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Them: So you’re just gonna love yourself? Like all of you? The flaws too?

Me:

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If you’d have sex with me but not take me out for dinner, unfollow me.

If you’d private message me about my ‘gorgeous’ body but ignore me at a bar, unfollow me.

If you’d ask for my nudes but laugh at fat jokes with your friends, unfollow me.

If you’re only attracted to me because you fetishise the size of my body, unfollow me.

If you’re following me because you think fat girls have low self esteem and are easy targets, unfollow me.

If you’d ‘settle’ for a fat girl but believe you ‘deserve better’, unfollow me.

If you don’t believe fatshaming is a problem in our society, unfollow me.

If you believe all fat people are unhealthy, unfollow me.

If you believe fat people should be denied healthcare, unfollow me.

If you’ve ever told a fat person ‘you’ve got such a pretty face, you’d be stunning if you lost some weight’, unfollow me.

Fat does not mean inferior.

Fat does not mean unattractive. Fat does not mean unconfident.

Fat does not mean unhealthy.

Fat means fat. Nothing else.

pudinzinhosthings

Pegou? Deixa o like 💚

chubby-bunnies

Getting my look together for new years eve..! #makeup #fatbabe #motd #plussize #fat#fatandhappy #effyourbeautystandards #cuteaf #onfleek #99problemsbutmycurvesaintone #jeffreestarvelourliquidlipstick #bigandblunt #whatfatgirlsactuallywear #makeuponfleek #yassss (at Mooresville, North Carolina)

#cuteaf #makeuponfleek #fat #fatandhappy #bigandblunt #motd #fatbabe #onfleek #yassss #whatfatgirlsactuallywear #makeup #jeffreestarvelourliquidlipstick #plussize #effyourbeautystandards #99problemsbutmycurvesaintone

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• she’s pretty for a fat girl

• she’s pretty for a dark girl

• she’s pretty for a disabled girl

• she’s pretty for a ____ girl

Stop doing this, she’s just PRETTY

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Reminder

• Everyone comes in different shapes and sizes. • Just because you don’t look like that model in the magazine, doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful. • There is a whole industry making major money off you disliking your body. • You’re allowed to wear what you like regardless of what other people think or say. • Everyone has stretch marks, cellulite, marks, or blemishes. You are not abnormal. • Your inner beauty is visible to me from your outside. When you are confident in yourself, it shows. • Keep doing you, and remember there is no “one way” to be beautiful. Stay strong

ithelpstodream

fuwaprince

chubby gals are absolutely stunning!

micdotcom

A lingerie store was told to remove ads with disabled and plus-size models. It refused — and won.

Shouldn’t a lingerie boutique be able to celebrate the diversity of its customers without controversy?

In February, Georgia lingerie boutique Livi Rae Lingerie’s owners Molly Hopkins and Cynthia Decker launched an in-store campaign featuring a diverse array of women, like Tisa Edge, a woman of color; Stacey Shortley, who uses a wheelchair; and plus-size models Marie Layne and Bubble Bordeaux.

All the women were decked out in Livi Rae lingerie. Read more. (3/15/2017 10:03 AM)

spoonofconsciousness

#SelfLoveSunday

How To Be Attractive

Whether you think you are ugly or attractive - you’re right. The perception we hold of ourselves dictates the way others perceive us. The vibration you give out into the universe determines who and what you attract to you. If you maintain the belief that you are ugly - you will see this manifest in your life.

Changing the perception you have of yourself is the key to changing the way others perceive you. The universe understands what state of mind you are embodying - not what you want others to think of you. If you want others to perceive you as attractive - you must first hold this perception of yourself.

Easier said than done, right? Of course, because those who consider themselves to be attractive are seen as “full of themselves”. This is an interesting saying because it illustrates the fact that these people have filled their own cups instead of seeking their fulfilment from the outside world.

Having confidence about one’s own looks can be difficult in a world where we’re surrounded by media imposing their views on how we’re “supposed to look” to be considered attractive. I have seen that comparing myself to people in magazines, advertisements or TV shows is irrelevant.

The overwhelming majority of these people are promoted to us as the “ideal” so that we begin to doubt ourselves. This self-doubt is exploited so that companies can sell us products to look more like those considered attractive. Make-up, supplements, accessories, jewellery - these are just a few examples.

Regardless of your looks - there’s one key attribute that you must embody if you would like to feel attractive and that’s confidence. Loving yourself first signifies to the universe that you are embodying the love vibration - which you will see reflected outside of you in those you meet & how they respond to you.

The greatest way to doubt yourself is by comparison to others.

Peace & positive vibes.