My first hex was done with pizza cafe chili flakes and I have zero regrets 🙂↕️
Just in case you don't know me , who am I ?
okay so. storytime. and yes I know how that title sounds. just bear with me.
so a couple weeks back I was sitting alone in a cafe. eating pizza. minding my business. had a call with my mom that did not go well, and I was sitting there trying very hard not to cry in public out of pure rage. not sadness. rage. there's a difference.
now for context - there is a person in my life who has genuinely, consistently, deliberately made things difficult for my family over a long period of time. I'm not going to get into details. just know that the anger I was sitting with in that cafe was not new. it was old. it was accumulated. it had been waiting.
so the pizza arrives right. and they give me these little packets. chili flakes. oregano. the usual.
I finish eating. and I'm sitting there with this plate of olives and capsicum and onions I'd separated out (I don't eat them). just. sitting there. pissed off. about to cry.
and something in me just went. oh...
I don't know how to explain the instinct. I have never hexed anyone in my life. I don't have a practice around cursework. I usually do self love , glamor , abundance spells , protection even .... But I hadn't planned this. something in me just KNEW what to do.
I channeled every single drop of that anger. looked at that little pile of food I didn't want. and I said something to the effect of - may woe be upon you (it was more specific and more rhythmic in the moment but you get the idea.)
then I sprinkled the chili flakes and oregano on top. dumped the whole thing in the trash.
The moment I did that my entire body relaxed. I'm not even kidding. it was IMMEDIATE. like a pressure valve releasing. my shoulders dropped. my chest cleared. my mind went quiet.
and then I started laughing. literally laughing to myself in a cafe. because thirty seconds ago I was fighting tears and now I felt. fine. light even.
So ...all I want to say is , SPELLS ARE EASY . You don't need some really big setups or detailed stuff (ofcourse if it's what you like , you're free to do so) -
Your emotions are energy. energy needs to move. when you're in a situation where you can't confront someone, can't fix something, can't do ANYTHING - your nervous system is still screaming for an outlet. Give it one.
it doesn't have to be elaborate. it doesn't have to be a full ritual with candles and sigils and a playlist (although if that's your thing, amazing, keep going). it can be cafe condiments and a trash can and thirty seconds of focused intention.
feel the emotion fully. name who or what it's for. give it physical form. release it.
then laugh or cry or do anything if you need to. that's just the energy clearing. it's normal.
one last thing - I'm not here to tell you hexing is good or bad or whether you should do it. that's between you and whatever you practice and whoever you worship. I'm just telling you what happened to me.
I walked into that cafe trying not to cry.
make of that what you will. 🌶️🗑️
