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[incorrect-clexa]

Lexa: I feel sad.

Clarke: I have emotional jumper cables! I’ll boost you. Just attach like so…

Lexa: This is just a hug.

Clarke: Is it working?

Lexa: Yeah

[vampiretamer]

yknow sometimes i think about sitting between two doms while they tease me and laugh to eachother about how cute i get when im flustered and i just die a lil

[shutyourmoustache]

[naamahdarling]

[jackwynandmoved-deactivated2017]

people who type lol when theyre mad are the people you have to watch out for theyll fucking stab you in the back in a dark alley and steal your wallet whispering “lol” all passive aggressively into your ear. same goes for “lmao”. Watch the fuck out

[eurval]

“Good girl” uhmmmm yes??? that’s me, now say it again

[angelicabaddon-deactivated20260]

i just think it’s a bit rude how there isn’t a vibrator in me that someone else is controlling idk. just a bit insulting. a bit upsetting.

[afterduskhowls]

Somno//

In the mood to gently rub circles between your legs, my fingers firm but careful. I want my lips to explore your neck and your cheek, watching you while I touch myself, gently stirring you awake because I want to ruin you while you're waking up.

[bigstrongbison]

bossy lil femmes are so cute

[bigstrongbison]

full disclosure, i do mean bossy brats that like to talk tough, but melt the second i push my hands up their skirt

[nolongersilkbox]

In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.

Can’t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.

Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don’t let it get to your head.

Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it’s a process that takes an hour? That’s alright, everyone’s different. 

Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That’s okay, you’re not broken, you’re not a failure.

Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That’s great, you’re not a slut, you’re not overly sensitive or dirty. 

Can’t cum without toys/vibrators? That’s awesome, that’s a valid part of sexual play!

Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That’s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!

Can’t orgasm at all? THAT’S ALSO COOL. It’s not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.

Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they’re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be. 

[oldenoughtobeyourfather]

This one’s a pretty big deal.  “Did you come?”  

No, but it still felt great

Yes, and it felt really great

Yes, but coming isn’t that big a deal for me

No, can you keep going?

Yes, can you keep going?

No, do you want to watch me get myself off?

Yes, but don’t get a big head about it – I come so easily it doesn’t matter what you do.

No, but I bet I can get you up again

Yes, but I’d rather keep edging because I always get a huge drop after coming and it really puts me off sex for a while

No, thank you, orgasm denial leaves me deliciously horny for days

No, and I’m really frustrated, let’s brainstorm how to change that

All of these are fucking awesome answers.  Including the last one.  They’re also 100% legitimate answers.  Including the last one.

Only the last one is even a little bit “negative,” and, really, how bad, arrogant, or egocentric a lover do you have to be that you’d rather not know when your partner says “here are some great ways to help me come next time, lover?”

If on the other hand you’re going to panic or be unhappy about that last answer then you’re not a bad lover (no shame either way) but your sex life will be less workable.  With the result that you’ll continue having, well, the same result.

To be honest, whether you or your partner comes isn’t the most important thing about sex.  It’s whether you’re both satisfied afterwards.  The only trick being that 

You get to decide what “satisfied” means for you

You don’t get to decide what “satisfied” means for your partner(s.)  

Asking “did you come” isn’t really the right question.  “Does this work for you” is way healthier.  That’s the culture we want to look for and encourage.

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P.S. Your partner isn’t a video game.  His or her orgasms aren’t a boss fight.  The question you want to ask isn’t “did I beat the previous high score” but “would you like to play again.”

[laplazes]

not to be nsfw on nsfw blog but when you get off riding them and they’re not finished so they flip you over and fuck you through hypersensitivity and you can barely form words and you’re just shaking and it’s only after you get off a second time that they let you beg them to cum in you

[movedto-honeyyfem]

missionary so you can pin my wrists down to prevent me from hiding my face and enjoy how much i blush and squirm

[thetalkingguineapig]

[boibutch]

i love the idea of taking care of a sub gently and sweetly.. telling you how beautiful you are, what a good girl you’re being for me, while i slowly fuck you with my fingers. bonus points if it makes you blushy and embarrassed to be praised.. you wanna hide your face but you’re spread open and vulnerable under me, debauched and beautiful.

[klngly]

Subs are so fun to play with. All you have to do is hint at what you might do, or back them into a corner with a look, or grab their wrist in a certain way and they’re a wide-eyed mess.

[melodramatic-murmurs]

imagine: you casually slide your hand into my panties while we’re in the middle of a conversation. you start rubbing my clit an teasing my pussy lips. all the while, you’re still talking to me as if nothing out of the ordinary is happening. i’m trying my best to keep the conversation going… but the more you touch me, the harder it becomes to form words, let alone coherent sentences. i’d get all flustered and embarrassed. my nipples would harden. my sentences would be punctuated with little whimpers and moans. i’d spread my legs for you without realising. i’d start grinding and riding your fingers without realising. i’m so easy. i turn into your drooly, needy, messy slut with almost no effort on your part. 

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[blackbird-sir]

dirty talking is so fucking hot, especially when they get close to you and their voice drops and they’re whispering hotly into your ear, and you can just feel every word pooling like heat in your stomach

[odeofagentlegiant-deactivated20]

Yes angel, fuck yourself on my fingers. You’re such a good girl, aren’t you? You’re taking them so well for me, you like being fill by me hm? My pathetic dumb baby loves being full? Fuck yourself harder then, or I won’t let you cum.