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@yandelenka majority reblogs

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[minmos]

i hope tumblr users never stop talking about punk music i think we deserve this

[pjackk]

Ive got alot of ideas on berrys that mite get me canceled

[himejoshibutch-archived]

i hate yaoi. what's worse than one man? two men!!!

[kemafili]

[mousidy]

a lot of my disillusionment with the trans "community" comes down to the fact that too many of you take "gender is different from sex" and go "ah ok, so instead of saying women are fragile and men are strong, I should say afabs are fragile and amabs are strong. to be Inclusive"

then you just treat gender like a surface level aesthetic draped over what someone "actually" is. really is indistinguishable from terf rhetoric

[mousidy]

you all need to unpack your bioessentialism, but we also need a better theory of gender than "it's just dressup." I will pick my words carefully here, but the word "gender" itself refers to so many different phenomena that have been lumped together, and we need to un-lump them

[mousidy]

in a feminist context, "gender" has historically referred to externally imposed categorization and the internalization and performance of said categories. in a paper I wrote on this subject, I called this sense of the word "extrinsic gender"

"intrinsic gender," on the other hand, is what I used to refer to the sense of the word "gender" that a lot of trans people are talking about when they discuss social gender dysphoria and euphoria. it's the internal sense of category that's resistant to external impositions

but then we also use the word "gender" to refer to subconscious sex, which is the term Julia Serano coins in Whipping Girl to name the phenomenon we're talking about when we talk about bodily dysphoria. it is the "gender" being "affirmed" by gender affirming healthcare like HRT and bottom surgery

so, "gender" is: a social classing system, a performance, and at least two internal phenomena as well. and I really don't know if it's doing us a service to conflate all of these things!

[mousidy]

a lot of people lately seem to be going heavy on the "performance" use of the word, ignoring (intentionally or otherwise) social classing, intrinsic gender, and subconscious sex. this seems to have led to a lot of "progressive" people treating trans women like men "amabs" who wear womanhood as a costume, and nobody understands why that's wrong because they also think gender is just a performance

[mousidy]

see also "why can't you just be a femboy/feminine man/etc"

[nnebuchadnezzar]

[pleasuretrade]

the Leather Archives & Museum in chicago is remodeling and they posted a pic of some of their bathroom graffiti before they presumably tear it down/paint over it and

[pjackk]

Why "goblin core 19 year o"ld discusted with the mold in my shower i thought u liked fungus bitch ok u just say it ok u not mean any of it its just u want to manstrurate and eat cookies/beery's/@00/3# all day while behave badly just say so ok moron go to the spencher gift Ok all of this madness well its ticking me off

[sapphling]

people will understand that owning an exotic carnivore as a pet is a high-risk activity that requires extensive care, research, training and resources to even begin to approach something resembling a safe and ethical situation but if you say anything about how they probably shouldn't let their 160lb untrained mastiff off leash at the mall to growl at toddlers they'll be like but he's just a pupperino and also you LITERALLY brought a human baby within my eyeline, which is a form of violence

[vigilskept]

really i think the most insidious part of white supremacy is the way it will convince white people everything is actually About Them. being called out isn’t about you. poc expressing frustration at your behaviour isn’t about you. it’s about how you are affecting others. step one is literally just de-centre yourself from the conversation. anyone who’s not white has already had to learn this lesson the hard way and it gets tiring waiting for the rest of you to catch up

[siviotu]

why do people on here still interact with pissvortex

[enbaluka-tokyo-drift]

[daughter-of-sapph0]

going further, trans women literally just existing in public gets called a sex crime by transmisogynists. these people want literally any excuse to remove us from public life

[mousidy]

[wannabemumma]

“Hey store manager from the hit movie Elf, what is the primary group that celebrates pride month and, more importantly, when does it start?”

[beemovieerotica]

remember when this was the craziest thing politicians ever said

[evilwizard]

this could work. we never tried it

[publiusvirgiliamaro]

oh that person draws "fat fetish" art so they're a disgusting creep? fuck omg you're right, that's DISGUSTING that they'd find fat bodies attractive. like... they're fat? and we're supposed to believe someone could find that attractive?

[publiusvirgiliamaro]

oh you didn't mean it like that, you just hate how "porn brained" they are? yeah that's fair. imagine how warped your brain must be by porn to NOT expect all women to be skinny and conventionally attractive. heh, turned on by women who aren't hourglass figures with perfect tits and ass? someone has watched too much porn, clearly!!

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