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Sooty, English, her/she. Welcome traveller

[spacecat24-7]

unironically I will block you for saying “my Shayla” about your blorbo. The meme came from people mocking a Black man for crying for his daughter. When you say that about a sketch of Skinny White Dude #27 you are treating Black pain as a joke. I want to assume most people don’t know the context and wouldn’t use it if they did but too many of yall straight up do not care and would keep using it anyways

either way now you do know, so you can either be better or shut the fuck up

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’m getting a lot of people on that post I made about minding your own business who don’t seem to understand what BDSM is

[what-even-is-thiss]

They seem to be under the impression that it’s all like 50 year old men beating up teenage girls during sex or something and I don’t like BDSM and even I know that’s not generally what’s going on in there

[what-even-is-thiss]

Also them saying that any pain caused to your body is trauma or something even if you wanted it. Like if I smack my own ass just because I feel like it is that traumatic? Am I not allowed to slap my own ass now?

[what-even-is-thiss]

Is this the kind of world we want to live in? A world where we as free thinking rational adults are not allowed to smack our own asses? I will not stand for this.

[maryellencarter]

What BDSM is, fundamentally, is a way to turn the slow tigers into fast tigers.

Often with sex! But sex or no sex, it's about *feeling things* in a controlled and safe way, things that you wouldn't normally have a way to feel.

You know how the slow tigers post is like "clench your whole body up real tight and then let the tension out"? A lot of bondage is just doing exactly that, but giving you something to struggle against so you can get more tension out.

And because most of the stress we're all under at all times while living under late-stage capitalism is psychological, the whole spectrum of domination and sadism and masochism and roleplay gives people a way to... functionally, to clench up their brain *and* body, often in really specific scenarios that can be designed to fit exactly what's wrong, and release a whole lot of tension at once. It can be like the psychological equivalent of cracking your back.

(Sex is a really good source of relaxing neurotransmitters too. Which is one reason so much of BDSM is sexual. You incorporate all of that into a scene that's exactly tailored to what you need, and it's going to be like "I think a session in the Pear Wiggler would fix me" levels of realignment.)

[sata-cable]

[super-sootica]

[iteh3xael]

When I say Brainrot I don’t just mean B/Zoomers who can’t read anymore because of stupid memes. I think this shit about Gen X AUTHORS who unironically post this and expect it to be received normally

[super-sootica]

the rage this fills me with

[papayajuan2019]

there's a new social cue coming out. no we're not telling you about it

[tysonfurybattlepass]

the only bad part about going to the zoo is hearing adult men confidently tell their kids or gfs objectively incorrect information about the animals we’re looking at and having to remain silent. do u know the restraint it takes to say nothing when a grown adult man tells someone “falcons are in the same family as eagles” next to me? no babygirl. no.

[tysonfurybattlepass]

fyi falcons are not closely related to other birds of prey (hawks/eagles/buzzards). falcons are actually parrots that minmaxed for a glass cannon dps build.

[tysonfurybattlepass]

assault parrots, if you will

[crocanti]

[notaplaceofhonour]

girl unhinge ur jaw

[notaplaceofhonour]

UNCLENCH. I MEANT UNCLENCH

[super-sootica]

girls be like

[dacuala]

why is trespassing not allowed. like i just want to look

[lakevida]

the menstrual cup and menstrual scepter

[lakevida]

your majesty what is upppp

[super-sootica]

the menstrual sword to be wielded by the chosen ones

[fluorescentbrains]

this lab safety training module is sending me

[fluorescentbrains]

I feel like whoever wrote these questions was speaking from experience

[super-sootica]

[anglaised]

eating disorder culture being normalized will not win in this house if nothing else i need other ppl to know they need to fight this as much as possible yall cannot let this shit happen to you please dont fall for it

[super-sootica]

So interested in how Gen Alpha are gonna be

Hello young people, what's happening?

[super-sootica]

Look at you, submitting to the mortifying ordeal of being known.

[maximumthrill]

VEGETA

[pun-ishment888]

Possible case for Vegeta defeating bugs bunny.

[mewvore]

"we detected a mature post" yeah I'm in my 30s