that kind of light

Hello there! ^^ christy|'98|she/her| Welcome to my personal + multifandom + art (#ctdoodle)! blog

[delicourse]

just some gals bein pals

[kat-of-letters]

i know that “don’t harass people for being weird, they might be autistic!” is a fairly popular take on here. but as a Certified Autist, i’d like to add that harassing allistic and/or neurotypical people for being weird is also bad, and should not be done

and before you come in with “yeah, you never know who is and isn’t autistic, and you shouldn’t force people to out themselves!” i want to say two things: one, i agree. and two, even if you could magically avoid ever harassing a single autistic person, it still wouldn’t be okay to go after NTs for being weird. they’re people, janice. they’re allowed to be really invested in naruto

[blujayonthewing]

#stop playing the game of ‘who is it okay for me to hurt?’ #the answer is no one #the answer is ALWAYS going to be no one #none people is the correct number of people to hurt [X]

[yourerightcubey]

hunting for love, killing for pleasure

[vikturilovenikiforov]

[nolookfirmino-deactivated201904]

do men have resting bitch faces as well or do they not have negative characteristics ascribed to them for putting on a neutral rather than a deliriously happy facial expression

[12yearsaking-deactivated2015081]

Yes, Black men in majority white spaces do. If I don’t smile every single second of the day my coworkers become in intimidated and start asking me what’s wrong, telling me to smile, make jokes about how I’m trying to be a thug/act hard, why am I angry, etc. And it’s not just white men at my job God FORBID I my large Black ass makes a white girl feel threaten because I’m sitting down with a neutral expression.

I’m not trying to take this post away from women and make it about Black men but I want to point out that wether it’s patriarchy or white supremacy; those who feel as if they have power over you HATE to see you not smile. They are so used to people like you smiling to gain their approval that when you don’t there’s a cognitive dissonance that makes them extremely uncomfortable.

That’s why “angry Black women” is a thing. They have to put on a smile for everyone (yes even feminist white women) or we all get uncomfortable.

[naamahdarling]

This is such an amazing response.

[tofuslutsworld]

[yourdadsghoulfriend]

reading trump tweets as azula is sending meeee

[efuzel]

flora

[llybianlovescooljpegs]

I got you babe

[superfleuressence]

oh do I know it

[cali-cocaine]

this is good

[embyrr922]

I’d just like to add, see how they behave when they’re angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they’re calm, and then talk to them about it.

My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but after I explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration.

When I’m upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel like I’m mad at him, so now when I need some space, I’ll tell him what I’m upset about, or that I’m in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while.

See your friends and partners at their worst, but don’t assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they’ll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability.

[ladylike-foxes]

^^^^ This is the best advice I’ve ever seen on this site, and it is so important. Communication is everything, and is 80% of the reason my husband and I have such a healthy, strong, and supportive relationship.

[quotemadness]

“I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the stregth to start all over again.”

— F. Scott Fitzgerald

[viria]

Undercover Pretend Relationship AU in which the “pretending” part comes far too naturally❤️

[superfleuressence]

lelouch’s biggest turn on: suzaku valuing his own life

[she-who-fights-and-writes]

Hey everyone!

So this October I’m going to be doing OC-Tober by @tdnoodle-doodles because the creator of Inktober’s in hot water and I usually just draw my OCs anyway.

I’m planning on drawing my OCs from my book Wings if Faith, but you might just get some other OCs from my never-talked-about WIPs!

[bnha-ramblings]

I mean, he’s right but also some fucking tact, my dude

[king-of-the-youth]

[CH. 01] "MIDORIYA IZUKU: ORIGIN"

VS

[CH. 285] "BAKUGO KATSUKI: RISING"

[dailywonderduo]

勝デクLOG 3 ||  鉛錫

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