transgenderism enjoyer

Cass / 22 / She/They TMA Bisexual Lesbian and Yuri Fanatic

[nekrotiize]

im defending patricia taxxon with my life

[nekrotiize]

nothing she could ever do would ever justify the amount of hate she gets, the intensity of the hate she gets, and the consistency in which she gets it. she is a deeply kind and intelligent individual who has more of a right to her own life than any fuckhead on the internet. she has not done jack shit and people keep throwing rocks at her because she's labeled an easy target. it's horrible.

[nekrotiize]

patty is a brighter, better, more impactful presence on this earth than any sad sorry fuck that's ever even thought a negative thing about her. fuck everyone. if you disagree, fuck you

[pixeljade]

Just to be clear here, if you are TME and you are fantasizing about being TMA because we're "so transgressive", stop that line of thought. TMA folks die for those transgressions, and even those of us who don't die of it are punished to the point of extreme trauma for it. You can fantasize about it because you can, from outside, view the benefits of transgression without experiencing the negative consequences of it. It is EXTREMELY offensive to be painted as "so lucky" for something which has left me afraid to exist freely. It's like if you saw me complaining about my disability and said "Wow, you're so lucky that you have a disability, I'd love for people to fawn over me!", not only are you ignoring the massive negatives, but you're assuming a positive that doesnt really exist. So fuck off

[tamamoland-with-a-gun]

me getting 10,000 dollars a week would solve not only all of my problems but also probably most of my friend's problems too

[imstillalexcomic]

As a bit of levity, upon seeing the work in progress drawing of Agent Alex, Fran - @crazygnomenclature had this to say,

“🎵 Secret Aaaaagent Ma'am🎵”

Thank you, sometimes we need a bit of fun when discussing things that are extraordinarily not fun.

I'm Still Alex - Webtoon | Tapas | Linktree | Patreon

Sure, I’m technically allowed to work for the federal government… unless I was one of the trans people purged from the military… which was later ruled unconstitutional, so I suppose I could get that job… for now… but the damage to our transgender military personnel was already done; that ruling was far too late.

Beware the person who downplays what’s happening, and let’s go further, challenge them.  Yes, trans people are legally allowed to work government jobs, but when doing so requires them to be stripped of their life saving healthcare, are they really?

The messaging is clear: if you want to be part of the future that republicans are building, you must either strip yourself of your identity, or die.

Broken record as I am on this topic, it bears repeating:

Neutrality assists the oppressor.  If you’re part of a discussion where someone spouts this garbage and you don’t push back, you’ve given tacit approval to what they said.  If you remain friends with that person, you’re making the statement that bigotry is not a dealbreaker for you.

What kind of person do you want to be?  If transphobia, homophobia, racism, bigotry, etc. aren’t dealbreakers for you, are you that person?

History will remember.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

are you "self-aware" or are you intellectualizing your emotions because you don't know how to feel them?

[clowngirlcreampie]

[shirimoto]

[orcboxer]

and the post begins

because otherwise it gets kind of visually confusing to parse, which is annoying to some folks, including me

GRANTED not everybody uses the same theme or even the same update. you might have noticed my version of tumblr is earlier than yours (I don't like the new button setup)

but still, it's just about being polite

so now you know

[sealstash]

honk

[darkmoonhyena]

@demegods

[jonbutter]

[hbmmaster]

for those who don't watch game changer the context of this is that vic, as part of their attempt to do a challenge on this game show, decided to steal from sam's home, which resulted in them losing points

[coffeeblend108-deactivated20251]

I dont think I get whats happening, what did vic do?

[hbmmaster]

so basically what happened was they're on a game show and sam gave them a challenge and what vic did as part of their attempt to complete that challenge was they robbed sam's home, but instead of this getting them points they had a point deducted from their score because sam did not think vic robbing his home was good

[nobodywasneverhere]

wait so why did vic's points get deducted?

[hbmmaster]

because they robbed sam's house which sam decided was not in line with what he wanted the contestants to do with this challenge

[youngmysticcy]

On the one hand, part of me is like "well yeah, obviously he's not going to be happy about you robbing his house"

On the other hand, I've seen enough clips of Game Changer and seen the kind of psychological torture Sam inflicts on his contestants and can't help but think this was just kinda fair play?

