I love kids theyāre all like.. āwhen i grow up iām gonna be an astronaut and a chef and a doctor and an olympic swimmerā like that self confidence! That drive! That optimism! Where does it go
It gets destroyed by adults not believing in you and telling you to pick a realistic career. And by society creating all these obstacles to the point that youāre too tired to try.
But theyāre not really unrealistic, SOMEBODY is going to be an olympic swimmer and it might as well be you.
Actually I want to talk about this a little more than I did, because olympic swimming is incredible and works perfectly to talk about attaining goals.
I used to be a varsity swimmer, and I was damn good, but I was forced into it by my parents and completely lost my love for it and therein my drive. But in high school I was swimming against such talented swimmers like Olympic Swimmer Missy Franklin. Iāve met her, and the main difference between her and me was that I was strong but had no passion, but she was strong BECAUSE she had passion.Ā
And I could have been good, really good, maybe even Olympic good. I even have the predisposition for it, been swimming since I was 2 years old, have a mom who was almost an olympic swimmer. Missy didnāt have either of those things, she just wanted it, loved it, had been doing it for a long time, and decided she was going to kick ass at it.
Right, thatās great and all, but I completely missed my opportunity to be an olympic swimmer, yeah? and can never achieve those dreams I had as a kid? No, not even though. There was this whole thought that female athletes peak when theyāre 17 years old and lose their skills quickly after that, and male athletes peak around 19. But then Olympic Swimmer Dara Torres shows up. She was an olympic swimmer when she was 17, 21 and 25. Pretty normal age for retirement. She had a few kids. She kicked butt at being a mom.Ā
And then at 33 years old she decides sheās bored or something gets back in shape and kicks so much ass at the trials that she lands herself on the Olympic Team ONCE AGAIN. And then 8 years later, she decides, heck Iām 41 now, no one has ever made the olympic swim team as old as I am, I want to get in shape yet again and teach these children how sports work.
And she still has the record for oldest US Olympic Swimmer, not even any men have beat out that record.
So basically what Iām saying is you could be an olympic swimmer, you really could be. And there are obviously a lot of things stopping you and trying to get in your way: your brain, society, too much chocolate cake for example. But if you really dedicate yourself to it and love it with all of your heart you could, you really could.
And lets say olympic swimming isnāt your jam? Thatās cool too. There isnāt a single skill in this world that you canāt learn if you absolutely love it and want to. Any skill you want is going to take time. There are countless famous people who started learning a skill after 20, 30, 40, or even 50. Not a single person has even been president under age 35 (most likely because youāre not allowed to be, but thereās a reason for that). Whatever you want to do youāre probably going to be bad at first, and Iām talking really shitty.
Van Gogh got started in his 20ā²s and was thought to have no artistic talent at first and was forced to sit in the back of classrooms where the worst artists in the class sat. So yeah youāll probably be bad, like really bad and everyone including you will think youāre bad. If you stick with it though, if youāre willing to work for years and years, if you keep loving it after all the pain itās given you,Ā
then you might just paint Starry Night.
#looks like thereās still time for me to learn how to draw ā¦ YES. As someone who started drawing at 35 and who always was like: āeh, I canāt draw a stick figure to save my life, but I would love to be able toā this is near and dear to my heart. If you want to draw, start drawing. Keep drawing. Be shit at drawing at first. Keep it up, doodle things on scraps but also draw stuff you donāt think you can draw. Challenge yourself, you will be surprised what you can do. It will be frustrating at times, but it will also be awesome. It is SO much a matter of practice and dedication, not talent.
This applies for writing, too.Ā Ā
Donāt ever think for a second that it doesnāt!Ā Want to start writing?Ā Then write!Ā You will get better the more you write, the more often, and you will improve, all of the time, as long as you dedicate yourself.Ā Ā
The worst lie we tell ourselves isĀ āitās too late.ā
