love when people say "if you have to aks you know its wrong" bc it immediately tells me they have never meaningfully interacted with someone with an axiety disorder, or ocd, or autism, or like any numner of things that can fuck with your ability to be sure of what youre doing or saying as right or socially appropriate. you tell someone with moral ocd that theyll fucking stop breathing bc they convinced themselves that it would be somehow homophobic.





















