"So Bitter"

♡28♡She/Her♡Autistic♡NPD♡ASPD♡ Static: adj. "Lacking in movement, action, or change, especially in a way viewed as undesirable or uninteresting."

[staticc-love]

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♡Obligatory About Post♡

《Figured it was about time I made one if these.》

《You can call me Static. I don't vibe with the concept of gender for a multitude of reasons, but I use she/her Pronouns for comfort and convenience. Very much not cis tho.》

《This ostensibly started as a yancore blog to serve as a safe space for me to scream about my unrequited feelings for my Chosen Person™, and it definitely still is that to an extent (update: I've barely thought about her in over a year so that's an improvement), but after actually getting my bullshit properly diagnosed and now having a better understanding about why my brain is so fucked, this is also now just a general vent blog for anything relating to my NPD and ASPD. 》

《I'm a bit of a reclusive nocturnal weirdo who barely interacts with anyone outside of my internet cult primary social group that I've known for like a decade now. 》

《I also help admin an obsessive love support group with my friend @yandere-ai 》 (Both disappeared a while back ¯\_(ツ)_/¯)

《Standard DNI for anyone racist, sexist, transphobic, acephobic, or ableist etc etc etc. Pretty sure yall know the drill by now.》

《Please do interact if you also post about aspd, npd, obsessive love, or anything vaguely adjacent. I get supply from interaction, please validate me.》

《Oh also, this is a side blog so I follow back from my main blog, which I will not disclose here in case by some astronomical stroke of cosmic misfortune my ChP stumbles across this blog. 》

《So yeah. As you can see, I'm hilariously bad at talking about myself for someone who craves attention and being perceived lmao.》

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[purely-panic]

every time someone tells a person with a clusterb pd "you can't have that, you're so nice!" a thousand crows come and eat them alive

[antisocial-trans-lesbian]

BTW you can't pick and choose what disorders you support or don't, you have to support them or it just sanism abuse.

[charnel-grounds]

Randy Ortiz, “The Dance”

charcoal, pastel, and acrylic on art board, 2020

[rabbitology]

It feels like that, a lot of the time, the only way people with a cluster b disorder will be “valid” in the opinion of people without it is if we have empathy.

“People with a cluster b disorder aren’t bad people! They can still have empathy!” Okay and what if they don’t? What if they lack empathy and have bad behaviors? That doesn’t mean we should just be discarded and ignored just because of that.

Someone isn’t inherently a bad person if they have low empathy / completely lack it and I think making it a morally standing and believing that you’re somehow better than people who don’t have it simply for the fact you do is just wrong.

You are not a better/good person for having empathy, nor is someone a bad person for not having empathy.

[this-is-trans-joy]

I don’t know if this is an obvious take or a hot take, but I think people need to start re-framing feminism as the fight for body autonomy as opposed to whatever this second wave revival gender essentialist bullshit we have going on right now. Once you reframe it in this way, it’s easier to understand intersectionality and why cis women are not the only people who need feminism. The lack of body autonomy effects cis women, trans people, intersex people, disabled people, poc, homeless people, sex workers, etc. and your feminism needs to include and prioritise all of these groups of people (which will include men btw) because feminism is about autonomy, not about establishing a matriarchy. Body autonomy is the biggest threat to the patriarchy, both with reproductive rights, LGBTQ+ rights, and even the right to not be drafted into military services. Once body autonomy is established for everyone, the patriarchy no longer has a leg to stand on.

And body autonomy does include things that you don’t personally like either. I was prompted to write this post after a series of bad takes from progressives, but one of them was re-hashing the Sabrina Carpenter album cover drama with “I don’t think it’s conservative of me to think that the album cover is a bad look when we’ve seen images of women being abused in this way” because I do actually think you’ve failed to understand feminism by projecting your morals onto a woman who was consensually expressing her own autonomy just because she expressed it in a way that you didn’t like or that made you uncomfortable.

Body autonomy also means unhealthy choices. Body autonomy also means regret rates. Body autonomy also means freedom of sexuality. Body autonomy also means mutilation. If you believe body autonomy has limitations and exceptions, then your feminism is most likely surface level.

TERFs are some of the biggest opponents to body autonomy, and if you find yourself thinking “oh people can do whatever they want with their bodies as long as it doesn’t harm them or make others uncomfortable” then you are far more susceptible to TERF propaganda than you think.

[spicymotte]

reminder for myself when I feel bad about making the same OC over and over again

[d-floe]

[frogribbit]

i wish people would stop romanticizing not eating breakfast and not getting enough sleep and being dependent on coffee to function and always being in a bad mood and treating yourself poorly because that behavior is very unhealthy for you

[fiereysky]

”Hello able bodied/neurotypical person. In front of you is a person who requires medication in order to function. Your task is to listen to them talk about how this medication has improved their life without accusing them of addiction. If you fail, one thousand spiders will be sent to your exact location. Your time begins now.”

[fairycosmos]

did you know that apparently if you try to act normal the normalness doesn't come through but the acting does. and did you know apparently everyone can smell this on you like a bloodhound

[prosthetic-placebo]

[jeroenapers]

NON SIGN II is een reclamebord gemaakt in 2010 door Lead Pencil Studio en is gelegen op de grens tussen Canada en de VS, naast een snelweg. Het bestaat uit duizenden roestvrijstalen staven.

[v-lagopus]

“NON SIGN II is a billboard created in 2010 by Lead Pencil Studio and is located on the Canada-US border, next to a highway. It consists of thousands of stainless steel rods.”

[dollbandcry]

how do people hatewatch things, i can barely find the time to read and watch all the things i actively want to, how the fuck are you putting time aside to watch an entire season of dogshit telly thats just gonna make you mad

[maive-the-sheep]

Researchers on aspd: we have noticed those with aspd aren't influenced to lower behavior by positive and negative punishment.

Me: so are you going to instead show multiple paths for their actions based on motivations and do positive and negative reinforcement to encourage better options?

Researchers: we recommend longer prison sentence and prevention of mental hospital.

Me:...why?

[imjunebitch]

its awesome that u now understand gender isn't binary yay awesome but u do understand its not like trinary either right like it isn't, man, woman, third option nonbinary. right? like its more complex than that and there are countless ways to experience gender. you get that right? right? and you also understand that sex isn't binary either, right? please? please tell me you understand that?

[perrfectly]