[syntheticvanilla]

𓈒 ◌ ° 𓂂 𓂃 welcome ~~ 𓂂 ⚙️📙✧

I’m Amanda, but you can call me Amy if you’d like! I’m 19 and in my freshman year of college. I’ve been in and out of the selfshipping/yume community for a few years. I’m looking for more self ship friends, so if you’d like to be mutuals feel free to shoot me an ask or a message! I follow from @par-ty but my main blog is @junecast-moonfast.

✧🧪🥽 𓂂 𓂃 more under the cut ~~ 𓂂° ◌ 𓈒

My only f/o is Viktor from League of Legends. I’m very casual about self shipping, so I’m comfortable with sharing my f/o and with my f/o being shipped with other characters. I know a lot of people aren’t comfy with sharing though, so I won’t be offended if you block me for having the same f/o!

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[mrs-goemio]

Just because someone is comfortable sharing their f/o doesn’t mean they value their relationship any less or take it less seriously than someone who doesn’t share. If sharing their f/o feels right for them, that’s perfectly okay and 100% valid! It doesn’t make their love or connection to that f/o any less meaningful.

[weirdoslovingweirdos]

raise your hand if you have a f/o that gets treated kinda (or very) poorly by the source’s writers

[a-silly-bunny]

WHATEVER YOU DO do NOT think about bringing your overworking F/O a tea or coffee while they work

DO NOT think about how they would look at you in surprise before hoarsely saying 'thank you' in response

[muttship]

selfship affirmations:

i CAN put them in the mincrowave

i CAN put them in the blender

i CAN put them in the salad tosser

i CAN put them in my mouth and chew them up

i CAN shake them around like a dog toy

i CAN throw them at the wall like a ball

[jpeg-indulgence]

To all the self shippers sorry your f/o was just talking to me and yeaahhhh it turns out they like really like you. That whole "but if they were real they'd hate me" thing, yeah, sorry, it turns out they actually really fucking love you like they would not shut up about it damn sorry.

[bobmckenzie]

"I can fix him" "I can make him worse" OK well I can sit behind him and wrap my arms around his middle and comfortingly rock him side to side

[have-an-fo-who]

Poll suggestion: Do you have an F/O who was screwed over by the writers/creators of their source media?

- I do

- I don't

- I'm hoping not (source media is incomplete/ongoing)

Do you have an F/O who was screwed over by the writers/creators of their source media?

I do

I do not

I do not.... yet

Voting ended onDec 12, 2024

[averageselfshipblog]

heyyy shoutout to the selfshippers who struggle with feeling lovey-dovey about their f/o(s).

maybe you don't think about them very often. maybe you can't imagine being affectionate with them. maybe you don't gush about them, or you find it hard to articulate how you feel about them. maybe you're not very active on your selfship blog, or maybe you don't have one in the first place. maybe you're neurodivergent or somewhere on the ace spectrum. maybe you're just independent.

for any reason at all, your f/o(s) would understand.

they know that affection is only one aspect of the feeling of love, and they would never assume that you "don't actually love" them just because you're less dependent on them. they would try to understand how you express your love in your own unique way, and they would give you all the space you need without crossing your boundaries or forcing anything on you. they would be patient and work with you to make sure both of your needs are met.

(pro/comship please do not interact.)

[lilacwine1966-deactivated202212]

There is nothing more tender than playing with someone’s hands…..it sounds so dumb but stroking each other’s palms & tapping on each other’s wrists & twisting your fingers together & squeezing each other’s hands…..it’s like having a conversation that no one else can hear!

[ripflownosis]

selfshippers who have finals/exams/just a lot of schoolwork to do,your F/O(s) is/are cheering you on!!! or helping you study,if you're struggling..

[sunflowerfroggie]

SAVE ME SELFSHIP!!!!!

[everynya]

f/os that bond with you in a way only the two of you understand, doing things that most could never see as an act of love yet to you and your f/o it is the ultimate show of adoration and devotion. just…doing things that aren’t inherently romantic but when you do it with your f/o, it holds a whole new meaning. maybe it’s tradition, maybe you invented it together or hell, it was second nature from the start. in the end, you always look to one another in the midst and know you’ve found someone who you can define what life is with.

[dantesbooty]

mE??? in lo ve wtih…vidEO GAE M CH ARCTR???? h aha no……taht woudl be ST UPID……video ga em cahrcter…..just plygons……..

[vergils-beloved]

pssst hey you, selfshipper. think about your f/o thinking about how unbelievably attractive you are. they're sitting somewhere by themselves but still can't stop themselves from covering their face with their hands because of how flustered they are. they're rotating you in their brain rlly hard

[yellowbirdies]

Inserting yourself/your self insert into canon events that occur in your f/o’s universe really does feel like this sometimes:

[dandydiary]

incredibly endeared by f/os who don't know how to comfort you. they don't know what to do when you come apart in front of them, shaking, starting to sob as the weight of your woes finally bears down on you.

they know what they're meant to do. they're meant to hold you, and kiss you, tell you it's going to be okay and make it real. they're meant to let you sob into their chest or their shoulder, feeling your arms around them as you let their words soothe you until you can smile again.

...but that's not who they are, it's not what they do- do they even know how? do they know where to put their hands when they go to embrace you? do the words come to them naturally or are they floundering for something, anything they heard from a poet or a story that made it sound so easy.

instead they're left standing, hoping desperately you can feel how badly they want to take your pain from you. then following you down when you fall, kneeling besides your shaking form. they reach out slowly, hesitently, rubbing your back or resting their hand comfortingly on your head.

their voice is rough when they speak, almost awkward - it's- it's alright. - scooting closer on their knees, huddling closer to you so even if they're not holding you you can feel them. i'm here.

and they are, and maybe that's enough. 💖