You donât have to be a cutthroat scandalous woman in order to be a genuine gold digger.
Most of the true gold diggers I know are the nicest, sweetest, most charismatic women you would ever want to meet.
In the Slums and Ghettos, the poorest of the poor are doing things to their neighbor you wouldnât do to a stray dog. So when people say things like âpeople with money are evil, corrupt, cold and heartlessâ you know thats only BS the broke people say to make themselves feel better and justify their lack of ambition to make something better out of their lives
Donât be a people pleaser, especially when the people you are trying to please arenât doing anything for you or looking for your best interest.
âSuccess is a great deodorant. It takes away all your past smells.â Once youâre up in a mansion or on an exclusive Island, would you really still care what people would say about you? Thatâs the point.
Donât be apologetic because guys out there will not be apologetic for trying to have sex with you once they find out youâre an easy target or sucker for love.Â
They will not be apologetic for taking advantage of your fragile state. They will not be apologetic for using you and moving on
2. Change Your Environment
When women are broke together, they get into all kinds of immoral activity. They get high and casually sleep with all kinds of guys. But all of a sudden, when one person tries to break out of the mold and do something different and better themselves away from the pack these friends start preaching morality.
Women who escaped their poverty circles always had to stay low key with their game in order to avoid the negative backlash
It is lonely at the top but it is jam-packed at the bottom. Remember its better to be envied than pitied.
Gold diggers do not have pity-parties. Misery loves company, but gold diggers will have none of that.Â
A true gold digger has nothing to complain about because sheâs getting hers.Â
You are going to be the one on vacation, you are going to be the one traveling the world, you are going to be the one living the lavish life yourself. You wonât have time to talk about somebody else living that lifestyle.
In many cases, poor people procreate with other poor people, therefore they never break the cycle of poverty that goes on for generation after generation.
Rich people know how to nurture and breed family bloodlines of wealth like thoroughbred horses.Â
This is how they stayed rich for generation after generation after generation. They understood the concept of assets on assets. Try to become an asset.Â
Go to upscale places, hang out around upscale people in upscale places. If you can place yourself there physically, you will get there mentally and ultimately financially.
Just get into the dating scene with rich guys to be around that wealthy vibe, to learn from them, and to make contacts through them.Â
Youâll learn how to deal with rich guys and youâll learn how to be an asset when that one Prince Charming does come into your life and you want to have that long-lasting relationship.
3. Get in the right energy
Think about success all the time. Think about being a winner all the time.
If you donât have that winning mentality, youâre not going to appreciate what you get, simply because you donât appreciate what you have.
It is very important to speak highly of people. It is very important to have a positive outlook about life, about everything.
You donât want to project a negative aura. When people see that, they loose interest in you.
You want to at least appear to be as positive as possible. Â A woman who has a good vibe and good energy is infectious and people want to be around her.
Successful men conduct business in large part by being charismatic and impressing others. Often they want a woman whoâs the same way.
When your target is trying to enlighten you on something, you want to show that you appreciate and respect him. You donât want to play dumb, but being ditzy in a subtle way works countless times.
The way to learn the lifestyle is to re-invent and rebuild yourself from scratch.Â
Youâve got to get rid of the old, meek you and transform into a brand new gold digging seductress.
Women who live out their entire lives in safe situations, only dreaming one life âon the other sideâ. Some of them try to explore the other side in secret. But this tends to be half-assedÂ
You get in what you put out of a situation. I you put half-assed energy into the game, youâre going to get half-assed results
You have to like what you do. You have to be addicted to the thrill of the hustle.
The biggest mistake women make when theyâre dealing with POTS is that they try to deal with all these guys the same way. Thatâs like playing lottery when it comes to dating.
Every target is a custom job. You have to be a chameleon with your game.
