestures while your utensils are in your hands.
Never reach for anything like salt and pepper. Always ask someone to pass things like that.
Don’t slouch at the table. Sit straight up.
After the meal, excuse yourself and go to the bathroom and make sure you don’t have any food in your teeth. Carry a toothpick or something similar in your wallet or purse wherever you go.
If your date orders, compliment his choices, whether it is his choice of dessert or the wine. At the end of the dinner, thank your partner for inviting you out and don’t leave it for the next day.Focus
#4 Dress Etiquette
When dating a millionaire, it is crucial to turn out in a classy and elegant manner. Adopt a personal style which highlights your best features and above all, get the basics of grooming right. Even though you may not be able to afford a Louis Vuitton handbag or a Cartier watch, ensure that whatever you are wearing is suits you and is appropriate for the occasion.
Work and Job Interviews – Some professions have special purpose clothing like construction, roadwork, electricians etc. If you work in an office, dress like your boss or your boss’s boss. In some offices it’s business casual, in others, it’s a suit and tie for men. For women its slacks, or skirts with open collars, heels or no heels are ok.
Weddings, Wakes, Funerals – In most cases, this will be suit and tie for men. For women, it’s the same as work clothes but many women like to wear more formal gowns or a more stylish cocktail dress, usually worn with heels. Some cultures have special dress codes you need to be aware of.
Formals – Usually formals are black tie optional, black tie or white tie for men. Optional usually means a dark suit, tie or black bow tie, dark shoes. Black tie means black tuxedo, dark shoes, white tie means black tailcoat, white wing-collar shirt, white bow tie, black shoes for men. For women, it’s a long formal gown or short cocktail dress or dressy long skirt and top, usually worn with heels. White ties are very rare.
#5 Introducing Yourself
In life, you will be forced into situations where you will meet new people. This is an opportunity to develop valuable relationships.
There are 5 basic rules to making introductions:
Smile
Firm Handshake
Make Eye Contact
In one sentence explain who you are, why you’re there and who you know at the event
Ask Questions About the Person You are Introducing Yourself to.
#6 Basic Manners
Yes
Please
Thank you
Be punctual (Being punctual is especially important when dating the rich since for them time is money, and as soon as they find you tardy, they will see you as a waste of time.)
Excuse me when interrupting or entering a conversation
Don’t interrupt someone while they are talking
Don’t roll your eyes when someone says something you disagree with
Don’t look away when someone is talking to you
Never check your cell phone when talking to someone
Stay positive and keep criticisms and negative comments to yourself
Compliment, compliment, compliment
Thank anyone hosting an event, dinner etc.
Never curse or use inappropriate language during social events
Never be rude
#7 Learn to handle embarrassing moments
No one is born with perfect manners and it is all a matter of practice. So while dating your SD if you realize that you have committed a faux pas, make as little of it as possible. Ignore whatever you did or didn’t do and force your mind onto something else. Go on smoothly as if nothing happened and very soon people around you will do the same.
The Platonic Sugar Baby
Alright sugar Betches. I’ve been observing and trying to stay as quiet as I can. However, I think that to continue to do so would be a disservice to some of the genuine ladies on here who have been trying to research so they know what to expect from the bowl.
First and foremost, this is my opinion. I welcome respectful discourse and debate. However, if you’re going to try and call me every b*tch wh*re etc in the book because you disagree,or even worse, threaten me, then you will be blocked and deleted with a quickness.
NOW
One of the number one questions that get asked upon entering the bowl is, “Can I be a platonic sugar baby and how do I go about it?”
To answer, YES. There IS such thing as a platonic sugar baby. A TRUE platonic SD/SB arrangement is difficult to find. Not impossible, of course, but they’re not just falling out of the sky.
