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Due to personal reasons I will be loving myself with my whole heart
the day is gonna end anyway and your warm bed will be waiting so you might as well do the hard things and not let them ruin your day
this is unironically how I push myself to do everything I dread
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be proud of your empathy
being empathetic is often associated with being sensitive and all of it treated as a negative trait in this 'big bad world'.
empathy, however, gives you the ability to understand and process emotions. not just your own but those of others as well. yes, you are sensitive, but who says that has to be a bad thing?
your sensitivity and understanding of perspectives is your strength. let it grow. make it your own. let yourself feel ✨
complimenting random people is so much fun. today i told a girl she had the kind of beauty you only see in old paintings of gods and goddesses and she was so happy she almost started crying. Like once you get past the embarrassment and realize that we're all only here for such a short time so we might as well be nice to each other, its the highlight of ur day
I wish boobs were detachable. Because sometimes I want to look like a genderless being, other times the outfit needs boobs.
Bro SAME😭
I would love it if boobs were detachable to extremes that I cannot explain.
Someday you will look back and see that the mistakes were just part of the process, part of the story. You don't have to catastrophize to learn. In fact, you may learn better when you're not torturing yourself. Perhaps self-reflection does not have to mean self-flagellation. It is okay and normal to need time to learn.
2026 !!!!!!!!!!!
when not to think about the passage of time/your life:
- sundays
- end of the year
- your bday/the days leading up to it
and if you’re like me and your birthday is at the end of the year please just stop thinking in general
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Due to personal reasons I will be loving myself with my whole heart
Hello everyone,
It is December, and I can’t recall the moment time began to run swift as wind, quiet as dusk. Suddenly I’m less present here than I once was, suddenly I’m doing better than before yet sometimes, I crumble into the worst version of myself.
I ask the world to be gentle, to hold me softly, but some days I still find myself weeping into my own hands.
There are mornings when I play a happy song, let the rhythm guide my feet, and dance my way down the street while strangers stare but I don’t mind, because for a moment I feel alive.
And there are times I do not want to exist in the noise of everything, but more than that I want to live. Live slowly, live beautifully, live happily, even if life moves in the blink of an eye.
Tomorrow, I turn twenty-seven.
It’s a strange feeling, as it always is because the younger version of me never pictured reaching this place, this age, this self.
But I am happy.
Twenty-six was a wild, uneven ride beginning with eating grapes under the table for luck, and ending with me sitting alone at my desk, the night before everything changed, thinking about life and how far I’ve come.
I hope twenty-seven is kind. I hope it is soft. I hope I find love in the world, in the people I meet, in the hobbies that hold me.
I hope I greet each morning with a smile wide enough to welcome joy back in.
I hope I grow better, not bitter; brighter, not smaller.
And I hope, above all, that I hold my dreams as gently as they hold me.
Here’s to twenty-seven to becoming, to healing, to living.
god i'm so tired of everybody's bad faith interpretations of everything. where's the trust. where's the forgiveness. where's the understanding that most things are complex and most people have many layers. and like the black eyed peas once said. where is the love
Sometimes you meet someone, and it’s so clear so immediately that the two of you, on some level, belong together. As lovers, or as friends, or as family, or as something entirely different. You just work, whether you’re in love or creating things together or foxhole buddies or partners in crime. It’s so clear, right off the bat, that this is what you’re supposed to be doing, that this is what you’re for. You meet these people throughout your life, out of nowhere, under the strangest of circumstances, and they help you make a life. I don’t know if that makes me believe in coincidence, or fate, or sheer blind luck, but. It definitely makes me believe in something.
imagine if people actually took romantic consent seriously. wouldn't it be fucking awesome. i know they never will, but just. take a moment and imagine it with me
no more "just give them a chance, maybe you'll end up liking them!", no more "if you're going to reject someone, at least apologize to them!", no more shaming people for breaking up/divorcing, no more demonizing people for rejecting other peoples' romantic advances, no more shoving romance in romance repulsed peoples' face on purpose to provoke us, no more "i know we agreed to just be friends with benefits, but i thought you were going to fall in love with me eventually!", no more "i can fix them" when the only thing "wrong" with them is that they want to fuck without dating.
wouldn't it be nice?
A friend I used to hang out with every week once confessed his feelings for me, which I didn't reciprocate. I wanted to stay friends, didn't see why we couldn't, we had been friends the whole time without any romance, why did that have to change? but he decided to stop hanging out with me.
I was heartbroken and felt tossed aside. I didn't understand why our friendship wasn't worth anything to him if he couldn't have me romantically or sexually. I felt betrayed and dehumanised, like I didn't matter to him as a person but only as a romantic prospect.
When I told other friends about it, to my surprise they all sided with him. "He is heartbroken, it's hard to get rejected" even my THERAPIST said this. It's not like I didn't empathize with him, but wasn't I rejected too? No one else could see that but me, they placed me as some sort of villain that had power over him in that situation, when all I did was set a boundary between friendship and romance. All I did was not consent to the terms he wanted for our relationship, I rejected them, my terms were different and he rejected those.
I've had my heart broken by friends over and over and it hurt the same, if not more, than any romantic heartbreak. Why is friendship undervalued next to romantic feelings?
To be honest, to this day I'm still pissed that no one sided with me on this. There's so much unraveling that needs to get done around how we view different relationships in our lives, and I feel like most people can't even scratch the surface when it comes to this questioning.
Hey as someone who has spent a lifetime just "giving them a chance" its not worth it, love yourself
im also sick and tired of seeing my friends ending up finding out that someone they thought they were friends with, was only friends with them so they could eventually end up dating. it happened to one of my sisters constantly throughout high school, even when she was in a very happy relationship with her now-husband. people would yell at her for "toying with their emotions" when she wasn't doing anything of the sort, she simply didn't want to date or sleep with her friends. people called her all kinds of names for that. not just the guys she rejected, but other kids at school, other girls her age who would call her a whore because a teenage girl friends with a bunch of guys must be sleeping with them, right? (even if she was, that'd still be morally neutral but i digress). people just couldn't fathom that she wasn't interested in any of them. one guy pretended to be both of our friend, only to try and get with both of us - one right after the other. another guy became really close with me in attempt to get closer to my sister and ended up really hurting me - which ended up really pissing her off - in the process. all of this is just ONE example of ONE person i know that this has happened to a lot. i have countless others but this reblog is already so long. the point is, nobody should ever feel like their friends are only there to get something out of them. nobody should have to justify why they don't want to be with somebody. nobody should be treated like a commodity to be bought over or won, just to be discarded because they didn't win their imaginary auction.
HOW TO FEEL YOUR FEELINGS, 2021, by Yumi Sakugawa