A thing I have noticed about myself is that I have a hard time imagining people going to events simply because I have a hard time bringing myself to go to events.
Whenever there is an event which in theory I consider going to, in my mind there is hardly anyone there, so why bother going in the first place?
And while the rational side of me is fully aware that this is not true and rather stupid to think, even the reports or insta posts afterwards which show that it was a sold-out event still don't prevent me from thinking "Who's going there anyway?" the next time I'd be interested to be at a reading, party, or concert.