Here is my personal story: I have a profile on AM. I start talking to a man, lets call him “C”. As we are talking, we get to the part of what are we both looking for. So I asked him. What is your expectation for this relationship/arrangement if we move forward? And like many, he goes “Meeting up for dinners or lunch. Getting together and doing fun things. And hopefully cuddling.” After that, I ask him again, “Just cuddling?” and he says “Yes”. Fast forward to a about a week later where we meet in person. We talk, we laugh, we eat (Well, I eat). And he asks me, “So, what do you think?”And this is where I ask again, “What are you hoping for? You said there was no sexual expectation aside from cuddling, are you sure about that?” and this is how he responds, “ Honestly, I’m just really lonely. I have no one to really go to lunch with or just get out and do things with. I go from home to work and back again. Would I like to have sex with you, yes! But I am completely fine with it being nothing more than just lunch or dinner or going out on my boat.” In response to that, “And you’re still fine with providing financial gifts even though we will not be having sex?” Him: “Yes. I knew what I was getting into signing up for that type of site and I understand that the incentive for young women is the financial component, I am okay with that.”
We seemed to be on the same page and made plans for the next time we wanted to meet. To this day, “C” is still is one of my SDs. We have a great friendship. Is the allowance perfect? No. But we have an agreement that we are both knowingly happy with.
I say all that to say this: Part of the idea of an “arrangement” is the fact both parties willingly agree to the terms. As you can see, from the get go we established that there will not be any sexual activity. I confirmed this with him three times, so there would be no surprises or accusations of lying later. But, there are women out there who are using tactics that I personally would say are intentionally dishonest. It is one thing to say, “We will be intimate when I am comfortable with you”, you have that right. It is completely another to say,” We will be intimate when I am comfortable with you,” with the full intention of leaving once you realize he will no longer give you gifts without intimacy. That’s being dishonest. You’ve given the impression that something will happen when really, you never intend it to, and he doesn’t know that. Which means he’s agreed to terms with certain expectations. When you use the latter, you take what is a reasonable request and then use that knowing he would not agree to your terms otherwise. Never giving the other party the opportunity to willfully agree to the terms. There is a name for that, it’s called rinsing. And in my opinion, rinsing and being a platonic sugar baby ARE NOT THE SAME THING. And the worst part is, the women who are doing this are ruining things for other potential sugar babies. I have an SD who was originally unwilling to give an allowance because of two previous women who did that exact same thing. We eventually did build enough trust to where he knows I will not do that, but its sad that it has gotten to that point! This has been said numerous times but we talk about Salts and Real Sds and why they make what seem to be outlandish requests. It’s because there are women out there who have made them have to be that way. Real Salts exist, no doubt about that. The ones who fully intend to under deliver and lowball. But can you really blame the genuine ones who have been burned when they become that way?
The point is mutually beneficial. However, it cannot be mutually beneficial when one party is expecting something, being told that it will happen, and then never getting it. You would never keep meeting with a guy when he says he will give an allowance and never delivers it, would you? The same applies in reverse. It’s about being respectful of what you two agreed upon. There’s nothing wrong with being a platonic SB. But make sure your SD knows that that’s the agreement and expectation so he has the opportunity to decide for himself whether to leave or stay.
I want you ladies to be careful, I don’t even know where I start but this is a tiny piece of our interaction. (I choose to put up those to show that when he fails to realize he’s making you uncomfortable, by pushing it that’s a red flag)
Have been talking to him for 2 weeks, the first week he “really wanted to meet” but I couldn’t since I was traveling for wok and already at plans with my sister. Anyways this is the man I thought I was talking too( firs pic) not the man I actually meet.
Super ugly, pot belly short little man, looked nothing like that.
Please bare with me and do not judge me for what I did but there were several red flags, one week into him texting me every day- some how he bought up the topic of sex, and I usually always shut that topic down but decided to go along since we’d talk over the phone about his foundations - a scholarship and a pediatric partnership with mayo clinic . I figured the guy seems legit and he’s doing things
Red flag number one : 1. Asked if I was on birth control because he like finishing inside, I replied I don’t have unprotected sex (I have screen shots but I can only upload 10 per post) with people I’m not exclusive with, he then said he was celibate for 14 months and really liked me and wanted me now. I told him there were a lot of factors to consider, like getting testing and building trust (I’m very picky about who touches me) and unprotected sex was out of the question and I tried to drop the topic.
