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Let’s get down to witchiness

[kropotkhristian-deactivated2019]

[freaklangdon]

Me making a microwave meal and still managing to fuck it up: antoni help me

[nolongersilkbox]

In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.

Can’t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.

Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don’t let it get to your head.

Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it’s a process that takes an hour? That’s alright, everyone’s different. 

Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That’s okay, you’re not broken, you’re not a failure.

Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That’s great, you’re not a slut, you’re not overly sensitive or dirty. 

Can’t cum without toys/vibrators? That’s awesome, that’s a valid part of sexual play!

Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That’s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!

Can’t orgasm at all? THAT’S ALSO COOL. It’s not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.

Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they’re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be. 

[dandelioncraft-deactivated20181]

THIS IS SO IMPORTANT> > >

The goal of sex should be mutual pleasure, not orgasm. So much pressure can be lifted from both parties (and yourself during alone time) if you focus on feeling good and having a sexual experience. Sex is not a point a to point b thing. 

[batgirl-spoiled]

them: what’s your sexuality?

me:

[wordsnstuff]

[st-pam]

[sophiecatharine]

Excuse me while I have a quarter life crisis

[contemporary-art-blog]

[contemporary-art-blog]

Glasgow-based artist Jim Lambie can transform any space into a visual delight with his geometric tape designs.

[stacey-thomas-deactivated201910]

[sophiecatharine]

Back where I belong...

[sophiecatharine]

Skype interviews are worse than telephone interviews....

[sophiecatharine]

Something is not quite right...

[sophiecatharine]

Telephone interviews are the worst possible thing ever

[tastefullyoffensive]

#TinyTrump is my new favorite meme.

[sophiecatharine]

Okay but as a white immigrant in a very white country with a lot of white privilege I have the honour of hearing people telling me about how 'all the immigrants are the ruining the country coming over here and taking our jobs' and then turning to them and saying 'I'm an immigrant, am I ruining the country to?' and then watching them try to crawl their way out of this hole theyve dug themselves into gasping for words and looking around for help

[sophiecatharine]

There's some sort of peacefulness in art galleries...

[sophiecatharine]

This is my soul and the world unwinding, This is my heart in the still winter air.

Emily St. John Mandel