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Hello everyone!! My name is Mochiithestar and I am very glad to meet you all!! 🍀

Here's a little "meet the artist" post to get to know about me !🌱

oh yeah, btw the tag "mochiiandthearts" is a personal tag i made for my drawings !!

#meet the artist #artists on tumblr #Spotify #mochiiandthearts

Without fail, every time a woman is talking about how she does not want to have children and never wants to be pregnant and how medical professionals, romantic interests and family members keep trying to bulldoze her decision and keep expecting her to change her mind because motherhood is something that is expected of all women and it is abhorrent to think a woman could not desire it, a random mother spawns in the comments to be like “Well, actually, you never know! I didn’t want children and then I got pregnant and I realized I love being a mama and I have five little babies now! Could happen to you! 🥰”

Sister, keep that to yourself or make your own goddamn post, you are ignoring that woman’s central concern and belittling her, you don’t even think you’re doing it. Formerly childfree women who ended up having children and loving it are like detransitioners in the sense that there is nothing inherently wrong with changing your mind about having children or realizing you were mistaken about your gender identity but immediately weaponizing your indecision to tell people that the barriers to healthcare and the violations of their bodily autonomy and the way society ignores that person’s wishes is actually okay because you were wrong. Some people do know themselves.

#YESSSS #FINALLY #truth nuke right here #i really love this one

starz4estrella

Nightly rituals 𝄞⨾𓍢ִ໋

A lot of girlys love a productive morning routine, but the real key to this is a good night routine .

Here are some steps you can implement into your evening/night !

Step 1 :

Setting the mood ⋆✴︎˚｡⋆

So turn on your led lights , light a candle, play some relaxing music, or listen to a good podcast . Whatever makes you feel best , I feel this helps me relax and feel at peace .

Step 2 :

Take care of yourself ⋆✴︎˚｡

Take a nice steamy shower, put your hair in rollers , do your skincare, and drink a big glass of water . You deserve it after a long day of being that girl .

Step 3 :

Write those thoughts away ⋆✴︎˚｡⋆

We want to start tomorrow on a clean slate . So journal about your day , what you're grateful for, or things you can work on . At the end, write a plan for tomorrow where you're going to shine like the it girl you are !

Step 4

Winding down ⋆✴︎˚｡⋆

Put on some cute pjs, do a facemask and watch you favourite show ( currently rewatching gossip girl x ) or read a good juicy book .

Sweet dreams

- E ✮

starz4estrella

The time is now ⋆｡°✩

We all think we have enough time and we're all guilty of it :

" I'll do it tomorrow,"

" I'll start over next week "

"I'll talk to them when im more confident "

But what this really is is your brain making excuses . Don't wait for the perfect moment or for you to be prepared because frankly, you never will .

What we do have is the present moment, and nothing else in the future is promised . This may sound a but depressing, but really, it's a good thing because it means we can start right now !

Which means :

☆ You can start working towards that goal right now

☆ You can start eating healthy right now

☆ You can tell that person you love them right now

☆ You can go talk to that friend group right now

☆ You can practice loving yourself right now

By doing this, you are fully embracing life as it is at the present moment instead of waiting . It's a really freeing concept to implement .

Even if you get rejected or it doesn't work out, it's much better than wasting your time wondering what could happen ?

Photos :

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