2 . Week number 2 I had to travel again for work, while at the hotel I tried to FaceTime with him, the first time he was on the phone on an important call, if we didn’t tonight we can the following day. The following day I couldn’t since I decided I drive to Canada to visit family (wanted to spend time with my family) told him we can the following day when I was back at my hotel. The following day I asked him too, he said he was watching the debates and had people over, he would try after. I got annoyed and he then said I sounded exhausted and we can try the following day. Mind you he knew I was working a few cases that day and traveling back to MD , meaning that would be hard. Plus we’d agreed to meet the Saturday so I figured what the heck. But I should have been suspicious
3. He won’t tell me his last name because he’s “really important in politics” …….“ Hilary Clinton is a personal friend” (that slips out after I made a comment about how I’d never vote for her) … He wrote two pages of the Obamacare bill, one of his biggest clients was Mayo clinic…he said after we agreed to move forward he’d be happy to give me his last name and I can goggle him.
4. He insisted he star our arrangement at day one, because what the point if we have sex on the second or fourth meet, it wasn’t a relationship and he didn’t want to do that chasing thing and he was willing to wire $5k that day ….He was like I don’t want to be in a relationship and I feel like all the woman want that, he had everything in his life but the intimate part.
Now these texts above are from Saturday morning but I’m writing this because this guy turned out to be a creep Mind you this was not his pics and he didn’t look a thing like that photo (he’s going to send you guys this pic above)
The following day I told him good luck, that’s when it got more creepy
He sent a message saying I was ugly and he wouldn’t have slept with me even if it was free hahaha I still laugh thinking about that because I sent him my actual pic and I look like my pic and he kept referring to me as “sexy and hot and he wanted to finish inside of me” before I turned him down but now I’m ugly, anyways I blocked him he sent me an other message using a new number, to which I blocked then he reach out again on another number and said something about “no wonder there is racism” I said don’t scope that low and I blocked the number . He then reached out on another number and said “
“I have student loans and I’m stupid and black and I’m not getting paid much. I’m slaving for a white man. Vote Bernie the Jew he will give you free tutu ion” To which I replied to him on SA letting him know that , the color of my skin doesn’t define me, there’s nothing wrong with not getting paid much and I’ve never been called stupid , so he’s pretty low to scoop down that far, and I’d hate to hurt his feeling but that didn’t get to me as he’d thought it would . Told him to grow up and thought that was the end of it
Well today he sent me 3 text from a NEW number
“So I fucked my first black pussy ever. Was so good” “Do all black pussy smell like rotten eggs” “What does yours smell like”
This man has gone out of his way to reach out to me using 5 different numbers….please be careful and I know a lot of people have bills to pay but don’t let creeps like that have their way with your body. These men do not know how to take rejection.
I know it’s all over the place but be careful with this man….I’m a bit sick right now but thought I had to warn you guys before someone falls for him - I’ll try to post the 5 numbers later
——————————————————————–As promised, Here are the 5 numbers he’s using, again be careful 651-666-8869 iPhone main number 267-517-8733 321-985-3377 610-609-2080 917-725-6023 A little more I learn from our talks He’s the partner at a law firm in 4 states (PA, NY, MN and I think FL) He’s a health care lobbyist He will claim he’s been celibate for over a year He will insist on have sex on the first meet and claim to wire 5k He will insist on have unprotected sex (don’t ever do that no matter what) Will claim he has results from last week since he renewed his life insurance Will refuse to give you his last name Will talk at you and not too you in person, Almost like you can’t have an opinion (but I stood my ground and let him know when I disagreed) He thinks most women on SA are stupid and he’s been on since 2013 and he tried to convince me I’m the first one he’s met, since everyone else is stupid and slutty (his words not mines) The love of his life/ soulmate is his firm partner named Layla (who just happens to be marrying the other firm naming partner- forgot his name) He got so intense and scary when I told him I didn’t believe in one soul mate and question why he was letting his go with another man He will say relationship isn’t for him and all the women he encounter want to tie him down, honestly based on his looks I find that hard to believe (nobody is trying to tie him down) He will try his best not to take you to lunch or dinner because that’s like dating and he’s looking for an NSA Which is why I think he tried to rush into sex, but will claim to be selective He will try to charm you into thinking he’s a good guy and other creeps onSA ruined it for him He will get aggressive once you turn him down He said I was miserable - I told him of course I was I had to stare at your ugly face, and you would too if you had to look in the mirror 😂😂 I suspect 4 of them might be texting apps
The Art of Seduction ft. Dita Von Teese
@black–venus - Isn’t this the video you mentioned in a previous post?
