What Nandor needs is someone to teach him to prioritize identifying what he's feeling, as opposed to what he's thinking. He fails to communicate because his mind is such a mess. Thoughts are dangerous if there is no active awareness of the emotion, they can lead you to mistake.
Nandor was in panic "Where is Guillermo? Has he arrived yet?" because he expected to be rescued. Guillermo is not only his friend, he's also the bridge that connects him with humanity today. "This is all Guillermo's fault".
At some point, this crossed Nandor's mind: "He left me, but I can do this without him (again?)" referring to the end of S3, nothing more than a self-comfort thought, because let's face it: Nandor couldn't even pick out a suitable bag without Laszlo.
If Nandor had been conscious of his own feelings when Guillermo arrived, he might have said something like:
I needed you and you weren't here;
I felt abandoned all over again;
I was scare and I missed you being here to tell me what to do;
I feel in the dark. You don't tell me anything lately, left the house without letting me know and I didn't know how to find you;
I feel worthless. You've exclude me lately and I'm not sure if I can still count on you.
All these things would have informed Guillermo and given him the opportunity to do better. Guillermo was late, but he was there! Nandor, on the contrary, decided to say things he thinks.
It's a euphemism for "I don't need you. I don't want you". A counterproductive and false message to say the least. A manipulative tactic with intent to hurt Guillermo because he wanted him to suffer, to beg to stay, so that Nandor would feel better, valued again. Insted of being honest, Nandor punish Guillermo and still expects Guillermo to fight for him. 🤷🏻♀️
Guillermo is tired, he doesn't read minds. He will tire of making sacrifices and merely being tolerated by the vampires.
I love how my witch-skin-asshole-hat kind of joke TV show makes me laugh for 20 minutes, then later reflecting several days about it. We can learn a lot from Nandor's childishness; As kids we're often told to "shut up and swallow our tears" instead be taught to identify and deal with our feelings.
We need therapy too, many of us is Nandor in a smaller scale.
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