[hbmmaster]

yeah that's what vic thought too which is why they robbed sam's home. didn't work out though because they lost a point for it

[advanced-passenger-train]

[cobaltspartan]

fascinated by jeff the killer tbh. everyone in that creepypasta has generic white usamerican names (jeff, keith, barbara, billy, etc.) except for jeff the killer's doe eyed little brother liu. why is he liu. is liu chinese? it's okay if he's chinese. is jeff also chinese? has jeff the killer been chinese this whole time? am I a bad person?

[todaysbird]

Luzon bleeding heart, bronx zoo

the Gray Puff….so funny seeing these guys without their namesake trait being visible

[theehorsepusssy]

[birdhism]

Feather Destructive Behavior (FDB) is one of the most misunderstood conditions affecting pet birds (I prefer companion birds, but algorithms) and it occurs more often than you think.

Some people assume plucking is simply caused by poor care, but the science says it's much more complex than that. Research suggests that FDB can involve medical, environmental, hormonal, sex, genetic, and psychological factors, with chronic stress often playing a role. 

Every bird's situation is unique and we need to hold off knee-jerk judgment of the nekkid buddies.

In today's belated (bc posts stuff like this takes awhile to set up) Bird Fact Friday, we're exploring what researchers have discovered about this and why it remains such a challenging condition to understand.

As always, birds with missing feathers is no less worthy of love, compassion, and proper spoiling.

[tpwrtrmnky]

I haaaaaaaaaaate the "affirmation only" framing of trans rights that some ostensibly pro-trans advocates take like there are actually more pertinent issues than feeling affirmed going on here.

I didn't go through the bureaucratic process of changing my Norwegian personal ID number, which encodes gender in it, because having an odd number there made me feel bad.

I did it because for someone with my name and outward appearance, having "man" on my IDs reveals private medical information to everyone who sees the document, information that they aren't entitled to know, which they might act on in deeply undesirable ways.

Taking HRT also isn't something I'm doing to be affirmed, it's something I'm doing because the biological processes signaled by having high levels of estrogen and low levels of testosterone are both something I want, and something that helps my overall well-being and functioning in daily life. Material, real, physiological effects that are well understood, easy to look up, and not about some vague sense that putting estrogen in my bloodstream is a badge of validity handed out by the doctor.

Like at some point I just want to ask these people if they actually believe trans people exist or if they just feel obligated to humor the idea to be nice. Have they actually understood that there are people walking around today with the full effects of transition care already sorted? Have they comprehended that the surgeries exist beyond the occasional picture of someone who's still in recovery?

Do you live in the same material reality as trans people, or are you just being polite to shadows on the wall?

[tpwrtrmnky]

Oh and this is also part of the broader centrist "every material claim the far right makes is true, I just disagree with their tone and think we should be nice" tendency. Like what I'm outlining here is a worldview where the anti-trans notion that trans people Do Not Exist is taken for granted.

[heisthedream]

[pitbolshevik]

you would think that "using 'you're gay and you have gay sex' as an insult is homophobic even when it's directed towards fascists" wouldn't be a controversial statement on the supposedly "queerest place on the internet" and yet

[pitbolshevik]

"people have made art of fascists having gay sex in the past as a form of antifascist protest!!!" yes and those people were being homophobic. what's not clicking?

[pitbolshevik]

....the idea that gay sex is emasculating is homophobia. this isn't a difficult concept, fucking come on yall

[ersahtz]

It makes the fascists uncomfortable. And we do all in our power to make them uncomfortable.

It's about how the fascists perceive queerness, and using that against them.

Is the person using this insult homophobic? Maybe. But not necessarily.

[pitbolshevik]

trump will literally never see your jokes on tumblr dot com about him sucking putin's dick. be fucking serious. you aren't doing this as a form of antifascist protest (LMAO) you are doing this because whether you admit it or not you think men having sex with men is shameful and something to be mocked.

[pitbolshevik]

also you are, whether you think you are or not, reinforcing their fucked up worldview.

believe it or not, "you're gay and you like to suck dick" isn't actually a great response to someone saying that lgbt people are degenerates. i cannot believe i have to say this.

[tinybrownbird]

I would argue that, if it triggers them so much, it’s at least effective…. I’m now trying to think of another way to inflict that much mental damage and ridicule, but everything that comes to mind is using their own hate against them. Which in turn makes the thing itself misogynic or queerphobic. Even comparing them to animals is not fair toward the animals. Then how?

[pitbolshevik]

i dont give a fuck just stop throwing gay people under the bus to make some unfunny joke that, once again, your actual target is never going to see

[grossvampire]

laughed myself sick last nioght imaging lotr gollum having a blog where he just talks normally while also signing all his posts in beautiful cursive for some reason. like this: