all-american big sad

[gender-entity]

- Silas Denver Melvin @sweatermuppet, Grit Poetry Collection

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my fellow crowleys how do we get our aziraphales to smooch us on the lips :( like literally been besties w her 7 years she is everything to me. i tried to make a dick joke with a tape measure and she looked at me funny. she's so buff too. literally break my legs

[brainrotrelief]

I need to become her.

[goosetooths]

have some mercy my dude

[axel-tiredstudent]

The ineffable husbands as "Couple Dancing" by Leyendecker

Painting this was difficult but really fun and rewarding, I love the result!

(I'm @/noixtky on Instagram!)

EDIT: thank you soooo much for the support to this painting ❤️ I've gotten a few comments about getting this as a print so if you're interested in that please read this ^^

[hansoeii]

look at you, you're gorgeous!

[their-we-go]

i used to be a little girl. and now i’m not. and that’s good. that’s important.

but the thing is. is that i’ll never be her again. can’t, won’t, will never. wouldn’t want to, anyway.

but the other thing is, i keep all her favourite books on my bottom shelf. and i have her stuffed animals on the foot of my bed, still. and i sleep in her room, every night. and i look at the pink walls, at the colour she chose, and i think of repainting and i don’t.

i’ll never be her again, but i am living in the life that she built. waited for. dreamed of. i’ll never be her again, but i try to take good care of her things

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why do i have to do the things and get held responsible for the actions???

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"white guilt" sounds like a paint swatch

[weaponized-kindness]

let's talk about labels

Hanging around the queer part of reddit, I see A LOT of posts that has a variation on the "am I trans/ace/pan/gay/bi...." followed by a message I rarely read, because the answer is always the same.

If this label feels like a good description of your lived experience and feels right, then YES.

And it bothers me a lot, because it shows a fundamental problem with how we perceive labels. Labels are code words used to describe a lived experience. instead of having to explain every time, you use a label. I am gay I am bisexual I am asexual I am aromantic I am non binary I am queer

all those words tell you a story about the person that uses the label. and stories change, and so does labels. A label is not a thing to be permanent or must define your entire existence, it is a word to explain your lived experience up to that point in life.

Gatekeeping labels is therefore not only dumb, but also harmful. YOU DON'T get to write other peoples stories, YOU DON'T get to determine how they experience the world.

NO ONE, and I mean it NO ONE gets to tell you you are not enough of something when talking about your experience. YES, you are asexual enough to be ace, even when you like having sex sometimes. YES you are gender queer enough even when you present yourself according to your assigned gender YES you are trans enough even when you don't transition YES you are bi/pan enough even when you never dated someone out of a certain gender group YES you are

Labels should be a tool that we use to communicate, not a jail cell.

So yeah, if it feels right, you are. No need for further information No questions ask YOU ARE

[queergraffiti]

"have more gay sex!"

Chicago, Illinois, USA

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(slaps car) this baby can fit so much Catholic Guilt in it

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y'all know that bit in Perfect Day by Lou Reed when its like

Oh it's such a perfect day, I'm glad I spent it with you. It's such a perfect day you just keep me hangin on. You just keep me hanging on (pussy poppin piano bit that absolutely oodles my knoodle)

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i'll just whisper to myself "let the children boogie!" until i fall into a rupture in the earth's crust

[tehtariks]

the red floral robe (gay) | OUR FLAG MEANS DEATH

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screaming crying throwing up gouging my eyes out and tearing out my hair scooting around on the floor absolutely weeping

[gayestcowboy]

gladiolus - trans demon 4

(character uses he/they)

inprnt

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"ayayay i am only human" i say as i take forkfuls of cake from the fridge into My Mouth! :)