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Sugaring in SoCal No BS, just commentary

[sunset-sugar]

Guess who’s back on the bowl honeys 😈💖

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Quick question- since when are these men out here with the narrative “send me a blue message or we aren’t speaking”??? Like??? The audacity?? 🙄

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Getting Started/ Back into the Game

Finding a solid SD is hard. Especially for me since I have a lot of time constraints. You have to play the interview game a lot in this stage and it sucks, but it doesn’t have to! I look for 3 things in a profile in order to determine if a POT is worthy of escalation to off-site communication:

1. Pics. Are they recent? Am I attracted to them?

2. Is their profile filled out and well-written? Doesn’t have to be a novel, but this is where you can tell the MOST about someone before you engage. Even if a guy is my type and interested, if his profile gives away that he doesn’t know what he’s doing/hasn’t done this before or that there’s a reason we wouldn’t vibe- I’m out.

3. Did they message me or favorite me? It is very rare I’ll initiate with a POT. I don’t recommend never initiating- especially if you are a full time sb! But in my situation, I need to be pursued to make it worth my time. It usually decreases the chance of the POT being flaky.

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Every time a new SD messages me on Seeking:

Me seeing they have no pics or profile info:

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Hey there guess who’s back 🎀

Unfortunately SD BF and I are on the outs. Not totally broken up but not together. It’s been hard but it’s also gotten me back out there dating and I just missed the sugar life tbh.

Now I’ve just started talking to a few POTs. Some more promising than others. Taking it very relaxed this time since I’ve got a serious day job. I’ll probably settle down with one or two SD’s until BF and I figure our shit out.

[sunset-sugar]

Hey, it’s been a while.

I’m off the scene. Have been for about a year. Now I’m just part spoiled gf part exec boss lady. *shrug*

BF started as a SD but we quickly knew it was gonna be more than that. He’s honestly like a 20/10 fuck. Actual best I’ve ever had far and away, and biggest too. Honestly couldn’t be happier and not bothered by a thing.

My advice to the lads, ladies, and they-dies, that find this blog is to really fucking PROTECT YOURSELVES if you get into sugaring. I had AWFUL experiences I never posted or talked about that I’m still recovering from over a year later. Because I was stupid and self-destructive and didn’t care. Well, I’m telling you to care! Give a Fuck about yourself or at least your future self! Protect that bitch! Don’t let anyone convince you you are less than or treat you badly. No matter what your situation! There are always more fish in the bowl honey, and they probably pay better too. 💕 If you need me, just call 💋 -SS

[thatgirlupstairs]

Zurich, Switzerland

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[bustnuttington-deactivated20151]

no one ever wants to mention that marsha p johnson was also a sex worker no one ever wants to acknowledge that sex workers have always been on the frontline of most radical historical movements

[rohgoreihgiorefdhgirehgreihg-de]

miss major and sylvia rivera were also sex workers and all of them used money from their sex work to keep lgbt kids from homelessness

[somethingaboutsomethingelse]

Brenda Howard, the mother of Pride, was also a sex worker. Sex workers (particularly trans and bi sex workers) were instrumental to forming the modern queer and LGBTQ+ liberation front. If your praxis and activism doesn’t include and uplift sex workers and sex worker rights, then it’s nothing more than a sham.

[yekkes]

Brenda Howard was also a bisexual Jewish woman

[4i20]

[chokedoutdoll-deactivated202309]

make me feel perfect daddy

[sunset-sugar]

Sooo should I make an OnlyF4ns??

Lmk what you think/if you have one and what it’s like/etc.

I just need more of a bag 😩

[arichblessingtoyourlife]

Snap out of it and focus on your goal. Remember who the fuck you are and what you set out to achieve and experience. Keep it going👏🏼

[sunset-sugar]

💕🌸💖💘Remember honeys, all work under capitalism is exploitation, even sex work💓💝🎀🦋

[chubb-e-cheese]

A woman’s body is just made to be worshipped I’m sorry I don’t make the rules

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Me when my sugar daddies are acting up: My executives are dysfunctioning

[hermajestyimher]

I Affirm:

The woman I’m becoming is determined, resourceful, purposeful and capable. I will remain focused unwaveringly to which ever goal I set myself and I will not cease until I get to my desired destination.

[lovejacee]

Sis you’re somebody’s prayer. You better not beg for love.