convincing an anti-feminist man that he’s actually a feminist because he believes in “the equality of the sexes” may seem like a victory, but in the end all you’ve done is convince a woman-hater that he’s a feminist.
My grandfather was a heavy smoker for forty two years. As soon as my mother told him I was on the way, he cried and attempted to quit smoking. He failed. Whenever I was with him, he would always tell me to never smoke a cigarette in my life. Just a few weeks ago, he lost his battle to lung cancer. I reflect on this as a now thirty two year old man. I now kind of wish I had taken up smoking, because this post gave me cancer anyways.



