Youâll have to be able to adapt to the game that the guy is using towards you.Â
A good gold digger knows how to adapt to any man and any surroundingÂ
when you date, do not think that your only job is to look pretty. If thatâs the only asset youâre bringing to the table, at some point in time youâre going to be replaced.Â
Being a pretty woman with a lot of game to back up your looks will get you in the door and keep you in the game.Â
A lot of rich guys assume that most women out there who try to step to them are selfish. You have to prove otherwise.Â
But if you can come across as a selfless humanitarian, or as someone who cares about the environment and what goes on in the world, your target will respect that. It will lower his defenses.
If you want to live in a castle, you have to look like a princess.Â
You canât have a low budget look trying to get wealthy men. You really have to invest in yourself.Â
When your targets see that you invest in yourself and take care of yourself, theyâre going to want to continue the process as well.Â
If heâs financially disciplined, he wants a woman whoâs at the very least physically disciplined.
White clothes give off the illusion of wealth and success even if you are not rich. wear as many white outfits as you can.Â
Wealthy men do notice a a woman shoes and look at the style of shoe a woman is wearing.Â
When wealthy men see that you have nice shoes, it tells them that you take time out to take care of your feet.Â
The subconscious correlation men will make is that youâre going to take that same care and dedication with other parts of your body and by extension, with other people.
More than that, shoes and feet are an aphrodisiac to men. When they see women in heels, they zone in on the way they walk, and how graceful their stride is.Â
the best way to walk in high-heeled shoes without them hurting your feet is to walk one foot in front of the other. That will help alleviate the pain and it will give you a graceful, sophisticated look. That will help you look more thorough in the game.
Excellent places where you can meet rich men is are upscale hair salons, high end shoe stores , expensive restaurants and golf
You can have the whole damsel-in-distress thing going on, and wealthy men will be glad to show you and teach you how to play golf. They love helping a little lady learn the ropes of the game. This is also a great opportunity for a conversation starter as well. If you want to be a good gold digger, definitely take up golf.Â
Happy hour at an upscale hotel is another great place to meet wealthy men. Every city has at least one or two upscale hotels. There are cities with several upscale hotels. You can go there during happy hour, either alone or with a friend, just to wind down and have a drink.Â
The hotel bar is a great place to rub elbows with the upper crust in your neighborhood or city.Â
In many of these places you wonât even have to strike up the conversation yourself. Just by positioning yourself in these locations, many guys will simply step to you.Â
Itâs really about timing and positioning yourself strategically in the right locations.Â
Just getting to a spot and being in the right place at the right time is about eighty percent of the game. The rest should fall into place.Â
In order to participate at an exotic car event, one has to have serious money to have a car to get into one of these races. For wealthy men, itâs like a hobby to them. Women donât generally know about this. This is a great little secret of the gold digging game.
One thing you want to look at are a manâs hand. If you see a man with a manicure that means that he likes to present himself in a certain way.Â
Look at those fingernails. When you see a guy with nice hands that shows that heâs not doing manual labor. Most millionaires just donât do manual labor. They have other guys doing the grunt work
Avoid guys who are too flashy. Most guys who dress in gaudy outfits and trying to display money, are not really rich.
Wealthy men dress clean and theyâre well groomed, but the donât wear loud colors and donât display over the top jewelry.
The casually dressed guy sitting at the bar could be an undercover millionaire. There are targets who purposely dress down and drive an average looking car to hide their wealth.
Follow them around town and see where they hang out. They might be driving that bucket to the yacht club. They might spread their wealth in several different banks and investment houses.
Fake Watch? The second hand of a genuine Rolex watch does not tick. In most watches, the second hand will tick. The Rolex hand floats, it never ticks
Protect your reputation. For a Gold Digger, being labeled a slut is career ending!Â
When you just meet a guy, and he wants to immediately take you on a vacation within the first few days of knowing you, that should send you a red flag.
