[stigmasochist]

I bought so many different kinds of weed this last 4/20 and after several high experiments i can now say i have at least one definitive "slutweed"

[samsketchbook]

Dear and sweet friends getting closer all time. Hurting is so much lighter when you’re near me, says Vulture Pony to Gut Baby, with not her words but her many little legs. Thank you thank you thank you

[sapphling]

just saw an entire thread of people sincerely describing a content creator's pattern of posting a large amount of content and then taking breaks as "obviously grooming her audience" via "love bombing and ghosting" which i think could have been a really exciting innovation during the steven universe discourse era of tumblr

[machinot]

*clueless guy in 2006 voice* that iPhone? What a piece of junk. People are never gonna use a phone without a keyboard. I wish there was a way I could be a girl

[stuckinapril]

No exaggeration but theeeee most critical lesson I learned in my 20s was letting go when it was time. It’s so cliche but it’s so true. I used to hold on so venomously to people, put on a tap dance for their approval, force relationships to last past their expiration date, carry the heavy lifting for reaching out because I didn’t want to feel “passive.” But when someone doesn’t want your effort it’s not about passivity. It’s literally about self respect, not wasting your time, and gravitating only to people who have your best interest in mind and celebrate you. I’ve met so many older people who don’t know how to let go and it truly scares me that this could easily be me. It’s better to develop this skill early than it is to spend an entire lifetime begging for love and belonging.

[looaaddddd]

[cuteyahooanswers]

2012-09-13

You are not your body, you are not the brain, you are not the ideas and memories etc., YOU ARE “LIFE” Itself

[adelelfvr]

when your guardian angel quits 💧

[digihowl]

more ppl need to get hooked on this drug called album in order. not enough people on album in order these days

[parkchanwoohoo]

Two vtubers I have never heard of have simultaneously posted google docs calling each other out and both showed up on my feed at once so while I do not condone this one bit I am nevertheless scrolling through both side by side at once

[parkchanwoohoo]

I will not be putting these people on blast I will not be sharing who these people are!!

I love the Google Doc Callout because it's such a delightfully stupid modern day phenomenon borne not merely from inability to hash out interpersonal disputes in private but the cloying need to have an entire audience on one's side to validate one's feelings. Months and months of pent up anger and insecurity finally exploding in one cathartic, incoherent 200 page document where you have to simultaneously contextualize your friendship and defend your position because somehow this is easier than you and another person just sitting down and going "Hey. This made me uncomfortable, can we talk about it?" (And of course nowadays, disagreements are a numbers game. The correct party is whoever has the most people in support of them)

I also feel like this is a natural byproduct of what happens when you and your friendship gets publicized even within a small online sphere where interpersonal disputes aren't allowed to remain private, because everybody feels bafflingly entitled to knowing the details (specifically, who is The Bad Guy in the dispute, because there must be one). I understand that when you have a spotlight on you, no matter how small, there is a pressure to vomit out an explanation about why you are no longer talking to this person and why you're in the right for it. And when both of you have access to the same free Google Suite, obviously there's a need to rush and get your own document out asap because God forbid the other person pulls the trigger first.

It's sad! It's silly. This helps nobody. Nobody is combing through the evidence both sides provide and trying to meaningfully parse who the "correct" party is because your "audience" is not a jury, the evidence provided is skewed to start, and the only people really going through them are people who've already made up their minds or nosy bad-faith shitheads who treat it like overhearing a fight on the subway (me). (I do not pretend to be better than this, btw: I am fully aware I am part of the audience that has gathered to watch the public dissolution of a friendship that didn't need to be public. My one defense is I've no interest in sharing who these people are)

[falsity555-deactivated20251002]

EMBRACE PROFOUND PLATONIC DEVOTION

[sharkdogmedia]

blissed out on imperfections

[hyenagirlpenis]

Say, "I deserve it." Very good. Say it again. Again.

Now say, "I love being treated like this." Stop fucking crying. Look at me. Say it with me: "I. Love. Being. Treated. Like. This."

Very good. You love being treated like this? Yeah? Say it. That's right, you do. You're doing so good for me.

All right, look at me. Focus. You ready for another? Say, "I want more."

Say it. "I want more." Good. Say, "I deserve it." Tell me you love being treated like this. You want more. Again. From the top. Again.

Breathe through it, you can keep going. Again. Don't stop, I'll be done soon. Keep going. Again.

Again.

[soppingwetratboy]

Being told what to do is great because then you know what to do

[inlovewiththemooon]

Roots of desire. My nervous system

[evergreen-femme]

most controversial statement of all time apparently: trans women and cis women are the same gender

[klapollo]

almost seven years deep into the 2020s this feels less like a retrospective evaluation and more like a prophetic vision