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Free Premium membership on SA for college babies!
If you sign up with your .edu email address you automatically get a free 1-year premium membership! Even if you’re already signed up, you can just update your email address and it will still work!
Maybe you all knew this already but I thought I’d share for anyone who didn’t know!
But really think about if you want that connected to your school email
That is definitely true, but it's shareable info all the same, so with it what you will :)
Free Premium membership on SA for college babies!
If you sign up with your .edu email address you automatically get a free 1-year premium membership! Even if you’re already signed up, you can just update your email address and it will still work!
Maybe you all knew this already but I thought I’d share for anyone who didn’t know!
Excuses Men Give for Not Wanting to Give
From the book: Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know If You Want to be A Sugar Baby by Leidra Lawson
a concept: thigh high socks that fit people with larger thighs
I SUPPORT THIS
Cannot find a pair that don’t roll down to save my life
Demanding POT
Okay so I’ve been talking to this POT for awhile now, and had to reschedule our first date because I got sick. We’re supposed to have our date tonight. He’s the one I mentioned was really quick to mention being sexual. I politely reminded him I don’t fuck on my first few dates so I can get to know the person and etc. Well I asked what he expected of the relationship and he gives me a fucking list of requirements which are as follows.
- Dresses have to be tight, short, and show cleavage
- You cannot wear black or white
- You must always be in heels
- Light make up for public, dark for in the bedroom
- You must wear an underbust corset under all of your dresses
- You cannot wear a bra
- You need to start loosing weight. When you get under 90lbs I’ll buy you a pair of Louboutins
He’s only offered 3k a month for weekly dates. Like I’m not a goddamn robot. You can’t just program me and watch me go. Granted he has said he would give me extra allowance to cover the cost of rebuying my whole make up collection in a high end brand as well as helping me revamp my wardrobe to fit his tastes. I dunno how to feel about this one.
Sweety – this guy is Dominant with a capital D. Use it to your advantage!!! You’ll wear whatever he wants but you don’t have the money to buy nice high heels and nice tight dresses. You’ll gladly lose the weight if he gets you a personal trainer and pays for a juice/meal delivery package. Just be safe. 90 lbs is anorexic. Be reasonable. But dominant men are awesome and easy if you’re open to it. If submission is not your thing then be very careful because it can be dangerous and manipulating. But Calling him demanding before you’ve met him is a misnomer. I love Doms but that’s me. I love a guy to buy all my clothes and tell me what to wear and buy me lingerie and heels. Just make sure all of those are IN ADDITION TO whatever allowance you’ve agreed to. BE ON TIME. Always! Doms do not line waiting. Be on pointe always.
Somebody add the gif of the dude were the camera does a close up and he’s confused
He wants you under 90 pounds???
Y'all are fucking wild 😂😂😂😂
Every once in a while this comes back on my dash and I really hope this girl didn’t listen to that other girl about doing this.
No grown woman should ever weigh the same as a 7 year old
What fresh hell is this; I hope the OP ditched that guy seriously.
You know what makes me happy?
1. Not being asked sexual questions
2. Being asked what my ideal allowance is
3. Not wanting endless emails
4. Not being asked for additional photos
5. Being an awesome fucking respectful gentleman