He knows that once youâre away from whatâs familiar to you, youâre going to be a little more vulnerable.Â
You donât want to have sex too soon because the minute you do, you donât have anything left to bargain with. You donât want to put yourself out there like that.Â
When you go on vacation with a target immediately after meeting him, you have to dust off the old school, âItâs that time of the monthâ lineÂ
You do not want to flat-out reject your target because that will leave a negative vibe. You want to be able to do it in such a way that your target will come back wanting you more.Â
Remember: As a true to the game gold digger, youâve got to be subtle in the way you do things.Â
Letâs say a target wants you to spend the night with him at his home. You never want to say, âHell no, Iâd never do that.â You never want to diss the gentleman. You want to play it real cool.Â
For example, you can say something like, âI have to respectfully decline.âÂ
The reason why you donât want to blatantly reject targets is because a lot of these guys think with their egos. As a gold digger, you want to cater to and stroke their egos. You want to make them feel manly.Â
Donât think with your own ego, because these guys will sit up and tell you that youâre the best thing since sliced bread, only to tell you the next day, âIâm done with you. Iâve got a new girlfriend.âÂ
Part of the sugar daddy game is theyâll offer to get you a nice house, theyâll offer to get you a car, or something else of prime importance. Sugar daddies make it all seem like you have them wrapped around your finger.Â
Unfortunately, the opposite is true: Theyâre getting you wrapped around their fingers. Thatâs the trick a lot of women donât know about. Once you get into that house, once you get into that car, youâre under their command.Â
A true to the game gold digger is always in control of the game. You let him think that heâs in control, but you always run the show as a true gold diggerÂ
Donât ever let a target manipulate or pressure you into any situation. No matter how much money they give you, never let a target use money to control you.
Always Come Across As Being Unattainable
You want your target to pursue you. You want to have your target earn you. You want your target to court you. The reason is a simple one: People value what they work for.Â
if you go to a restaurant and the food is a hundred dollars a plate, psychologically youâre going to think that the food is better because itâs more high-priced.Â
You want to come across as being unattainable, like youâre not quite ready for a serious relationship.Â
You have to be courted into a relationship, slowly, gradually. Your time is such where you seem a little too busy to spend with your target. You always want to keep your target chasing.
He has to know that you are a high maintenance young lady. If you come across as low budget, heâs going to treat you like youâre low budget.Â
Wealthy guys are going to test you. Some of these targets are going to try to play you like youâre beneath them.Â
You have to step up to the plate and let them know that youâre high maintenance and that theyâll have to continue to treat you like youâre high maintenance
No matter how smoothly and subtly you work it, you want to be stern and still get your point across.
When you have a sense of discipline, you will be able to control your actions and not let your actions control you.Â
Youâve got to be very disciplined when it comes to dealing with your targets, because theyâre going to try to impress you, theyâre going to wine and dine you. Theyâre also going to test you and see how weak you are, theyâre going to try to see what moves and motivates you, theyâre working really hard to see your Achillesâ heel.Â
Youâre going to have to stand strong and not be swayed by any of the wealth you see before you. You canât be thrown off your game by any sexual chemistry you and your target may both have.Â
wealthy men like the challenge. If you can show that you can go toe to toe with the best of them without breaking down or giving in, the payoff will be worth it.
âfamiliarity breeds contempt.â When people get too used to you, they almost develop a certain level of disdain.Â
you do want to be unpredictable. You change your patterns every now and then.Â
This could be as simple as switching hobbies. You can rearrange your daily routine. You can change your look. It could be something as subtle as that.Â
If youâre used to going to the mall everyday, at the same time of day, think about heading for the gym instead.Â
There are all kinds of little things you can do to switch up the pace and throw your target off-guard. That way, he wonât be able to simply put you in a box.Â
When they think they know you, turn left and go the other way. You always want to keep them on their toes.Â
Itâs like putting together a puzzle. When youâre working a puzzle, youâre intrigued by that puzzle because youâre trying to figure it out. Once you put the puzzle together, youâre not intrigued anymore. You have it figured out.
As a gold digger, you want to keep adding pieces to the puzzle so your target will never fully figure you out.Â
Change your demeanor and attitude. One day, act totally happy-go-lucky. The next day, you have a dead-serious look on your face.
Source: âThe Art of Gold Diggingâ by Tariq Rasheed
