Mistakes i made during my manifestation journey (part 2) :
Victim mindset can hinder your manifestations drastically. It can affect your mental health a lot. During my journey, my one of the biggest mistake was that, i was continuously victimizing myself. Whenever something unwanted happened in my 3D, i immediately used to react to it negatively. I used to consider myself a victim. I used to question myself why life is so unfair to me and all that stuff. But you know what, i was completely wrong! My dear, life is never unfair, remember that. The only reason you're feeling it like that because you're letting yourself feel that which you should not. You should be proud of yourself, because instead of giving up, you're wanting a change for yourself and that's more than enough to feel immensely proud of yourself, i promise. Stop giving your power to 3D. Remember you're not a victim, you're a God which is the most powerful being here. you're the one who NEVER fails at anything.
• Seeking validation from others :
I got to realise that we should stop seeking validation from external sources, it's a MUST! If you're not confident in yourself, how can you expect some other person will make you believe something which you yourself deny or don't have any faith in! I mean, at the end of the day, it's only YOU who can assure you anything and not somebody else. If you don't trust yourself much and not feeling proud enough of yourself, how can you expect somebody else to make you feel proud? Whenever i was feeling low and less motivated, i used to hope that somebody will come and tell me they are proud of myself but there's where i went wrong. The real assurance comes from within. Until you believe in yourself without anyone's assurance, nobody can make you fully believe about anything. So STOP SEEKING VALIDATION FROM OTHERS AND LEARN TO TRUST YOURSELF! Once you fully believe and trust yourself, you will never ever want to seek validation from others because your trust in yourself will be enough. Nobody can fully make you proud of yourself until you do it by yourself by assuring yourself that YES I'm proud of myself and i deserve the best! Ask yourself, do i trust myself? Do i depend upon others to build up my faith? What if one day, there will be no one to assure me anything, will i be able to assure myself and fully believe what i say to myself? Etc. Find your answers and change yourself accordingly! Remember, At the end of the day, what matters is what you say to yourself and not what others say to you.
• Not feeling good enough and worthy :
I swear it's one of the biggest problem we face. First of all, let me ask you, what lead you to the conclusion that you're not good enough, you're not worthy and deserving enough or bullshit like that? Idc what you say, but i fully believe that YOU'RE GOOD ENOUGH. YOU'RE WORTHY. YOU'RE DESERVING. YOU'RE LOVED. And i swear I'm gonna scream that till death. Idk what you have gone through and who you are but i swear, you're good enough. You're good enough and you have the potential to manifest anything you want, believe it or not. Stop comparing yourself with other's life! It's their life and its yours. And if you're waiting for the day when someone will come and will magically make you believe that you're good enough and worthy, sorry to say but you have to do it by yourself. Nobody's gonna make you believe that if you don't believe that yourself. The only reason you're feeling miserable and not good enough is because you're letting yourself to do that. If you want to change your life, start believing in yourself that you can and you do have what it takes to achieve it. Idc even if people say otherwise, it's not their life, it's yours, here you know yourself better than anyone, just because somebody told you you're not worthy makes them the one who's actually not worthy enough.
• Caring what others think :
So, you're telling me you're scared what people will think when you do something you want? First of all what others think doesn't matter. The second thing is that what others are thinking and telling about you is what you're thinking about yourself and letting them to think. Everyone is you pushed out, right? So, what you're thinking about yourself and what you're thinking about the way people will tell, think and react to you, that's what you gonna get. If you're thinking people will react negatively, then that's what gonna happen. That's why stop caring what others say and start caring what you think to yourself.
• Following what others are doing :
Just because others are following a certain way to manifest doesn't mean you have to as well. Everybody has their own journey, you don’t have to follow them completely. What i mean is, some prefer manifesting through Affirmations, some through Visualization, or even some through all methods, etc. Just because they prefer doing so, doesn't mean you have to follow that specific way in order to manifest. If you prefer Affirming rather than Visualizing, then do so. Just because others do Visualizing, doesn't mean you have to as well. You make your own rules, remember that. Only you know what works best for you, if not, figure it out. Do what's comfortable to you and what feels right to you because after all, it's your journey and not others, and here you make your own rules for your own life. If you assume you can manifest by affirming only once, then that's what will work for you, you don’t have to affirm thousand times just because somebody told you to, but you absolutely can if that's what you assume to work for you. Remember, as you're the God, you don't need to follow anyone, but ofcource yeah you can take advice and learn from them but at the end of the day, it's upon you, what you will assume, that's what will work for you.
If you're not loving yourself, how can you expect somebody else to love you? I won't elaborate much about it because I'm assuming you all already know the importance of loving yourself. So this is gonna be a reminder to start loving yourself if you haven't already. Love yourself. Be kind to yourself. Reward yourself for what you do. Thank yourself. Be proud of yourself for who you are. Make yourself your top priority. Appreciate yourself. You're loved. You're perfect the way you are, you always were. I love you sm! <3
• Running away from my situation instead of facing them :
Now i must say it's my biggest problem. As i used to not feel good enough and all that stuff, i was always running away from my problems instead of facing them as a way to escape. I used to find an escape so that i won't be able to face them because i was scared of facing them. I was scared of failure. But throughout my journey, i learnt that we must not run away from our situation, instead we should face them. We should face them with confidence. Instead of running away, we should dare to face them fiercely. Then only we learn in life. If you're scared of taking that first step, then i want to tell you, go for it, don't run away, face them, i swear it's gonna be worth it. If you're wanting something, don't stop until you get it. I realised failure is never an option, it's either a win or a lesson. Stop procrastinating and start working to make your dream life your reality.
These are some of the most important lessons i learnt in my journey. If you're doing any mistake i mentioned, I highly encourage you to start working on changing that and make yourself better. Start acknowledging your mistakes, weaknesses, and whatever that's holding you back and start working on them. I will repeat again, start working on making yourself better, i swear it's all gonna be worth it.
